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… you have some serious issues …


Evaloves4

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My god, how the time fly.  Mikey was 17 months old on 7th on October. He grows rapidly and he is smarter every new day. I can see my Prince’s character genes in him; he is shy, emotional, neat, gentle and caring. If he sees his sister laying in her vomit or spit, or if she pooed her diapers, he immediately calls nearest person to fix it and he stands near watching it until the “job” is done. Then he kiss his sister on the cheek. When he is playing in their room, he talks to her explaining what is he playing and similar. Of course, Precious is too little to understand it, but he loves to involve his sister in his game. He is my little angel. I’m glad he is carrying more of his father’s character genes and not mine. I’m sure he will be a real gentleman and will respect women just as his father when he grows older. As for Precious, it is too early to say whose character genes she is carrying; my Prince’s or Ivy’s genes. So far she is too beautiful just like her mother and there is no doubt that one day she will be very attractive young lady.

 

Now, about 3 cowardly vandals. The police caught one who revealed the names of his companions. After their arrest Antonio collected them in the local police station and drove them to his headquarters. All I know is that my Prince got several pics on his smartphone after the guys being “processed”. He and Ivy were very content. I didn’t even wanted to know what happened to them although they deserved it. My Prince called Lidija and told her that Ivan was avenged. Those guys wouldn’t come near to him and “our” café as long as they live. Believe me this. I know how Antonio deals with such people. And my Prince would do the same because the type of the punishment was his idea. My Ivy would punished them more cruelly. If I would be offender who would hurt Prince’s family and friends, I would rather end in Prince’s hands then ending in Ivy’s hands. Trust me. Anyway, Antonio returned those three to the police station with their signature on the statement that Antonio mercifully drove them to the police station after he found them wounded after the fight with some street gang.

 

Dad Boss and Zdenka returned from honeymoon. They were on “XXX” island enjoying in the sun, sea and private accommodation. When they showed up on our family morning coffee yesterday, they glowed and the smile didn’t come off of their faces. They were so cute. They sat next to each other and they hold hands all the time. Everyone was very happy about them. My Ivy behaved and she didn’t tease them. She promised to my Prince she wouldn’t do it. Anyway, although my Prince share their joy and happiness, he couldn’t help it not to cry after mom Boss. Seeing Zdenka wearing her dress, he missed her very much and he started to cry. He locked himself in our home office and he didn’t let anyone in. We heard him heavily sobbing. His pain affected all of us. Mikey started to cry too, than his sister, than my mom and it became a chain reaction. At the end we all cried. When he was done, he came to dad Boss, hugged him firmly and he apologized for his behaving. He did it to Zdenka too. They both said it is OK and that they love him. Now, something very surprising and unexpected happened. When he sat in his chair, he took Mikey in his lap. The very second afterwards, my Ivy took Mikey into her arms and she sat in my Prince’s lap and she showered his face with kisses and “love yous”. But, when I am around him, I am the one who always comforting him. It was my role. I felt offended and pushed out. But I didn’t react until we went to work. When she had some free time I asked her to come to my office to talk. I usually seats in her lap when we talk but not this time. She sat opposite to me. Being very intelligent she figured out very quickly what was disturbing me, even before I stressed out my problem. She was sad and she said to me:

- When did we became rivals, Princess?! …… Haven’t I been loyal and faithful to you all these years? I never tried to steal or take away anyone or anything from you! …… I just felt I should comfort our husband because he was heartbroken …… I didn’t want to push you out and I also didn’t know I needed your permission to comfort him …… your attitude saddens me and I wonder when it came from …… Honey, you know I love you and I always will, but you have some serious issues that you have to solve with yourself ……. Prince loves us equally, I love you and him the same ….. somewhere and somehow your love for him and me lost that equality …… Please, Princess, do something before it become too late ……

 

My Ivy stood up, kissed me gently and she walked out of my office. She didn’t tell my Prince about it. I didn’t take well her short speech at first, but as more I thought about it, I saw she was right. Not willingly I become self-centric and egoistic. I started to suffer from “I”, “Me” and “Myself” syndrome. I openly talked to my Fran and asked him how he sees me and he approved some of Ivy’s claims. I was sad. How in the world it happened? I determined that I will start to work on it right away. When I arrived home I took a shower. After spending some time with our children I called my Ivy in our bedroom and after showering her face and lips with kisses I apologized to her and said she was right. I promised to her that I will eliminate “I”, “Me” and “Myself” syndrome. Than we made love very passionately. I’m happy that I have a wife who understands my failures and she doesn’t judge me. She helps me to see what I’m doing wrong and she is there for me. Yes, my dear readers, I love my crazy and wild wife, Ivy with all my being.

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:) Awww baby Mikey ;)

 

Seems what Wedding almost turned into a funeral. You guys barely had time to mourn Mom Boss... so there at the Wedding was that time which is ok really. Happy and sadness at the same place. I too would of done the same. :cry:...:heart: ;):thumbsup:

 

It's seems your old self is still in there somewhere but you can reform yourself and move forward and don't worry. Your new self will feel way better than your old self will ever be, your in Good Hands with your wife and your husband for you to achieve balance. :heart:;):thumbsup:

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On 10/10/2020 at 6:09 PM, Jayomms said:

:) Awww baby Mikey ;)

 

Seems what Wedding almost turned into a funeral. You guys barely had time to mourn Mom Boss... so there at the Wedding was that time which is ok really. Happy and sadness at the same place. I too would of done the same. :cry:...:heart: ;):thumbsup:

 

It's seems your old self is still in there somewhere but you can reform yourself and move forward and don't worry. Your new self will feel way better than your old self will ever be, your in Good Hands with your wife and your husband for you to achieve balance. :heart:;):thumbsup:

> You are very right about it. Everything passed very fast since she passed away. My Prince miss her the most. Mikey asked few times about his *nona (*grandma) and we told him that she is gone and will never come back. I think he doesn't understand it but he accept it.

 

> I really don't understand when I became possessive and selfish. It was old me that awoke. I started to work on it before it is too late. Thank you for always ice words. :) 

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On 10/12/2020 at 8:24 PM, EvalovesEP said:

You are very right about it. Everything passed very fast since she passed away. My Prince miss her the most. Mikey asked few times about his *nona (*grandma) and we told him that she is gone and will never come back. I think he doesn't understand it but he accept it.

 

> I really don't understand when I became possessive and selfish. It was old me that awoke. I started to work on it before it is too late. Thank you for always ice words.

:):heart:;):thumbsup:

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