Trying to fix my game please help!

[geokel]

So I've been modding the game just fine but recently i started having problems, first my game kept on having CTDs near towns, and now, after trying to fix that by changing my load order, my animations wont play. the characters just idle and its like nothing happened. I changed my load order again but I really have no idea what I'm doing so now its pretty fucked. any help would be IMMENSLY appreciated!

 

Heres my load order, i know its pretty fucked up, but im at my wits end.

 

Skyrim.esm=1
Update.esm=1
Dawnguard.esm=1
HearthFires.esm=1
Dragonborn.esm=1
Unofficial Skyrim Special Edition Patch.esp=1
RealisticWaterTwo - Resources.esm=1
SexLab.esm=1
CreatureFramework.esm=1
Schlongs of Skyrim - Core.esm=1
ZaZAnimationPack.esm=1
ApachiiHairFemales.esm=1
ApachiiHair.esm=1
ApachiiHairMales.esm=1
Amputator.esm=1
Devious Devices - Assets.esm=1
GenderBender.esm=1
SexLabAroused.esm=1
Devious Devices - Integration.esm=1
Devious Devices - Expansion.esm=1
Devious Devices - Contraptions.esm=1
SkyUI_SE.esp=1
Deviously Cursed Loot.esp=1
Devious Devices SE patch.esp=1
Schlongs of Skyrim.esp=1
BadDogSchlongCore.esp=1
BDSpikySlitSchlong.esp=1
BDHoodieSchlong.esp=1
SOS - Smurf Average Addon.esp=1
SOS - ERF - Futanari CBBE - Addon.esp=1
ERF - Futanari CBBE - Equippable.esp=1
MoreNastyCritters.esp=1
Animal_SOS.esp=1
ASOS Race Patch.esp=1
SexLabDefeat.esp=1
SOSRaceMenu.esp=1
SexLab Aroused Creatures.esp=1
sr_FillHerUp.esp=1
SexLab Inflation Framework.esp=1
DeviousFollowers.esp=1
submissivelola.esp=1
Spank That Ass.esp=1
SLAnimLoader.esp=1
Vivid WeathersSE.esp=1
FNIS.esp=1
RaceMenu.esp=1
Vivid Weathers - Extended Rain.esp=1
AmazingFollowerTweaks.esp=1
Vivid Weathers SE - Extended Snow.esp=1
Immersive Encounters.esp=1
FurnitureMarkerSex.esp=0
RaceMenuPlugin.esp=1
RaceMenuHH.esp=1
dD - Enhanced Blood Main.esp=1
DiverseDragonsCollectionSE.esp=1
Mystic Enchantress.esp=1
TSR_TeldrynSerious.esp=1
SimpleSlavery.esp=1
BosmerArmorMATY743.esp=1
Eli_Druid Home.esp=1
Hothtrooper44_Armor_Ecksstra.esp=1
Unique Uniques.esp=1
Sit Anywhere.esp=1
Visible Favorited Gear.esp=1
CBBE.esp=1
3BBB.esp=1
RaceMenuMorphsCBBE.esp=1
Sleep to Level Up.esp=1
SOS - Shop.esp=1
NoOverpenetration.esp=1
Hothtrooper44_ArmorCompilation.esp=0
Bashed Patch, 0.esp=0
Alternate Start - Live Another Life.esp=1
Deviously Cursed Loot LAL AddOn.esp=1
XPMSE.esp=1
RealisticWaterTwo.esp=1
 

[rb888]

You might have used the right guide and see which mod is breaking the game? Backup the game up each time if you know which mods are working in your system.