That's the thing when you love someone so much it hurts you more when you hurt them physically especially on accident and it can't be difficult to forgive yourself. You are able to see the vastness of your love when you mentally punish yourself from such a situation. But don't worry now you guys know next time not to do such risky activity when your energy is being disturbed. 

7 hours ago, Jayomms said:

That's the thing when you love someone so much it hurts you more when you hurt them physically especially on accident and it can't be difficult to forgive yourself. You are able to see the vastness of your love when you mentally punish yourself from such a situation. But don't worry now you guys know next time not to do such risky activity when your energy is being disturbed. 

I never met anyone like my Prince. When he intentionally and accidentally hurts the person he loves, he can't forgive himself and he will do anything to make it up, even harm himself. Such a unique person with very sensitive consciousness. He is still sad and inconsolable. He is with us and yet, not with us. His very soul is crying and we can see it on his face. He has no will for anything. My poor Prince. if I can take his burden upon myself, I'll do it will all my heart. Ivy and I kiss him, hug him and "love you" him all the time.

BTW: there is good news for his condition. We talked to Antonio who will bring and install boxing bag on the balcony so he can steam off. He said it is much better then pills. So when my Prince will feel very stressed and tensed he will kick boxing bag. Ivy and I know it will help him.

Thank you for your comment and participation in our lives.

3 hours ago, EvalovesEP said:

I never met anyone like my Prince. When he intentionally and accidentally hurts the person he loves, he can't forgive himself and he will do anything to make it up, even harm himself. Such a unique person with very sensitive consciousness. He is still sad and inconsolable. He is with us and yet, not with us. His very soul is crying and we can see it on his face. He has no will for anything. My poor Prince. if I can take his burden upon myself, I'll do it will all my heart. Ivy and I kiss him, hug him and "love you" him all the time.

 

BTW: there is good news for his condition. We talked to Antonio who will bring and install boxing bag on the balcony so he can steam off. He said it is much better then pills. So when my Prince will feel very stressed and tensed he will kick boxing bag. Ivy and I know it will help him.

 

Thank you for your comment and participation in our lives.

 Getting the bag is a great idea. I think I mentioned something of the sort a while back in order to steam off because my sister told me that we should have one to.

4 hours ago, Jayomms said:

 Getting the bag is a great idea. I think I mentioned something of the sort a while back in order to steam off because my sister told me that we should have one to.

The bag is set. Check my profile about it.

It was an accident alright, those things do happen in martial arts. Now, I'm under the impression that being able to do something comes with the temptation of using it. Ivy seems to have understood it from the behavior she had with Prince's gun, but same goes for the high kick, and same goes for training kicks anyway with an injured foot I think. Sometimes, just "not" doing something is a better choice.

People who are of a rather passive/inhibited type often need to learn when they should act ; people who are of the active/dynamic type often need to learn when to refrain doing things. You three can do amazing things (that kick being an example), but Prince and Ivy are rather of the active type, and thus knowing when not to do something/take action might require take some experience for them.

Anyway, I'm glad about the exams, I with Ivy a swift recovery, and hopefully with time Prince's foot will heal so he will be able to cool down at the beach.

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On 6/3/2018 at 3:58 AM, Jayomms said:

But don't worry now you guys know next time not to do such risky activity when your energy is being disturbed. 

Just don't do it in "random" training I think. Doing so in "repetitive" training could be safer though, as it is much easier to block and react when you know beforehand what type of attack is coming. That's what karate trainees do most of the time, and that's a good way to train at rather powerful kicks (provided you know the parry though).  

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Sometimes, just "not" doing something is a better choice.

 

People who are of a rather passive/inhibited type often need to learn when they should act ; people who are of the active/dynamic type often need to learn when to refrain doing things. You three can do amazing things (that kick being an example), but Prince and Ivy are rather of the active type, and thus knowing when not to do something/take action might require take some experience for them.

AGREE!   They both have issues with being still and idle for they are both, especially my Prince very restless and active.

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Prince's foot will heal so he will be able to cool down at the beach.

It healed in Wednesday. The problem was that when he is extremely tensed as he was in Saturday, even sex, swimming in the sea, lifting weights doesn't help him. I mean, it does, but only on short terms. Those extreme tension times are rare (mostly during the summer), but when they come he needs something very "aggressive", like fighting. Antonio was our savior. He realized the true problem and he offered solution. Kicking the kick bag is 100% efficient to my Prince. You should of seen him. LOL. He kicked it with elbows, palms, fists, knees and feet like he is fighting with someone. After that "therapy" angry lion turns to meek lamb. ( I sooooo love him). Ivy also started to use the kick bag, but not to steam off. She is using it to control/improve the strength of her kicks and punches without fear that she might hurt my Prince in sparring.

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Just don't do it in "random" training I think. Doing so in "repetitive" training could be safer though, as it is much easier to block and react when you know beforehand what type of attack is coming. That's what karate trainees do most of the time, and that's a good way to train at rather powerful kicks (provided you know the parry though)

They do random sparring only when they master certain kicks and defense. Let me give you example. They both like the "Boyka undisputed" movies. The guy who plays the role of Boyka is their martial arts model. They copy and imitate his fighting skill. Thanks to him, my Prince improved his leg technique and he can do few very good tricky leg kicks. So, before they learn the moves they want and need, they repeatedly practice it slightly speeding up the kicks until both of them are 100% sure that they will block it or avoid it. My Prince was too fast for my Ivy when he kicked her in the nose. When he is extremely tensed he hardly can control his speed and the power of his punches and kicks. He had a feeling that he might hurt Ivy, but, she, crazy witch, forced him to spar. She learned the lesson now. So, in short, my luvs are very disciplined in training martial arts and they do not go to random or free style sparring until they are completely sure they mastered the kick/defense/avoid moves.

Anyway, your suggestions and instruction are good and they know it. My Prince won't risk hurting Ivy and injuries during the sparring if they both don't know what they are doing.   Thank you for your observation.