new to skyrim modding

[downlerd]

im new to this so i may be a bit slow on figuring some of this out, i have these mods:
 

Spoiler

 

Unofficial Skyrim Legendary Edition Patch

OneTweak

SkyUI

RaceMenu

Creature Only Ragdolls

FNIS Behavior

RaceCompatibility with fixes

MFVM - More Follower Voices Mod Plus Khajiit Marriage

Fuz Ro Doh

XP32 Maximum Skeleton Extended

Extensible Follower Framework

Race Scale Remover

Calientes Beautiful Bodies Edition -CBBE-

SOS

SexLab

The Eyes Of Beauty

BeeingFemale

MultiMarriages121Beta

Alternate Start - Live Another Life

 

when i try to bang somone i either a: stand around and do nothing as the other character walks off to a bed/couch/chair and start to molest the air as my character moans or b: we merge into a single horrific being and do nothing

how do i fix this? and is there a way to exit this animation without exiting the game?