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I don’t envy you

Evaloves4

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When my Prince heard that the whole family will be participating in expenses for our new air-conditioning system, he was angry with me and my Ivy.

Prince (angrily): How could you accept it since you know my attitude about it? Did you two suggest it, huh?

Me (gently): Honey, we know how you feel about that matter, but first, we didn’t suggest it, our parents did, especially dad Boss, and second, we accept it since we already cleaned our bank accounts by buying new home electric devices. We simply have no money for air conditioning investment. Everybody knew that and wanted to help.

Prince (determined): We’ll take no money from anyone! If we can’t afford it, we won’t buy it! Period!

Then he angrily walked away. My Ivy and I accepted family money participation because we thought he’d be glad we solved his cooling problem. We were wrong. Then he suddenly went not telling us where. When he returned, he apologized for being angry, kissed us and said:

- I just talked to dad Boss. He heard my opinion about the family’s financial involvement. When I refused to take it, he offered his money as a gift. I rejected it too. We had some verbal fight but he won at the end … Here is the new deal. Dad Boss will be our creditor. He will credit us for 6 months without interest. Ivy and I will work extra for Antonio and we’ll manage to repay the credit. Are you with me, Ivy?

Ivy: Of course, I am, honey. As always!

Me: I am glad you worked this out, my love. Let’s celebrate it with good sex.

We went to the bathroom and fucked under the shower. It was great. My Prince is … fascinating man in every sense. Although he is always fast to help others, he is too slow to accept help, especially financial help. He still didn’t change a bit in this matter and I doubt he ever will. But we love him the same. Something similar to what dad Boss told us sighing:

- I have never seen such a complicated and stubborn person as my son. He would rather die than accept the gift of love in the form of financial help … Children, although I love him very much, sometimes I do not envy you at all.

 

 

The weekend was in the sign of the family. Hearing about my Prince’s recovery, Antonio, Ivan, and Stipe organized a barbecue on our beach. Knowing that he doesn’t like to be in focus, Antonio replied to my Prince’s question about why he wants to have a party on our beach:

- Well, bro, we simply celebrate life! We are happy it is good to us!

My Prince and I blasted in laughter for he improvised very well. So, we had a great party yesterday. The whole family gathered. When we were enjoying cold beverages sitting in the circle around the fire, while our children slept in the shack and after my luvs played their guitars and sung, Malicija had a very special request:

- Eva, although we know your love story, would you be kind to tell us how you fell in love with Ivy and later, with Prince?

Antonio: And we want to hear every single spicy detail.

Dad: Don’t you dare, Eva! If you respect us, your parents, you will not do it!

We all laughed hard. Then I started to tell from the beginning; how I met my Ivy, how I fell in love with her, how I longed and searched for true love, how I was unfortunate and disappointed in men because I was abused, tricked, lied and similar until I met my Prince who loved me and accepted me just as I am and how he changed my Ivy’s and my life. I told them that if I lived millions or billions of lives, I would always choose my Ivy and Prince. Everyone was very touched and several people discretely wiped their eyes. Malicija hugged me afterward and said that she was very moved by my story and that she wants to have that kind of love for her and Silvano. Anyway, when everyone left, the three of us made love in the sea shoal. It was perfect.

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steelpanther24

I missed several of your posts.   Thank you for keeping us up to date and I am very relieved to hear that everyone is making a recovery.   

 

I have mentioned before that my 'dated" belief is that the two main roles for a husband is the physical and finance security of his family, so I appreciate your Prince's stance on spending so much because, in the end, it is his responsibility.  

 

That said, sometimes a man might be overly cautious and need his wife (or wives) to convince him to take more risk. 

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Evaloves4
19 minutes ago, steelpanther24 said:

I missed several of your posts.   Thank you for keeping us up to date and I am very relieved to hear that everyone is making a recovery.   

 

I have mentioned before that my 'dated" belief is that the two main roles for a husband is the physical and finance security of his family, so I appreciate your Prince's stance on spending so much because, in the end, it is his responsibility.  

 

That said, sometimes a man might be overly cautious and need his wife (or wives) to convince him to take more risk. 

 

> With all respect to you as an older man and a wise man, I disagree with this old (un)written law. For us, man IS NOT responsible and obligated to provide financial, material, and physical security for his family. Maybe we are too liberal but my Ivy and I do not support such a view. If my Prince would be unable to do it for whatever reason, he is not obligated to do them. Although we respect his will and desire to do it. :classic_smile:

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Evaloves4

> Very dear LL friend of mine PMd me about the 'stubborn' word I used for my Prince. She suggested using 'pigheaded' instead of 'stubborn' since the 'stubborn' word contains 'pride' in the negative contest. I cannot argue that. She knows English better than me, but in our language, those two words are synonyms. Anyhow, a 'certain' type of pride was present in my Prince's stubbornness this time. A positive one and a kind of pride that most men have: "I am the head of the family and it is my duty and obligation to provide security, protection, food, and all other necessities for my family", just like respected Mr. @steelpanther24 said in the first post. That's praiseworthy but unnecessary in our case.

 

> Anyway, my LL sister and very good friend of mine, @dharvinia is very bright and I respect her very much. She always helps me to clarify things in my diaries so there wouldn't be confusion due to cultural and language diversities.

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MidNightQuiet
6 hours ago, steelpanther24 said:

I have mentioned before that my 'dated" belief

there is no '' dated belief '', as long as you are not an extremist person in your customs, everyone in society must respect your thoughts and way of life, in addition what you call '' dated belief '' is still very much followed by most of the world and even some people who proclaims to be  '' liberal '' want men/women who have clearly conservative customs or attitudes, recently a tik toker or instagram or any other of these social media went viral because she proclaims herself liberal but is looking for a conservative man... currently there are people who literally live by the phrase '' want the cake and eat it too '' .

 

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steelpanther24
On 7/24/2023 at 1:46 PM, Evaloves4 said:

 

> With all respect to you as an older man and a wise man, I disagree with this old (un)written law. For us, man IS NOT responsible and obligated to provide financial, material, and physical security for his family. Maybe we are too liberal but my Ivy and I do not support such a view. If my Prince would be unable to do it for whatever reason, he is not obligated to do them. Although we respect his will and desire to do it. :classic_smile:

I admit it is a bit old fashion, however I am not so wise that I know what is proper or good for all people all over the world.   I leave that to Priests and Politicians. .......and users of Twitter.

 

 

23 hours ago, MidNightQuiet said:

there is no '' dated belief '', as long as you are not an extremist person in your customs, everyone in society must respect your thoughts and way of life, in addition what you call '' dated belief '' is still very much followed by most of the world and even some people who proclaims to be  '' liberal '' want men/women who have clearly conservative customs or attitudes, recently a tik toker or instagram or any other of these social media went viral because she proclaims herself liberal but is looking for a conservative man... currently there are people who literally live by the phrase '' want the cake and eat it too '' .

 

 

Thank you, first, and second, I wonder if this is part of the opposites attract thing.  I find Eva's lifestyle fascinating and enjoy reading about her accounts.   It is more than just a chance to learn about life in a different part of the world, but a window to a way of life I will never experience.  

 

 

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Evaloves4
50 minutes ago, steelpanther24 said:

I admit it is a bit old fashion, however I am not so wise that I know what is proper or good for all people all over the world.   I leave that to Priests and Politicians. .......and users of Twitter.

 

 

> Agree with you that nobody has the right to tell others how to live if not asked and as far as that person is not a vandal, or criminal or rapist or murderer, or similar. But I disagree with you that you aren't wise. You are wise and do not be modest about it. It's not a flaw to be ashamed of.:classic_smile:

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Jay-Omms

Oh Prince what a guy. :sweat_smile: I know it goes against his way but consider this... You accept this help for your health and lets not forget this heat also affects Mikey too not to mention everyone who is concerned for you both. It weighs heavy on the hearts that see you two suffer. So with that said it's important that the both of you have a safe place to be away from this threatening heat. :mrgreen::heart:;):thumbsup:

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Evaloves4
21 hours ago, Jay-Omms said:

Oh Prince what a guy. :sweat_smile: I know it goes against his way but consider this... You accept this help for your health and lets not forget this heat also affects Mikey too not to mention everyone who is concerned for you both. It weighs heavy on the hearts that see you two suffer. So with that said it's important that the both of you have a safe place to be away from this threatening heat. :mrgreen::heart:;):thumbsup:

> I copied your message and mailed it to my Prince. He said: many thanks. :classic_smile:

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Jay-Omms
On 7/30/2023 at 10:46 PM, Evaloves4 said:

> I copied your message and mailed it to my Prince. He said: many thanks. :classic_smile:

 

Yay! :mrgreen::heart:;):thumbsup:

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