Jump to content
  • entries
    899
  • comments
    4,463
  • views
    87,757

Bero & Claudia


Evaloves4

591 views

Two things happened yesterday, one unpleasant and one very pleasant. Those of you who read my diaries would surely remember my visit to the center for autism, Dawn Syndrome, and other handicaps center with my Prince on Valentine's and how was I thrilled with deaf and legless people dancing in rhythm. Well, there was a couple that caught my attention, a 45-year-old *Bero with Dawn syndrome and 42 years old blond deaf and lame *Claudia with light retardation too (*fake names). I couldn’t get them out of my mind because I had noticed they had been in love and it intrigued me. So, I called the center and introduced myself calling upon Mom Zdenka, a close principal’s friend. They connected me with her and I said why I called: I wanted to buy them lunch in our Hotel and learn about their love. The principal remembered me from the Valentine's dance and she was thrilled with my idea. She asked them if they would like to meet me and have lunch with me in the Hotel. They agreed and the center’s driver took them to the Hotel. I asked my Prince if he would be my translator from and into sign language. He agreed.

 

 

When they arrived at the Hotel, they were thrilled with it and when coming with us to the restaurant, they changed their mind about having lunch with me saying that the place was too fancy for them and they were not comfortable in it. So, I offered them another place outside the Hotel they accepted. My Ivy joined as our bodyguard. I took them to a more “normal” restaurant where they immediately felt comfortable and relaxed. They ordered hamburgers and fries since they love them a lot and they made us smile when they said they would have hamburgers at their wedding, although they do not know when it would be. Anyway, I asked them how they fell in love. They started to tell us and my Prince translated to my Ivy and me. Oh, my, their story was sooo romantic that I couldn’t resist to hug them and wish them the best. (I won’t bother you with their love story). It would be completely great if two jerks didn’t come to the restaurant and commented out loud:

- What the fuck an idiot and a blond bitch are doing in a place like this?! (They were talking about Bero and Claudia)

My Prince and Ivy reacted immediately. They beat them hard. (You have to understand that my Prince had a deaf sister with cerebral palsy (left side of the body) who was almost raped twice and humiliated many times because of her handicap. That’s why he hates the people like those two). But their action scared Bero and Claudia who cryingly begged me to take them back to the center. They didn’t want to be near my luvs, so I called my Fran to drive us back to the center. My luvs returned to the Hotel. Unfortunately, the incident in the restaurant turned into a much-complicated thing. Although my luvs protected Bero and Claudia from further insult and humiliation, we were asked to never contact them again. Mom Zdenka heard about the incident from the principal and she tried to explain to her why my luvs did it, but it didn’t help. According to the rules and bylaws of the center (No violence at any cost), my Prince and Ivy committed an unforgivable “crime”. They felt sorry they failed. They wanted to apologize to Bero, Claudia, and the principal, but they were rejected. As you can see, sometimes somebody’s good intentions can have a negative impact. The lesson is learned.

 

 

But the good and delightful event was our daughter’s birthday. We celebrated when we arrived home after work. Won’t bother you with details but, will tell you that everything went well, Precious was happy and she liked to be in the focus. That’s all I will share with you in this diary.:classic_smile:

Edited by Evaloves4

6 Comments


Recommended Comments

worik

Posted

:classic_sad: I could have warned them before. 

Nice people like Bero & Claudia are very sensitive to certain events. Violence is  one of those highly disturbing things.

On the positive: You hugging them is  the small thing for you, but (if they accept your physical touch) very uplifting for them.

 

In fact, it’s much more complicated than I can write in 2 sentences. :classic_unsure:

Evaloves4

Posted

34 minutes ago, worik said:

:classic_sad: I could have warned them before. 

Nice people like Bero & Claudia are very sensitive to certain events. Violence is  one of those highly disturbing things.

On the positive: You hugging them is  the small thing for you, but (if they accept your physical touch) very uplifting for them.

 

In fact, it’s much more complicated than I can write in 2 sentences. :classic_unsure:

> Thank you for your comment, Mrs. worik💋

 

> First, my luvs reacted impulsively. They didn't plan to attack them. I guess their behavior triggered my Prince's anger for only he knows what was his sister going through.

> None of us are well informed about the people with Dawn syndrome and light retardation. maybe, and I say, maybe my luvs would react differently if we knew about those two dysfunctions.

> Third, I don't know why they accepted me and let me hug them. Maybe they just saw/felt my genuine love for them. I respect that.

worik

Posted

1 hour ago, Evaloves4 said:

Third, I don't know why they accepted me and let me hug them. Maybe they just saw/felt my genuine love for them. I respect that.

Most are very sensitive to emotions. I am pretty sure, they sensed your good intent. And that’s a very very good thing that you did🫶

 

Oh my, it sounds so technical and inhuman how I write that. :classic_unsure:

Evaloves4

Posted

8 hours ago, worik said:

Most are very sensitive to emotions. I am pretty sure, they sensed your good intent. And that’s a very very good thing that you did🫶

 

Oh my, it sounds so technical and inhuman how I write that. :classic_unsure:

> Your words melted my heart. Thank you for your encouragement.

Jay-Omms

Posted

You see violent situations is something for Prince to consider for those who witness it even though the ones who ask for it have it coming. It can't still terrify people even though if it's the bad people on the receiving ass whopping end. No one really wants to see anyone getting hurt. There gots to be another way to handle things like when Prince asked the taxi driver if he has anyone he cares about bringing the bad people to see reason. That was a good step in the right direction at least. I remember he sometimes fails the speech checks but never give up on it. It's not easy there are alot of uncaring people out there they just need to wake up to what they're doing. I know Prince is making good progress for far. It's good to see he is aware. I'm not scolding or upset or anything. It wasn't easy for me either. :sweat_smile::heart:;):thumbsup:

Evaloves4

Posted

5 hours ago, Jay-Omms said:

You see violent situations is something for Prince to consider for those who witness it even though the ones who ask for it have it coming. It can't still terrify people even though if it's the bad people on the receiving ass whopping end. No one really wants to see anyone getting hurt. There gots to be another way to handle things like when Prince asked the taxi driver if he has anyone he cares about bringing the bad people to see reason. That was a good step in the right direction at least. I remember he sometimes fails the speech checks but never give up on it. It's not easy there are alot of uncaring people out there they just need to wake up to what they're doing. I know Prince is making good progress for far. It's good to see he is aware. I'm not scolding or upset or anything. It wasn't easy for me either. :sweat_smile::heart:;):thumbsup:

 

> Very good point here. You see my prince exactly the way I do. Many thanks.:heart:


×
×
  • Create New...