I have tried deleting and redownloading and reinstalling SexLab Defeat multiple times now, but every time I do, it still won't let me install it through the MCM. I hit esc, and the pause menu comes up. I clock on the mcm tab and go into the mcm. I scroll down and the defeat submenu is there, and when I click it all the submenus in defeat show up, but in the first defeat submenu when I click install it tells me to leave the menu completely and I do that but it still does not install.
For those of you with a similar issue, here is what I did to fix it:
1. make sure defeat is still installed, go into the game and go into a small house or some small cell with a loading screen at the door.
2. save the game and then exit the game
3. in mod manager, uninstall the mod defeat
4. run fnis
5. go back into the game and load that save you just made
6. make another save in the same spot, but before you do wait 3 min or so and make sure the defeat me