Girls of LoversLab

[Trash Metal Barbie]

12 minutes ago, ajelic said:

I would not have a problem with a stranger recognizing me either but just imagine a family-member or coworker seeing this

im self employed so im really not bothered and tbh a lot of my friends know what im like haha , if they dont like it , they know where the door out of my life is , were here for a good time, not a long time, life is far too short to march to the beat of societys drum.

[Twinklestar75]

On 12/21/2017 at 10:14 AM, Tali Redmint said:

I support all you girls that have the courage to come forth in this forum (which is a sex based forum) to express yourselves, exploring your fantasies, and sharing with us. It's so good to see that girls also have fantasies and desires. (isn't it obvious, right?) well, not so much when you live in a society where this topic is such a taboo.

 

If I was I girl I'd haply share all my deepest fantasies here, and fuck as many guys as possible... <-- this is a fantasy of mine tho.

Thank you

[t.ara]

hi,

no need to be under stress...

the freedom of this page is the anonymous behavior we all can enjoy - what you do and talk about will be a wanted theme by others who like what you tell and there also will be lot of people who can´t follow your ideas and "likes". I think that females don´t have any more or less problems to talk about sex, then men. Same is for sexual action. It depends on a bunch of parameters how everybody´s behavior is developping with sexual themes. It might be, that some will discover new stuff by games for their real-life action, others may only play bdsm in games only. Again others tell, that they better look videos than to play sexual game contence. 

I don´t think that females are not active in forums, but you (and me), we can´t recognize them behind the avatar and/or the anonymous accout. Who knows really, who I am???

Anyway, a nice thread;-)

[lonedovah0216]

wait... THERE ARE GIRLS ON THIS SIGHT HOLY SHIT! GUYS BURN IT DOWN THEY FOUND US OUT!!!!! just kidding, i think it's awesome that women are being more sexually open nowadays... i'm a guy so... sorry if i'm intruding 0_0

[BloodberrySmoothie]

14 hours ago, t.ara said:

 I think that females don´t have any more or less problems to talk about sex, then men. Same is for sexual action. It depends on a bunch of parameters how everybody´s behavior is developping with sexual themes.

this just brought on a thought that I'd love to share. The potential might be the same for all genders but I can definitely say that a lot of women are severly limited in their sexual behavior because of society's standards. I remember how shocked and disgusted some girls acted when they learned that I chose to lose my virginity to a guy that I was not in love with while they were completely fine when a guy did this. And how many people (girls and guys alike) called me a huge bitch for sleeping with someone outside of a relationship that I had no romantic feelings for. Men rarely get shamed for things like that, but being open about your sexuality as a woman can be really hard. And it shows in other things too, like porn for example, where you sometimes have to struggle to even find one where they at least show the guys face sometimes. I could give about a ton of examples where this also shows, but I don't want to rant too much! The gist of it is simply that being open about things related to sex can be difficult if you are judged constantly, which is why we love the anonymity of the internet even more! (:

[BloodberrySmoothie]

16 minutes ago, TheWhite said:

heh this reminds me of my mum. She's like, "don't sleep around so much, you're not a slut now!" And then when I haven't slept with anyone for a while, she's like, "Why aren't you having sex? What is wrong with you?" And she's also like, "So, are you seeing anybody?" I say yes. And she goes, "Are you sleeping with him?" I say what else am I supposed to do with a man at my age. And then she goes, "Arghh, I don't wanna know about stuff like that! Don't tell me!!"

What do you want mum?!

Parents you can never do it right

[Lyman the Lunatic]

I don't get it why western girls feel the need to create a subgroup like this than to just hang out with the main crowd but you girls have fun.

[Randlocher]

9 minutes ago, TheWhite said:

Why do the mod creators feel the need to gather here and share their stuff? Why not post their stuff in the main crowd?

On other pages you may not publish NSWF stuff. So not the one that is published here.

 

Edit: I'm male and I just enjoy reading your content.

[Lyman the Lunatic]

1 hour ago, TheWhite said:

Why do the mod creators feel the need to gather here and share their stuff? Why not post their stuff in the main crowd?

I don't quite see the relation but you do you.

[Jazzman]

11 hours ago, Lyman the Lunatic said:

I don't get it why western girls feel the need to create a subgroup like this than to just hang out with the main crowd but you girls have fun.

You don't have to get it, just to accept it as an expression of our freedoms. By the same reasons we find numerous clubs here that have one feature in common with this thread - these folks have special interests and simply don't hang out exclusively with the 'main crowd'

[MegaGryphon]

My beloved wife Helena would have LOVED this place (and 'fit right in' with many of you women)...

A fascinating, intelligent female - and not shy about her turn-ons, heheh - she and I were like peas & carrots, meant to be together.

When I first found A.N. Roquelaure's (AKA Anne Rice's) three "Sleeping Beauty" books in place of honour within her small library, I knew Helena was the one.

I took her far farther than she had ever before been. Which she appreciated beyond words.

 

Sadly Helena departed this mortal realm in 2009 when cancer took her at a crazy-young age.

So I'm certain she doesn't mind me speaking now about her almost-permanent state of arousal and her constantly-evolving creative and ingenious remedies.

(And Helena would probably have liked and appreciated our friend Kimy!)

 

Of course, years later I had given up on ever 'replacing' her in my life. Just not possible.

Or so I thought...

Point is: Thank you ladies! Can't tell you how this thread has actually cheered me up (which I never expected).

Of course every woman is unique and special and different - but maybe my Helena might not be as totally unusual as I had always believed...?

 

Regards to all

[27X]

7 hours ago, TheWhite said:

Why do the mod creators feel the need to gather here and share their stuff? Why not post their stuff in the main crowd?

Posting your mod in section where people can find it and are expected to find it and having a ~~~VERY SPECIAL SECRET SHHH THREAD FOR THIS VERY SECRET SHHHH TOPIC~~~~ are two completely different contextual vehicles. One is the reason the site exists, the others is a communal thread with zero set functions within the site proper.

 

Completely.

 

Also clubs are a thing.

[Vader666]

2 minutes ago, 27X said:

Posting your mod in section where people can find it and are expected to find it

And you did not expect to find females in this thread ?

 

5 minutes ago, 27X said:

having a ~~~VERY SPECIAL SECRET SHHH THREAD FOR THIS VERY SECRET SHHHH TOPIC~~~~

yeah its so secret that everyone can see all that happens here...

 

 

[27X]

In your zeal to don your pristine and blindingly brilliant ivory armor, you've quite arrived at the wrong castle and are also probably sitting backwards on your trusty steed.

 

Your assumption the thread topic or participants are of personal concern are completely misplaced.

 

Your princess is over there -->

[Vader666]

20 minutes ago, 27X said:

Your princess is over there -->

Yeah the last one missing in my collection !

Finally no crusades, slaying dragons and destroying entire planets anymore.

Thanks dude !

[BloodberrySmoothie]

On 10.1.2018 at 5:36 AM, Lyman the Lunatic said:

I don't get it why western girls feel the need to create a subgroup like this than to just hang out with the main crowd but you girls have fun.

let me explain in a way you might understand. You are here (Loverslab) because you it offers you something that you are interested in. You posts in threads concerning the games you like or mods you enjoy to interact with people of the same interest. This is what we're doing as well. Our common interest is openess about our gender and sexuality, which gets repressed by society a lot, so we look for a place with like-minded people. If it is not within your capabilities to comprehend the need, you are either very lucky to have never been outside of the norm or just have no empathy.

[Lyman the Lunatic]

On 1/10/2018 at 10:38 PM, Jazzman said:

You don't have to get it, just to accept it as an expression of our freedoms. By the same reasons we find numerous clubs here that have one feature in common with this thread - these folks have special interests and simply don't hang out exclusively with the 'main crowd'

 

On 1/11/2018 at 3:06 AM, TheWhite said:

The NSFW is irrelevant. Just not everyone's a sad loner like Lyman.

 

Actually, I am always amused by hostile attitudes whenever someone asks why this kind of sub groups need to exist to the point I don't want to just sit quietly & be amused anymore. I don't get it, so you claim the society represses you, but when I am curious, your first reaction is to be antagonistic against me. Which made me wonder if this repression you claim to exist in the society doesn't really exist or you are the ones who unwittingly create them yourself.
All I see is that this is still Loverslab, we all here could just be friends & race or gender or whatever other ideas & beliefs are irrelevant. I am quite disappointed by these replies of these above users. Even if you want to form a network of friends, I don't see why is that a problem, but I never understand this kind of attitude, especially when it seems western-minded women seems to have this habit a lot of the time on the internet. I was wondering if there will be some sort of sounded, well-reasoned than an antagonistic tone. BloodberrySmoothie had earned my respect somewhat for actually explaining to me why she thinks it is important that this group has to exist despite her negative outlook towards me. If there are women here & would like to express their ideas or opinions, I would rather hear them & see them as part of the community as a whole & not as a fringe group or a group within a group. After all, these women are now part of this community, so why do you need to hide away still. If freedom is something you truly seek, then why put yourself in a confine of an even smaller group. I myself did not even speak against a formation of this group, so I do see that these antagonistic attitude I have received is unjust.

 

7 hours ago, BloodberrySmoothie said:

let me explain in a way you might understand. You are here (Loverslab) because you it offers you something that you are interested in. You posts in threads concerning the games you like or mods you enjoy to interact with people of the same interest. This is what we're doing as well. Our common interest is openess about our gender and sexuality, which gets repressed by society a lot, so we look for a place with like-minded people. If it is not within your capabilities to comprehend the need, you are either very lucky to have never been outside of the norm or just have no empathy.

 

I would like to hear more of your opinions if that is okay with you.

 

[Cynical Misanthrope]

I think both Bloodberry and Lyman has good and valid points here. And don't forget, the OP did say men were more than welcome as well, but the thread in question are primarily for women. 

And if there would be a serious discussion that mostly only women can relate to, I would be very curious and watch from an outside perspective and possible even ask questions because I personally are always on the hunt for more knowledge.

But when greeted with hostility or being closed off will only build more distrust and possible judgmental notions one may have. Which is in the end, are not good for anyone.

[Jazzman]

6 hours ago, Lyman the Lunatic said:

 

 

Actually, I am always amused [...] and quite disappointed by these replies of these above users...

 

Isn't that great? Me too is amused although by contrasting reasons and not in the least disappointed. Thus, I don't feel the need to add anything to what I've already stated further up.

 

Good fishing!

[Cynical Misanthrope]

8 minutes ago, TheWhite said:

why don't you answer my menstrual cup question since we're being all no race or gender here.

 

Obviously this is more or less a female question. Unless one has a girlfriend, sister or close friend who can provide the necessary information. But a quick Google search provided me with all sort of information about how to use it, the pros and the cons.

You will also find people who says it's a great tool and saves them a lot money, and equally people who says they hate it. So it comes down to personal taste, and in the end, also up to you to discover 

The same logic can be used about condoms and or penis warmer/crotch warmer (sorry, don't know the English for for it ). You may be able to provide info that you have may have come across from close ones, but in the end, it's always up to me if I wanna try it out and if I will like it.

[Lyman the Lunatic]

16 hours ago, TheWhite said:

Okay, Lyman, why don't you answer my menstrual cup question since we're being all no race or gender here. Tell me about your experience with it. I'm dying to know.

Also, there's a whole board of men out there. Go join them. No one's telling you to agonzie over a thread for women lol. We're not hiding anywhere. Everyone can see what is happening here. And we're on the whole board aswell. You're just making something that isn't a problem a problem.

I am already here, so why are you telling me to leave. Everyone can indeed see what is going on, and you are specifically stating I should "Go join them". I didn't even make a problem out of nowhere, I merely pointed out what happened so your claim against me on that point is already inaccurate. I did not state about no race or gender, but as member to member on this site, why should race or gender matter. But I did look up on your "menstrual cup" anyway because it sounds unreal & I'm not disappointed, and even I do not have the compatible parts, I have had conversations with people who do, I can ask them for their opinions either way. It seems a bit complicated when it comes to installation & seems to be problematic if it is one of "those days" when you have "a lot". But then again, that would be your problem now, wouldn't it. Aren't there already something easier to use, anyway? If you are that dying to know, use it & then tell us. I'm sure your input will be appreciated.

[MsMadison]

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[Dinosaurus]

2 hours ago, TheWhite said:

See, completely pointless talking to a man about this. Thanks for proving my point You literally have nothing useful to say about this product so I'm asking women. I don't need any middle men.

 

And the women are here too so, what is your problem with this thread?

 

 

Ehh, i think what Cynical and Lyman said about menstrual cups is as meaningful as anything i could say. Particularly what Cynical said.

 

It *IS* a very individual thing. My biological sister and i have both used menstrual cups before. She *loves* them and still uses them (she tried 2 or 3 brands first), i *hated* the cup i tried enough to never bother buying another brand and trying again. Altho i did give it a go for a couple days over the course of 2 periods to try more than once. i found it uncomfortable, but i find tampons somewhat uncomfortable too - altho those i endure.

 

i have no idea what question you could possibly want to ask me or my sister (if she used Lovers Lab, which she doesn't - err at least not to my knowledge >.<) that couldn't be answered by a google search. No one can tell you how something will feel in your body. It's like a dildo. i might tell you my favourite dildo, that doesn't mean you're going to love it and it's going to fit the shape of your body or your turn ons right. i dunno. Literally everything you could want to know about menstrual cups is on Google.

 

Short of you asking *me* specifically what i didn't like (which of course only i - and those i've previously spoken to - know), what else could there be? And why would my personal experience as a vagina-owner of Lovers Lab be more meaningful to you than the experiences of hundreds (to thousands) of women online who have given reviews of menstrual cups?

 

i'm honestly not meaning to be rude to you, it just seems strange. TRUE a man can't tell you how something is going to feel in your vagina. But *i* also can't tell you how something is going to feel in *your* vagina, you know?

 

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Anyways! typically i wouldn't respond in a topic like this because altho i have a vagina, i dunno that i ever really fit in with girls. i guess i'm a bit genderfluid, or non-binary. i don't relate to "woman's talk" very much - personally. Altho i *also* i do not think it's weird that you or other women here enjoy having a thread mostly "just for girl talk", even if i can't exactly relate to wanting or needing that myself.

[Visdagon]

What Lyman was saying is why do people feel the need to break their interactions down into cliques, to exclude others, and specifically women do so more and often to the exclusion of men.

 

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"was wanting to make a topic for girls to get together and socialize, and to connect with and be girls. Guys are more then welcome to post in here. I'm not trying to single anyone out, but the primary point of this is so we girls can connect with other girls in the community. There doesn't seam to be that many females on here."- Lisa Tepes

 

I could speculate why specifically the OP felt the need to initiate the thread, but ultimately I dont care. It was not exclusionary in nature, and I wouldnt really care if it was. She was under the impression there were not a lot of female users. If I had to guess, there are more female users here per capita than on the Nexus. Why? 50 Shades of Grey should have taught you why. Correct me if Im wrong, but HDT was created by a chinese girl yes? Interesting. Would seem fat jigglin breasts are great no matter who ya are. Of course I am guessing there are more women per capita, I dont know, its irrelevant to me.

On the flip side the OP could be a guy whos lonely and wanted to talk to women. Again, I dont care.

 

Women are more social, women like to socialize with women more, People like to socialize with like minded people on shared interests = subgroups

To answer your question simply Lyman: Because theyre people and because theyre women.

 

The most odd thing of your question was Western women. You think women are different elsewhere? They are not. The only thing that separates North and South Korean women is how much they are beaten to maintain a societal norm. South Korean culture is heavily influenced by "The West". North Korea also has its cliques, which are placed there more by the society. Government approved cliques rather than the freedom to make your own clique, but theres gonna be cliques no matter what. Its human nature.

 

Repression.. meh I dont want to get into all that shit. At least not atm. I wanna go play a fantasy game where a scantilly clad hottie runs around with me shooting things with high powered automatic weapons where the assets to make that possible in said game are also due to female creators. Because fuck 3rd wave Feminisms cult of dogmatic outrage, ill like what I like made by those who like to make it.

 

#notallexceptionstoeveryruleectdontgetonmyass

[BloodberrySmoothie]

On 12.1.2018 at 5:23 PM, Lyman the Lunatic said:

 

 

Actually, I am always amused by hostile attitudes whenever someone asks why this kind of sub groups need to exist to the point I don't want to just sit quietly & be amused anymore. I don't get it, so you claim the society represses you, but when I am curious, your first reaction is to be antagonistic against me. Which made me wonder if this repression you claim to exist in the society doesn't really exist or you are the ones who unwittingly create them yourself.
All I see is that this is still Loverslab, we all here could just be friends & race or gender or whatever other ideas & beliefs are irrelevant. I am quite disappointed by these replies of these above users. Even if you want to form a network of friends, I don't see why is that a problem, but I never understand this kind of attitude, especially when it seems western-minded women seems to have this habit a lot of the time on the internet. I was wondering if there will be some sort of sounded, well-reasoned than an antagonistic tone. BloodberrySmoothie had earned my respect somewhat for actually explaining to me why she thinks it is important that this group has to exist despite her negative outlook towards me. If there are women here & would like to express their ideas or opinions, I would rather hear them & see them as part of the community as a whole & not as a fringe group or a group within a group. After all, these women are now part of this community, so why do you need to hide away still. If freedom is something you truly seek, then why put yourself in a confine of an even smaller group. I myself did not even speak against a formation of this group, so I do see that these antagonistic attitude I have received is unjust.

 

 

I would like to hear more of your opinions if that is okay with you.

 

Thanks for giving it a shot. (: I can easily explain why you were greeted in a more hostile manner than other users with an example that you made!

 

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[...] so you claim the society represses you, but when I am curious, your first reaction is to be antagonistic against me. Which made me wonder if this repression you claim to exist in the society doesn't really exist or you are the ones who unwittingly create them yourself

 

What you see as "curiosity", looks really antagonistic to us.

 

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I don't get it why western girls feel the need

does not sound like a respectful question, but more like an exasperated comment on why this is done in the first place. Also, you generalise "western women", yet everyone is aware that a lot of women not from western countries don't even have the rights to come together in such a free environment, which is probably the reason they don't do it.

 

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to create a subgroup like this than to just hang out with the main crowd

this sounds like we should decide to either just hang with the other girls or with the main crowd instead of choosing to do both.

 

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but you girls have fun.

this sounds rather patronising and dismissive.

 

I hope you see how that (most likely) thoughtless way of phrasing caused a negative attidute towards you, I hope.

 

 

Concerning my post from before: Women are not treated well when it comes to sexuality, by other women and men alike. A women who is honest about her desires and fantasies is usually either called names, harrased or looked down upon for really no reason at all, while men do not receive the same treatment for exactly the same actions. This makes it really hard, especially for girls and young women, to express their desires. I know girls who didn't have a single orgasm until a few years after they started being sexually active because they were way too intimidated to talk about their sexuality openly and honestly didn't know it could be a lot better. Thanks to the awesome internet, we can actually have a little more freedom of expression and can explore our desires more freely. Which is why some great person came up with the idea to make a single thread for us to talk about just that - guys are very welcome to see what's on our minds, but they naturally could not experience the things we did, because society treats them differently, and therefore cannot really invest themselves in our "common interest".