General Discussion Latest Topicshttps://www.loverslab.com/forum/127-general-discussion/General Discussion Latest TopicsenSims 4 BDSMhttps://www.loverslab.com/topic/261262-sims-4-bdsm/ I am looking for BDSM animations that don't require lots of other mods. Face slapping, spanking, caning, whipping, bondage, rough treatment. I am a Dominant and I can't find the kind of thing I'm interested in. 

]]>261262Tue, 30 Dec 2025 19:20:57 +0000Anyone tried anal w/o lube?https://www.loverslab.com/topic/241000-anyone-tried-anal-wo-lube/ How did it play out?

]]>241000Tue, 19 Nov 2024 08:06:16 +0000BDSM mods for Fallout 4?https://www.loverslab.com/topic/239090-bdsm-mods-for-fallout-4/ where I have found some, I am constantly on the hunt for more/others

]]>239090Tue, 15 Oct 2024 20:30:03 +0000Found this photo while browsing...https://www.loverslab.com/topic/221328-found-this-photo-while-browsing/ I found this photo and it just jumped out at me. Never saw anything like this before and was intrigued by it.

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]]>221328Mon, 13 Nov 2023 02:27:31 +0000Remote control mod to stop time, abuse sims while they sleep and various drugshttps://www.loverslab.com/topic/221206-remote-control-mod-to-stop-time-abuse-sims-while-they-sleep-and-various-drugs/ Hi ?, is there a mod to abuse a sim while she sleeps with her buttocks in the air or elsewhere..? that would be fun. So I was thinking about a remote control to freeze sims and more various drugs to abuse the sims. Do you know if there is a project running?

]]>221206Sat, 11 Nov 2023 07:14:52 +0000aestheticshttps://www.loverslab.com/topic/92696-aesthetics/ just found some nice photographs that fit my aesthetics in one way or another and thought I'd share.
 

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feel free to share your thoughts or post some pictures

]]>92696Fri, 26 Jan 2018 15:42:57 +0000something is missinghttps://www.loverslab.com/topic/95906-something-is-missing/ I feel a little frustrated in the case of violent animations and group sex with 2 or more partners, besides being very few animations in this style, bandits and NPC in general are very nice, have no hair tugs, face slaps, or scenes of humiliation, I got to post asking the animators who do more I think my request did not generate interest, I would very much like to be raped by a group of thugs they were in fact bandits, and did what is expected of them and have fun with it kkkk Is it just me that would find it so cool?

]]>95906Sat, 17 Mar 2018 19:30:04 +0000What is your most perverted fantasy?https://www.loverslab.com/topic/96274-what-is-your-most-perverted-fantasy/ We all have desires and fantasies, some we reveal ourselves and some not, what is your most perverted fantasy, even if it is one that you would not fancy. ]]>96274Fri, 23 Mar 2018 18:54:54 +0000Discussion about interestshttps://www.loverslab.com/topic/90625-discussion-about-interests/ Hi everyone,

 

I've created this topic to discuss interests about BDSM here, instead of the Introduce yourself! :3 topic, as Leon0803 and Tifa Lockheart suggested there.

 

Please, respect others' different opinion and try to avoid insult each other.

]]>90625Tue, 26 Dec 2017 09:53:45 +0000Beneath the Basement Studioshttps://www.loverslab.com/topic/90124-beneath-the-basement-studios/ Capturing the magic of post apocalyptic Boston has become a labour of love for me.

 

Beneath the Basement Studios debuts with my video release entitled "Christmas in the Commonwealth".

 

If you do, please like, subscribe, share and stay tuned.  I'd love to hear your feedback.

 

Have yourselves a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year...and for God's sake, stay safe out there.

 

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCT0r_BdIPctbjChGaslJA0A

]]>90124Mon, 18 Dec 2017 16:29:32 +000050 Shades has nothing todo with BDSMhttps://www.loverslab.com/topic/87650-50-shades-has-nothing-todo-with-bdsm/ i think its always important (even tho i cant blaim anyone for not doing so)  to remind players of how real bdsm is and what the difference is to the one in the Mods and such.

 

Otherwise things like 50 shades of Grey get created.

 

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It's just somebody's specific fantasy that happened to make a few hundred million dollars... As long as people keep in mind that it's one person's fantasy, and don't jump down the throats of people whose first exposure was 50 Shades, I don't think it does that much damage. - 29fastly

 

 

 

The problem with 50 shades is that it is displayed as "A NORMAL bdsm relationship"

 

and its the first contact for some  people with BDSM and either they think what they see is totaly acceptable and may find theirself in someone who abuses that fact by influencing them with drugs and then trying play technics that are way too advanced for someone new or they simply get raped

 

the other outcome is, which i also had to experience a couple times. That people see the Movie is basicly rape and combine BDSM = Rape (which it definatly isnt.) i had to defend my lifestyle multiple times, going as far as having the person in the house next to me frequiently calling the Police cause she was convinced my Girlfriend is a victim of rape and abuse.

 

 

 

Sadly, which i find even worse is, i also had todo with the first kind of people i mentioned. Have seen people who did extremly dangerous bondage because they simply didnt have the experience and stopped the bloodflow to their hands which turned very bad for them, i can just advice anyone really curious about BDSM to see this movie as the opposite of it.

 

 

 

Here a more detailed explenation why these Movies and Books are bad, i marked them as spoiler as they are a wall of Text, feel free to read it.

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The reason I hate the popularity of this book is because it is giving many people the misconception that BDSM is abuse. I am of the opinion that what happens in the bedroom between two consenting adults shouldn’t be judged. We all have our likes and dislikes and that is perfectly fine. We all are different and we all have our own philosophies when it comes to relationships. Personally, I love the philosophy in the BDSM community because I feel that everything should always be Safe, Sane, and Consensual (This is the BDSM community’s mantra). That mantra is also something that Fifty Shades of Grey seems to forget.

 

 

Domestic violence is defined by the Department of Justice as "a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner." In the novels, Steele breaks up with Grey and he enters her home without her permission and then has sex with her without her verbal consent. When he leaves, she breaks down in tears. Sexual abuse is defined by the DOJ as "coercing or attempting to coerce any sexual contact or behavior without consent. Sexual abuse includes, but is certainly not limited to, marital rape, attacks on sexual parts of the body, forcing sex after physical violence has occurred, or treating one in a sexually demeaning manner." "How could you be so stupid?" Grey demands of Steele. "I can't do this," Steele says. "Oh Ana, don't overthink this," said Grey. When she threatens to leave, he threatens her. "I would find you. I can track your cell phone, remember?" said Grey. "He'd probably like to beat seven shades of *&%$ out of me," Steele thinks. "The thought is depressing."

 

 " I have an overwhelming urge to cry, a sad and lonely melancholy grips and tightens round my heart. Dashing back to my bedroom, I close the door and lean against it trying to rationalize my feelings. I can't. Sliding to the floor, I put my head in my hands as my tears begin to flow."

 

The last qouted passage was her emotional breakdown to this "consentuality" mr grey and her have after he left her place once he was done raping her

 

]]>87650Mon, 13 Nov 2017 21:34:46 +0000BDSM bloghttps://www.loverslab.com/topic/92610-bdsm-blog/ Hey, as some of you might have noticed, ive got a little blog about bdsm (https://www.loverslab.com/blogs/blog/857-advice-and-knowledge-about-bdsm-and-kinks/

 

im currently running low on ideas, if anyone wants to see something, please suggest it here ^^

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