I... might have made a mistake... -Real Life Story-
I'm not sure why I'm posting this on here of all places, partly because I don't like sharing real life issues, and partly because this site kind of irks me; but I really needed to let this out, because it's making me feel pretty guilty, and I don't care all that much what you guys think... sorry.
So let me start by saying that I've been in a pseudo-relationship with my girlfriend for over three years. I say pseudo, because I never really had healthy relationships with the women of my life, and, by my ideals, it doesn't feel like it's real. Regardless of our relationship status, I love her and do enjoy being with her. One of the quirks she has that I always found strange, was that she's bisexual (Nothing wrong with being LGBT etc), and active to that end; meaning that she is always trying to bring a friend into the bedroom or to get me to invite an ex-girlfriend in, which I enjoy, but it is a bit uncomfortable at times. While our relationship is semi-open, me personally, I always felt that it was despicable to cheat on somebody; now the hypocrisy kicks in, I cheated on her.
The day after my 23rd birthday, a friend/coworker took me out drinking at a bar we frequented, I was kind of sad that I spent my birthday alone, so I had been drinking a bit of my sorrow away. After enough drinks, my mood shifted and I was having a bit of fun flirting with the ladies, and just being a bit more outgoing then usual. So at about midnight, friend has to leave because of some issues with his kid, or something like that. Not even ten minutes later, this cute brunette comes up and starts flirting with me; normally women coming on to me isn't a surprise because when you look like me, and have a body like mine, women flirt, but, this was different. The way she tore through the room, like a tiger stalking it's prey, well, had I been sober, I would have realized what was on her mind. She wasn't flirting to be flirty, this was a straight up, do-me right now, kind of vibe. So she fed me a few more drinks, then invited me over to her place to have some more drinks there (Bars can be extremely expensive)
So we get to her place, by this time, I drank enough to have both of us shitfaced, and were watching tv, and next thing I know, she has my length down her throat, taking it like a champ.(I didn't even feel her undo my pants) At this point, my ability to think ahead was shit, so instead of saying I was in a relationship, I ended up going all the way with this girl, who's name I didn't even know. What I do know, is she wasn't shy when it came to using her body. I didn't even use a condom, so yeah... that's brilliant. When I came to in the morning, here I am with this cute piece of ass, with her face and tits covered in my fluids, and I did the only thing a real man would do in that situation... I got the fuck out without waking her, went home, and took a shower. What's worse, is I later found out I had recorded a bit of it on my phone, so even though I barely remember it all, I have something to remember it by. (Not sure if I'm going to delete the video or not)
So my girlfriend is coming home in a few days, and I don't really know what to say to her about this. I doubt that she'd be that upset, because, to be honest, that kind of stuff is a huge turn on for her; but I'm feeling really guilty about what I did to both women in this situation. Just using the poor girl and abandoning her like that is a pretty scum-bag thing to do, and it turns my stomach not knowing if she understood or not.
So yeah, that's just something that I had to get off my chest, tell me I'm scum if you want, tell me I'm a boss if you feel so inclined, I just needed to vent that story, and had nobody else to tell.
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