Issues? See *Troubleshooting at the bottom!       Are your Sims tired of the same three relationships: Friendly, Romance, and Dislike? Do they no longer enjoy the sexual activities they once did? Do they experience emotional discomfort and pain but like it? If you and your Sims find the average 24-minute day mundane and boring, there is help available.   Hi. I’m EllaNoir and I am the creator of the expanding BDSM mod for The Sims 4, FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM.