We.... well most of us learn from our wrong doings and learn to be better people because of it. I also have done things that were illegal but we learn the hard way as my dad use to alway tell my brother and I. Thank goodness we made it out alive for I believe now that an angel must have been watching over us.  

2 hours ago, Jay-Omms said:

We.... well most of us learn from our wrong doings and learn to be better people because of it. I also have done things that were illegal but we learn the hard way as my dad use to alway tell my brother and I. Thank goodness we made it out alive for I believe now that an angel must have been watching over us.  

> When I said we were shocked to hear him telling us he was a bad guy, it wasn't a disappointed shock but a surprised shock for we would never connect him with any crime or mischief. Being ashamed of his past made him often sad and withdrawn. I didn't mention in the diary that he was doing it because he wanted to financially help his family. I didn't say it because I didn't want to make him like he was making excuses for misdoing.

> I also cannot imagine you on the other side of the law and I am glad you got out of it too.

I am always thankful that video recorders were large and bulky during my teen years and early 20s, so there is no proof of anything that I did.    However, as members of my family are in law enforcement, not to mention my own career, my indiscretions were mostly involving sneaking in and out of windows........umm.....to save a young maiden(s) of course.   (Note:  I was young too, so no illegal stuff). 

Sure it was to save them from their boring evenings and as a courtesy to her parents, I would sneak back out later because...well...umm....I didn't want to wake the parents (esp the dad) up.    See how considerate I am!

Anyway, the best part is that your Prince has found someone (or two) that he trusts with these secrets, which will likely help make the relationship stronger.    We expose our vulnerabilities to those we trust, hoping that our trust is not misplaced.  

As for the Internet having ears.....well.......it is more of a "once you post it, it is out there forever".   The good news is that hardly anyone cares about everyone so most of us are safe.   Still, I fully agree with your discretion in keeping "komprat" off the LL pages.

3 hours ago, steelpanther24 said:

I am always thankful that video recorders were large and bulky during my teen years and early 20s, so there is no proof of anything that I did.    However, as members of my family are in law enforcement, not to mention my own career, my indiscretions were mostly involving sneaking in and out of windows........umm.....to save a young maiden(s) of course.   (Note:  I was young too, so no illegal stuff). 

 

Sure it was to save them from their boring evenings and as a courtesy to her parents, I would sneak back out later because...well...umm....I didn't want to wake the parents (esp the dad) up.    See how considerate I am!

 

Anyway, the best part is that your Prince has found someone (or two) that he trusts with these secrets, which will likely help make the relationship stronger.    We expose our vulnerabilities to those we trust, hoping that our trust is not misplaced.  

 

As for the Internet having ears.....well.......it is more of a "once you post it, it is out there forever".   The good news is that hardly anyone cares about everyone so most of us are safe.   Still, I fully agree with your discretion in keeping "komprat" off the LL pages.

> My Prince fully trusts my Ivy and me. It took him 7 years to do that, but he did it. He knows we would never judge him, reject him, or stop loving him for whatever reason. That's the power of love, if you ask me, the same his father had for him.

On 10/21/2023 at 9:13 PM, Evaloves4 said:

> When I said we were shocked to hear him telling us he was a bad guy, it wasn't a disappointed shock but a surprised shock for we would never connect him with any crime or mischief. Being ashamed of his past made him often sad and withdrawn. I didn't mention in the diary that he was doing it because he wanted to financially help his family. I didn't say it because I didn't want to make him like he was making excuses for misdoing.

Oh yeah I understood that and figured as much. I'm also glad those days are over and done with too.