This is in case anyone else has this issue, I spent a few hours trying to figure out what was wrong. My character would for some reason go invisible after a few seconds, hands if I was wearing armor and then when I took the armor off the body would go invisible after a few seconds too. The face was fine and never got touched so I would just be a floating head, male or female it didn't matter, but it only affected me. I don't know what got me thinking about the device hider in devious devices (ha