LOVE OR SEX .................??

[kikranthi]

Hello everyone,

I've been contemplating the meaning of love lately, and I'd love to hear your thoughts and perspectives on this timeless and complex topic. How would you define love? What does love mean to you personally? Is it a feeling, an action, or something else entirely? And how does love manifest in your relationships and interactions with others?

I'm eager to engage in a thoughtful discussion and gain insights from the diverse experiences and perspectives within this community. Looking forward to hearing your thoughts on the profound and multifaceted concept of love.https://19216801.pro/

Thank you in advance for sharing your wisdom and perspectives!

Edited May 16, 2023 by kikranthi

[Shokushuuu]

Love is chemical just as sex ! it bring happy in life but give very sad to, pretty much my point.

[Miauzi]

When I see a post like this, I always think:

"A student of psychoanalysis has just registered - who is still looking for inspiration for his semester work ... and has received a tip in the matter of the porn perverts forum. And now everyone is pouring out their "heart" to him.. ."

I've been a member of a German BDSM forum for almost 20 years ... 1-2 times a year "newcomers" started such threads there.

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[Shokushuuu]

Well why not after all ! that piked my curiosity Ngl 

 

[Guest]

I don't believe in relationships and love, for now. I keep it at I'm trusting this guy well enough to go physical once in a while. Relationship = Love probably, in an alternate universe where I didn't get heartbroken way too many times. 

 

I love people in a way to be supporting each other on whatever happens in each others life. But I don't wanna fully commit to "having the one"

[KoolHndLuke]

This is definitely a chatbot.

[Guest]

As someone who just got through a very nasty break up, my thoughts on love are still a little strained. I will say this, though. Love is an amazing thing. It's a bond between 2 people that brings them closer than anything else. Being with someone you love is greater than any luxury the world can offer. That's why I'm currently looking for a new relationship. I know it hasn't been that long, just over a week, but I'm ready to move on from the last one and find someone else to share my life with, and I do currently have someone of interest if you catch my meaning. Let's just hope it's better than the last one.

Sex is nice, but you don't really have to love someone to want to fuck them. I mean, I see people all the time that I would want to have sex with, but not want to be in a relationship with. But that's just my thoughts.

[coldheartzero]

Love is just a chemical reaction in the brain. It can be as addictive as coke for some, and others it means pretty much nothing.

 

I will say however, that if you're really into someone, sex has no meaning. You can be perfectly happy with someone and never pork them. If you must pork to love, then it's not love. When my late wife was daignosed with breast cancer we didn't have sex for close to 2 years. (she didn't die from it, she beat that shit into a mudhole, she couldn't beat the drunk driver 4 years later though) The need or want of sex just didn't happen. My only thoughts were what did I need to do to keep the family going, happy, bills paid etc.  I truly and wholly loved that woman. And yes, I know it's a chemical cooking off in my frontal lobe,,,, or was it,, oh fuck it doesn't matter.

 

Far to many people now days confuse LUST with LOVE and then wonder why their relationshit BOMBS. Basically, if sex is driving your relationshit,,, it's not love you're feeling.

 

The chemical reaction in the brain is also why women with high body counts can't pair bond. Not all women, but the vast majority of women will lose that ability to bond because their brains just can't do it anymore.(dopamine and a few other reactions just don't happen anymore) Men are wired differently, while no I do NOT condone high body counts of either, because of how the sex's brains are wired men will still be able to pair bond with a high body count.

 

 

Edited May 16, 2023 by coldheartzero
I want to set the world on fire

[kikranthi]

17 hours ago, KoolHndLuke said:

This is definitely a chatbot.

I think U r too Ethereal ?Baby

[KoolHndLuke]

11 minutes ago, kikranthi said:

I think U r too Ethereal ?Baby

Kay... that might do something for me if you throw that programming into a really fucking hot sex android that blows me while I play games. 

[Guest]

Love is taking care of someone during their worst moments and doing so with no expectation of reward or compensation. Love is a complete giving over to another soul, no matter the outcome.

 

Sex, well that's just getting fucked lol.

[KoolHndLuke]

11 minutes ago, zelphador23 said:

Love is taking care of someone during their worst moments and doing so with no expectation of reward or compensation. Love is a complete giving over to another soul, no matter the outcome.

 

Sex, well that's just getting fucked lol.

You can quantify one of those- meaning it's reliable. 

[Guest]

1 minute ago, KoolHndLuke said:

You can quantify one of those- meaning it's reliable. 

Both are quantifiable, one just ends up with cum on my face, and the other in my pussy. lol

[KoolHndLuke]

2 minutes ago, zelphador23 said:

Both are quantifiable, one just ends up with cum on my face, and the other in my pussy. lol

Swallowing is true love imo. Whether the person or the act or the instrument doesn't much matter as long as everyone is satisfied. 

[Guest]

14 minutes ago, KoolHndLuke said:

Swallowing is true love imo

Or is True love never having to Swallow!?!?  

 

Love is just our body making Drugs to get us high so we will make questionable decisions, and maybe Babies.    

[Clea Strange]

I'll take sex over love any day, course this is just my opinion.

[Darkpig]

Mawwage

 

JK. I dropped by a different thread that was just talking about that. Anyway my answer is love and by love I mean banging. Then again it could also mean two people living together without wanting to kill each other.

 

Then again I'm starting to consider the possibility I may be Aromantic?