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Lying lady

Evaloves4

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Our children went totally crazy about driving in the boat. My dad drives them on the boat every day. Mikey likes it better than riding on the electric motorcycle with his tata. My dad chuckled happily as the children showed more interest in the sea. He once took them on his lap and asked them if they would like to learn boat fishing. Mikey said he would love to. Nobody was happier than my dad at that moment. He showered his face with kisses and "love yous”. When he asked Precious why she doesn’t want to learn fishing, she said:

- Fishing is not for ladies! I am a lady like my maama. Do you see her fishing? Noooo! Fishing and beauty don’t go together.

My dad told me that he died laughing hearing it because she reminded him of me when I was her age. The three of us laughed too and showered her with kisses. That night we all slept in the shack. The children were too excited and they couldn’t sleep a long time but they had hundreds of “ma(a)ma” and “tata”. (She sees Ivy as beautiful, but she doesn’t see her as a lady because of her wild temper and because she often doesn’t dress fancy and elegant as I do). I think I told you once that although I am Mikey’s biological mother and Ivy is Precious’ biological mother, according to their characters, things they like and dislike, and similar, it looks like Precious is rather my daughter and Mikey is my Ivy’s son.

 

 

One more thing. Since we use our family Jeep only when need to do some private things and when going out as a family, we didn’t fill it with gas. So, checking the car, my luvs noticed it should be refueled. They drove to the nearest gas station. Since it was hot, my Ivy went into the shop to buy two cold Zero Cokes while my Prince was refueling the car. Then he spotted some 30+ lady in shamefully expensive Mercedes parking in the middle of the pedestrian crossing so she can fix her makeup and do some phone calls. He told me, it bothered him but seeing her angrily telling some elderly couple who barely walk on the pedestrian crossing to go around the car (which meant stepping on the busy lane), he was pissed off. He quickly took his cellphone and took few pics of her and the car, and he sent it to the police HQ. My Ivy came out of the shop very quickly, then my Prince pointed his head in their direction. She immediately reacted. She stopped the elderly couple from stepping on the lane, told them to wait, and said to the lady that she is breaking the law by parking on the pedestrian crossing. She kindly asked her to move the car so the elderly couple and other people may cross the road. The lady angrily said:

- Don’t talk to me like that! Do you have any idea who I am?

Ivy: I don’t give a shit who you are! You have five fucking seconds to repark your car or I will repark you both!

The lady: You will regret this, *seljančuro! (*The closest translation for this insult is redneck).

Oh my, she shouldn’t do that. My Ivy hates being threatened just like my Prince. She slapped her so hard saying angrily:

- Don’t ever threaten me, you stupid cunt or I will break your fucking bones!

Then the lady moved her car, and my Ivy returned to our car. My Prince helped the elderly couple to cross the street. A few hours later, Antonio called my luvs saying that the chief of the police called him and asked him to talk to my luvs for he can’t due to some obligations. Antonio told them who was the lady my Ivy slapped: she was the love partner of a very influential and powerful regional business tycoon. He said that she lied to her partner and the chief of the police that my Ivy attacked her without cause and reason. When she was told that my luvs wouldn’t attack anyone without cause and reason and that police have the picture of her improperly parked car, she said another lie: that my Ivy attacked her when she didn’t move the car right after she was told to, but when she moved it a few moments later. Well, the chief didn’t buy her story for he knows my luvs. Seeing that the police won’t do anything against my Ivy, her partner decided to press charges on a private level against my Ivy. But finding out that she is working for Antonio, he gave up on doing it. He sent his lawyer to him and said if my Ivy ever attack his partner again, he will make sure she will be heavily hurt. Antonio replied that if he ever threatens to my Ivy again, he’ll make him afraid of his own shadow. Thanks to Antonio all ended well. 

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steelpanther24

You know me, and I don't normally like the instigation of violence (retaliation, on the other hand, I am all for) even when one party is being disrespectful.   However, I am happy that things did not blow up further.   Threats of violence always need to be treated appropriately and with proportionality   (i.e.  using a sniper to "solve" an illegally parked car situation may be preferred but not proportional to the crime) .

 

Anyway, as with your comment about your children, research has shown — again and again — that every child needs a sol­id and unshak­able attach­ment to at least one par­ent­ing adult and that this rela­tion­ship is key to a young person’s devel­op­ment and well-being.   As you know, parenting and birthing are two (important) different things.  

 

I have a saying:  Nature (or Biology) determines our absolute limits, while Nurture (environment where the child is raised) determines how close a child can get to those limits.   There are many people who have the same biological talent as say someone like Steph Curry, but who will never get an environment or encouragement (or flat out luck) to achieve that level of success.  

 

 

Finally, I missed a few of your blog entries and could not find negative comments in them.    I was curious as who would take exception to them, other than me on rare occasion and I usually try to state that exception in a polite and respectful manner.

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> Thank you for your input.

 

2 hours ago, steelpanther24 said:

You know me, and I don't normally like the instigation of violence (retaliation, on the other hand, I am all for) even when one party is being disrespectful.   However, I am happy that things did not blow up further.   Threats of violence always need to be treated appropriately and with proportionality   (i.e.  using a sniper to "solve" an illegally parked car situation may be preferred but not proportional to the crime) .

> My luvs can't stand idle when someone behaves like she own the city. My Ivy gave her polite advice to remove the car, but she didn't want to. She used the violence to teach her a lesson that regardless of being sex toy of very powerful man, she has no right to be bitch. You see, my prince was taught to always try peaceful and easy approach, it it doesn't work, then force surely would. My Ivy followed his example. So the lady will think twice before she does something like that next time.

 

2 hours ago, steelpanther24 said:

Anyway, as with your comment about your children, research has shown — again and again — that every child needs a sol­id and unshak­able attach­ment to at least one par­ent­ing adult and that this rela­tion­ship is key to a young person’s devel­op­ment and well-being.   As you know, parenting and birthing are two (important) different things. 

> I have read about it and I see it live in practice. I am very aware of the responsibility of us as a parents and me being a model to our daughter. I take it quite seriously.

 

2 hours ago, steelpanther24 said:

Finally, I missed a few of your blog entries and could not find negative comments in them.    I was curious as who would take exception to them, other than me on rare occasion and I usually try to state that exception in a polite and respectful manner.

 

> Of course, not everyone  agrees with our way of living and some of our LL friends PM us about their disagreements. I respect that. Sometimes we accept suggestions and critics, sometimes we don't. (I always share people's comments in my diaries with my luvs).

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18 hours ago, Evaloves4 said:

> Thank you for your input.

 

> My luvs can't stand idle when someone behaves like she own the city. My Ivy gave her polite advice to remove the car, but she didn't want to. She used the violence to teach her a lesson that regardless of being sex toy of very powerful man, she has no right to be bitch. You see, my prince was taught to always try peaceful and easy approach, it it doesn't work, then force surely would. My Ivy followed his example. So the lady will think twice before she does something like that next time.

 

Oh I know that feeling well, about wanting to put right what was wrong.  Please understand that I am advising caution only, though I can see if it was seen as criticism.   I see that Ivy has a hot temper, and that you and the Prince are helping her remain calm enough, so it works and I sincerely hope she keeps taking yours and your prince's influence to heart about seeking peaceful solutions.........while keeping the ability to take drastically effective violence action when all other attempts have failed.

 

18 hours ago, Evaloves4 said:

> I have read about it and I see it live in practice. I am very aware of the responsibility of us as a parents and me being a model to our daughter. I take it quite seriously.

:)  Sometimes scientists get paid to find out what all of us parents already know.   My dad told me, when I became a parent for the first time, that I am always a teacher, even when I don't think my child is watching, because my actions mold the development of my children. 

 

18 hours ago, Evaloves4 said:

> Of course, not everyone  agrees with our way of living and some of our LL friends PM us about their disagreements. I respect that. Sometimes we accept suggestions and critics, sometimes we don't. (I always share people's comments in my diaries with my luvs).

Ah, I was referring to your comment in the Rant thread a little while ago.   Wasn't sure if you were referencing comments made or the fact that sometimes, your blog entries get forced out of the splash page because someone else will publish 40 different blog entries in a day. 

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2 hours ago, steelpanther24 said:

 

Oh I know that feeling well, about wanting to put right what was wrong.  Please understand that I am advising caution only, though I can see if it was seen as criticism.   I see that Ivy has a hot temper, and that you and the Prince are helping her remain calm enough, so it works and I sincerely hope she keeps taking yours and your prince's influence to heart about seeking peaceful solutions.........while keeping the ability to take drastically effective violence action when all other attempts have failed.

 

:)  Sometimes scientists get paid to find out what all of us parents already know.   My dad told me, when I became a parent for the first time, that I am always a teacher, even when I don't think my child is watching, because my actions mold the development of my children. 

 

Ah, I was referring to your comment in the Rant thread a little while ago.   Wasn't sure if you were referencing comments made or the fact that sometimes, your blog entries get forced out of the splash page because someone else will publish 40 different blog entries in a day. 

> You were right: I took your words as a criticism of my luvs, especially Ivy and I reacted as i always do when I feel somebody attacked them. Sorry. I am very touchy when it comes to them and our children. my Ivy was always wild but she is a good in heart and I love her sooo much. :classic_smile:

 

> My mom is an excellent parent although she never read any book about parenting (except in the case when we decided to have a children because it is unique situation: children with two mothers and one father). I believe parenting is inbuilt in every male and female, especially female. I was afraid about be being a good parent and I started to read a lot of books and talked to my mom, but as you say, some things I knew already.

 

> I had no idea you were referring to one of my posts in rant thread. My apologies. Since I misunderstand some things sometimes, maybe you can be more specific.:classic_smile:

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22 hours ago, Evaloves4 said:

> I had no idea you were referring to one of my posts in rant thread. My apologies. Since I misunderstand some things sometimes, maybe you can be more specific.:classic_smile:

 

 

Hmmm, I can't find it, though I think it mentioned that you were frustrated over someone criticizing you about your blogs, but I think you answered it earlier, stating it was PMs that you were getting, not comments on the blogs.

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8 hours ago, Jay-Omms said:

It's nice to sea I mean see that the children enjoy the boat rides a lot of fun indeed. :mrgreen::heart:;):thumbsup: 

> More than we can ever imagined.:classic_smile:

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