About This File
it was bugging me how every man in the game except the male pc can't seem to hold it in for more than a couple of seconds so i made a mod to even the playing field.
this mod makes it so that pc-male sex finishes work the same way as when you're female: you have to make a decision where you finish within a set time or you're going to finish inside your partner. The buttons will fade out before defaulting to "cum inside". the mod is for if you want there to be a genuine risk of finishing inside girls instead of always being able to pull out if you want from a game mechanics perspective. it's intended to makesex as a man a bit riskier, or a lot riskier depending on how you configure it (since no one seems to have heard of a condom in XCL).
it has some config options in a settings menu so you can customize the QTE time and difficulty. I made it for use with SWP side effects standalone, and it should work with pregmod too although i haven't tested this and i don't use pregmod so not sure if the functionality overlaps somehow.
anyway, hope someone enjoys this 
base game overwrites and mod compatibility:
this mod overwrites the ":: girl cum options" passage in the base game. this means that there may be slight issues with other mods that overwrite or change this passage.
specifically, some bar girl mods may either change or add to this passage to support available media. currently i'm aware of the 3 newest versions of the purple bar girls (daisy, izzy and ariel) which do this so I have added explicit compatibility for these - i think it should work with any version of them but i only tested the most recent.
if you have a different mod that behaves oddly with this mod, ideally post on the discord server or alternatively here and i can put out an update for it. however, even without explicit compatibility this mod should still function, you may just end up with an extra button which doesn't fade like the others, or alternatively you won't have access to one of the finish options that would otherwise be available.
Edited by lacie_
What's New in Version 0.3
Released
fixed the duplicated option bug, streamlined the code logic, and added some support for purple bar girls
sorry i think i initially uploaded the wrong file - this one should work. you can use 0.2 if you're not using the purpled mod + purple bar girls