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Death of the little boy


Evaloves4

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After excellent sex we had under the shower, my Prince went to the kitchen to prepare vegetable and fruit salad supper for us. Mikey woke up, I changed his diaper and breastfed him. My Ivy turned on TV and we watched news on local channel in Italian. Hearing the news about four years old boy dying in the car on +50 C, whom his father let alone due to some private business, we were sadden and my Ivy addressed him many insults and swears in Italian so Mikey wouldn’t understand because we believe he understands a lot of Croatian. My Prince heard her and he immediately came to the living room. He asked us what happened. My Ivy told him. The death of the little boy really shook him hard although such news is not new news. Unfortunately, it happens all the time. Every summer. It is shocking and sad, but I guess it hits you more when you are parent yourself . He was furious and sad in same time. He took Mikey from my arms who smiled at him widely and he started to cry kissing and “love youing” him. Mikey started to cry too because he was crying. My Prince told him he’s sorry for making him cry still kissing his face. When they both calmed, he said to us very seriously:

- Promise me, you will NEVER leave Mikey or our children alone in the car or out of your sight, because, I swear: no matter how much I love you, if they die like that poor boy or if anything happened to them because you were careless and irresponsible, I will never forgive you! My life will be over! Now promise!

Oh, my goooood! I didn’t expect this. I was in shock! My Ivy wasn’t, like she expected him saying something like that. I was scared. If anything similar to that child happen to our children, he surely will die in sorrow and our marriage will fall apart. I know him that much and couldn’t imagine my life without him or Ivy or both of them. Anyway, we approached to him, kissed him and my Ivy said to him:

- I would rather die then letting anything happen to Mikey and our *daughter! I promise, my love. (*My Ivy is convinced she is carrying a baby girl and we support her although our love for her baby won’t be lesser if it will be a boy).

I said the same. He gave Mikey to me and he kneeled before my Ivy. He wrapped his arms around her hips and kissing her tummy he said:

- I love you very much, my daughter. I can’t wait for you to be born. You’ll be our angel and princess.

We were very touched and my Ivy showered him with kisses and “love yous” while we were both crying and making Mikey cry again. He spent hours with Mikey carrying him around, singing to him, kissing him, telling him how much he loves him and having him sleep on his chest. If I like anything at my Prince besides things I mentioned in my diaries, it is that he takes parenthood very seriously. When I was with my Ivy in the bedroom kissing and cuddling. I told her that I love her daughter and that I will do my best to be her second mom. She told me she knows. My Prince and I kissed her tummy every morning and night saying to our daughter how much we love her. She sits in his lap more then me, for she loves when he is cuddling and kissing her tummy just as he did to me when I was pregnant.

 

 

During the morning coffee with our parents next morning, he told them about little boy’s death in the car and our promise to him that we’ll never let our children out of our sight. He asked them to promise the same. They said they saw the news and were terrified. They promised they will not do the same mistake. Our parents talked to Mikey in Italian whenever they hold him or babysitting him. My Fran too. Mikey was very confused at the beginning but he adopted to it very quickly. He develops very fast. He is holding his upper body much longer now and he absorbs the world around him. My Prince is still the only one who always “steal” his big smile first and Mikey always reacts very lively when he sees him. His coos turns into joyful screaming, body shaking, hands waving and legs kicking..

 

 

As for my Prince, he didn’t have any incident. He was very busy helping teams doing their jobs smoothly and neat. Although he is a workaholic, he is very happy that he will go on maternity leave at the beginning of the next month for he will be more with Mikey. My Ivy is very happy too because they will be more together. She is still extremely addicted to him in every way. Me? I love to be with Mikey and them, but I’m glad I’ll return to the work. I miss it. We had a video conference with mister “XXX” this morning during the morning coffee with family. He was glad to hear that Ivy is pregnant and he congratulated her and my Prince. He wanted to see Mikey. When I brought him and showed him to him, he prattled saying that he is little angel. Mikey was confused for he was hearing third language (English) but he cooed for he found it interesting.

 

 

Lidija and her fiancée will start to live together in Monday. They found very nice apartment in our neighborhood, some 10 minutes of driving from us. We asked them if they need something and they said they need a new microwave. We went to shop together and they picked the model they like. We bought it for them as a gift for moving to the new flat. My Ivy made us laugh when she slapped her ass, winked and asked her if they need some “sex equipment”. Of course, Lidija blushed and called her perverted and sick. No matter how many times she repeats her “insults” it is still very funny to us, especially to my Prince. Anyway, they promised they will visited us more often now since they will live near.

 

 

It’s weekend and we will stay at home tomorrow. Antonio will visit us in the afternoon. We’ll have a family lunch with my parents in Sunday at their house. Moms will cook. Have a nice weekend LL.

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:O I have to admit the title had me a bit worried for a second. I would never leave my kids or nephews and niece alone like that never have never will. Prince's promise reminded me of how kids being kidnaped is a common thing around here and the choice I'd make that could possibly take my life in order to find them.:(

 

while I was typing this Elena got poop all up her back and needed cleaning.... and then she threw up and my mom had to clean her again. At Least it took my mind of the depressing thoughts. I came to the rescue to help them. :wink::thumbsup:

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Just a note, very few marriages survive the death of a child.  In our country the law will charge a parent or guardian with murder if they leave a child in a car. Also the law will protect anyone who comes to the rescue of a child in danger like that no matter how much damage they have to do to the car to get them out.

1 hour ago, Jayomms said:

kids being kidnaped is a common thing around here

What country do you live in where such a thing is "common"

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10 minutes ago, dharvinia said:

Just a note, very few marriages survive the death of a child.  In our country the law will charge a parent or guardian with murder if they leave a child in a car. Also the law will protect anyone who comes to the rescue of a child in danger like that no matter how much damage they have to do to the car to get them out.

What country do you live in where such a thing is "common"

U.S.A.

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13 hours ago, Jayomms said:

:O I have to admit the title had me a bit worried for a second. I would never leave my kids or nephews and niece alone like that never have never will. Prince's promise reminded me of how kids being kidnaped is a common thing around here and the choice I'd make that could possibly take my life in order to find them.:(

 

while I was typing this Elena got poop all up her back and needed cleaning.... and then she threw up and my mom had to clean her again. At Least it took my mind of the depressing thoughts. I came to the rescue to help them. :wink::thumbsup:

> It is very commending that you are responsible uncle. My prince would surely like you for that. :)

If someone will kidnap our son, I can tell you for sure: we will rise all our known and unknown connection to find him and when we do, that person is DEAD, female or male - is DEAD.

 

> Elena is little angel. I put the video you sent me on my laptop and tablet desktop and I watch her very often. Can't wait for Mikey to be able to sit.

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12 hours ago, dharvinia said:

Just a note, very few marriages survive the death of a child.  In our country the law will charge a parent or guardian with murder if they leave a child in a car. Also the law will protect anyone who comes to the rescue of a child in danger like that no matter how much damage they have to do to the car to get them out.

What country do you live in where such a thing is "common"

> You see, if our son dies because of our fault, our marriage is over. If it would be our parents' fault, he will not speak with them till he or them dies. If it would be "X" person's fault, he'll be able to kill that person.

 

> Yours laws are similar to ours, but the penalty of the quilt person is not satisfactory.

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There's a radio advertisement around here that I hear every so often for just not leaving your kids in the car by accident. You think "Oh what's this one trying to sell me" and then it's just all "Hey, maybe don't forget you had kids and then put them in a car. 'Cause they'll fucking die, man." 

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11 hours ago, SpyVsPie said:

There's a radio advertisement around here that I hear every so often for just not leaving your kids in the car by accident. You think "Oh what's this one trying to sell me" and then it's just all "Hey, maybe don't forget you had kids and then put them in a car. 'Cause they'll fucking die, man." 

> Similar info our guards on the Hotel beach and receptionists says several times during the day. Some big malls does it too, but most places doesn't even have a written signs which is bad and sad :(

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7 hours ago, EvalovesEP said:

> Similar info our guards on the Hotel beach and receptionists says several times during the day. Some big malls does it too, but most places doesn't even have a written signs which is bad and sad :(

It just seems to me that if a 20 second radio ad is the only thing between someone and abandoning their baby in a hot car then they have much bigger issues.

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1 hour ago, SpyVsPie said:

It just seems to me that if a 20 second radio ad is the only thing between someone and abandoning their baby in a hot car then they have much bigger issues.

I am afraid to say it. but a) I share your conclusion and b) unfortunately it is still making a difference. :classic_sad:

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