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4 minutes ago, deejayz said:

 

 

On the other hand, I have to say that LL does not give any indications when uploading that you should use smaller files or spoilers.

I know from many websides that there are upload limits, that an image can have a maximum of 1000 kb or only JPG are allowed. Then nobody would be able to upload 4K images of 12,000 KB a piece.
It's like in real life. If you don't give clear guidelines, no one sticks to them. Recommendations from a few moderators are not enough. 😔

 

> It does. Just as the size of avatar is described in the rules and when you try to upload it, @Psalam wrote about importance of the spoilers here.

 

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25 minutes ago, EvalovesEP said:

 

> It does. Just as the size of avatar is described in the rules and when you try to upload it, @Psalam wrote about importance of the spoilers here.

 

 

Sorry if you misunderstood my post because English is not my mother tongue, but I agree with you exactly. I took the time and read through all of the instructions from @Psalam. But who does it besides me? If I go to a thread and click on 'reply to this topic' there is only a field with 'Drag files here to attach' and then 'submit reply'. No info comes here 'please read the upload rules first' or 'please use spoilers' or something similar. I don't protect anyone, but I think that many of the users don't know about these rules, so you can't always blame only the users.

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6 minutes ago, deejayz said:

 

Sorry if you misunderstood my post because English is not my mother tongue, but I agree with you exactly. I took the time and read through all of the instructions from @Psalam. But who does it besides me? If I go to a thread and click on 'reply to this topic' there is only a field with 'Drag files here to attach' and then 'submit reply'. No info comes here 'please read the upload rules first' or 'please use spoilers' or something similar. I don't protect anyone, but I think that many of the users don't know about these rules, so you can't always blame only the users.

> I know. Many people doesn't not read even the Forum rules, not mentioning the pinned threads in every forum section they visit. I was in between those who read and those who doesn't read important things for new comers. When I joined to LL I read some of it until my husband told me to read everything, so I wouldn't have excuse "I didn't know". Somebody said some time ago: "ignorance is not excuse... " :)

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7 minutes ago, EvalovesEP said:

> I know. Many people doesn't not read even the Forum rules, not mentioning the pinned threads in every forum section they visit. I was in between those who read and those who doesn't read important things for new comers. When I joined to LL I read some of it until my husband told me to read everything, so I wouldn't have excuse "I didn't know". Somebody said some time ago: "ignorance is not excuse... " :)

 

In real life i'm punished for everything I do wrong and nowhere I can say that I didn't know that. This is not accepted anywhere in real life. I get the same punishment whether I knew I was doing something wrong or not. I am obliged to inform myself. Before I take a car on the road, I am obliged to know the traffic rules. But as soon as you are anonymous, like on the Internet, nobody obeys any rules unless they are forced to.

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17 minutes ago, deejayz said:

 

... nobody obeys any rules unless they are forced to.

> Sometimes I wish following rules be forced stricter and offenders to be punished more seriously. But, it is only me and I am a woman which is not very welcomed here as I could noticed no matter how many LL members would disagree about this statement. But, I detoured from the main subject and I apologize.

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10 minutes ago, EvalovesEP said:

and I am a woman which is not very welcomed here as I could noticed

 

Of course, the anonymity of the internet plays a role here, but there are also a lot of nerds and gamers here, for whom the only real woman in their lives is their mother, who brings them food to the PC and washes their over-farted pants . Otherwise, they only know women as virtual beings with monster tits who want to be fucked all day and are grateful for it.

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34 minutes ago, EvalovesEP said:

But, it is only me and I am a woman which is not very welcomed here

I hate to keep this Thread off track but I must take exception. Women are especially welcome on LL. On any site that "is considered pornographic" (from the LL rules) women tend to be as rare as unicorns. Therefore, while many may feel that the opposite is true, I know that I (and I suspect the other Moderators) tend to cut women a little (and only a little) more slack than we do the guys (and the majority of others whose sex is unknown to us - which is their right of course). 

 

Oh, and I'll use Eva's avatar as "my sex wish for today" to help get us back on track. 😉

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2 minutes ago, deejayz said:

 

Of course, the anonymity of the internet plays a role here, but there are also a lot of nerds and gamers here, for whom the only real woman in their lives is their mother, who brings them food to the PC and washes their over-farted pants . Otherwise, they only know women as virtual beings with monster tits who want to be fucked all day and are grateful for it.

 

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3 minutes ago, Psalam said:

I hate to keep this Thread off track but I must take exception. Women are especially welcome on LL. On any site that "is considered pornographic" (from the LL rules) women tend to be as rare as unicorns. Therefore, while many may feel that the opposite is true, I know that I (and I suspect the other Moderators) tend to cut women a little (and only a little) more slack than we do the guys (and the majority of others whose sex is unknown to us - which is their right of course). 

 

Oh, and I'll use Eva's avatar as "my sex wish for today" to help get us back on track. 😉

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> Maybe moderators do accept women more than other LL members, which is praiseworthy, but I was saying from what I saw how some number of men treated me: like shut up, go fuck and don't play smart. :)

 

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2 hours ago, EvalovesEP said:

But, it is only me and I am a woman which is not very welcomed here as I could noticed no matter how many LL members would disagree about this statement.

Some of the biggest and (for me) most important mods here on LL are made by women.

I don't think it's a good idea to play the "I'm a woman, I need special rules" card.

If I read comments I see everyone firstly as unique human, with all the strengths and weaknesses.

So if you are a woman that plays oddball you are not different to a man who want's to win the oddball game.

You yourself paint the picture others will look at and depending of what your agenda is you will have to deal with the results 🤷‍♂️*🤷‍♀️

 

Disclaimer: Exceptions confirm the rule 😁

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43 minutes ago, donttouchmethere said:

Some of the biggest and (for me) most important mods here on LL are made by women.

I don't think it's a good idea to play the "I'm a woman, I need special rules" card.

If I read comments I see everyone firstly as unique human, with all the strengths and weaknesses.

So if you are a woman that plays oddball you are not different to a man who want's to win the oddball game.

You yourself paint the picture others will look at and depending of what your agenda is you will have to deal with the results 🤷‍♂️*🤷‍♀️

 

Disclaimer: Exceptions confirm the rule 😁

 

When I chat with other members here, I never look at their profile and check which gender the other person is. Sometimes you give yourself a hint with your avatar about your own gender, but you don't have to specify your gender here. You can also be a futanari (which I would really appreciate) 😍

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I don't think it's wise of me to share this, as it's honestly none of your damn business and I'd rather keep it private... But fuck it. I don't care.

 

Since the subject of women on the site is currently being talked about. I will confess that I am, in fact, a trans woman. It's something I've known about myself since I was a teenager, but have only recently started being open about. I've been in the process of transitioning for 8 months or so now. 

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42 minutes ago, Ashal said:

I don't think it's wise of me to share this, as it's honestly none of your damn business and I'd rather keep it private... But fuck it. I don't care.

 

Since the subject of women on the site is currently being talked about. I will confess that I am, in fact, a trans woman. It's something I've known about myself since I was a teenager, but have only recently started being open about. I've been in the process of transitioning for 8 months or so now. 

Welcome to a community who is happy to accept you just as you are. And thank you for having built that community.

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29 minutes ago, Psalam said:

Welcome to a community who is happy to accept you just as you are. And thank you for having built that community.

 

35 minutes ago, Ashal said:

Since the subject of women on the site is currently being talked about. I will confess that I am, in fact, a trans women. It's something I've known about myself since I was a teenager, but have only recently started being open about. I've been in the process of transitioning for 8 months or so now. 

 

Thank you so much for this courageous statement

 

I wish you all the best and godspeed on your long journey, which is still ahead of you, until one day you will stand in front of the mirror and see the person you have always been in your heart

 

 

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40 minutes ago, Psalam said:

And thank you for having built that community.

 

I can only join in with my thanks. I feel so comfortable here as a gay man and nobody takes my obscene thoughts wrong or when I turn on the straight guys 😘

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48 minutes ago, Psalam said:

Welcome to a community who is happy to accept you just as you are. And thank you for having built that community.

> Joining the wishes and sincerely hope that certain sex prejudices will have no place on LL regardless of being plain member, or having status of moderator or administrators. I know I sound like a drama queen lately but, fuck it, I can't stand certain behaving and regardless jerks, idiots and male chauvinists, LL is still the best site I ever been to and i have been in many social sites.

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14 minutes ago, EvalovesEP said:

> Joining the wishes and sincerely hope that certain sex prejudices will have no place on LL regardless of being plain member, or having status of moderator or administrators. I know I sound like a drama queen lately but, fuck it, I can't stand certain behaving and regardless jerks, idiots and male chauvinists, LL is still the best site I ever been to and i have been in many social sites.

Totally understandable, I get where you're coming from. I know there are certain problem "spots" on the site that we haven't been great at addressing. I'm truly sorry if it ever feels like site staff or myself "doesn't care" about a problem, I assure you we do notice more than we let on. It's just a real difficult thing to find the delicate balance between being a free-wheeling/welcoming community, while also having to enforce a specific set of rules among millions of registered users while being consistent. And we're by no means perfect at that yet.

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51 minutes ago, EvalovesEP said:

I can't stand certain behaving and regardless jerks, idiots and male chauvinists

 

I know that we have wonderful moderators here, who can not have their eyes and ears everywhere, but always do their best to reduce such grievances

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5 minutes ago, deejayz said:

 

Then let us know the next time you hear a stupid twaddle here and we will together kick them in their balls

I appreciate the enthusiasm but please leave the Moderating to the Moderators. I know it can be hard when you are not (I've only recently become one) but it works better that way.

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27 minutes ago, Psalam said:

leave the Moderating to the Moderators

 

Yes, that was meant to be amusing and not literal. Stupid of me beeing comical on such a serious subject. Should I hear a stupid twaddle, I would turn to you trustingly. I sometimes shoot over the target with my big mouth and apologize to you. I don't want to interfere in the moderator's duties and I know that I'm in good hands with you.

I will honor my moderator and always show him the respect he deserves.  *** big hug ***

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9 minutes ago, deejayz said:

 

I will honor my moderator and always show him the respect he deserves.  *** big hug ***

> show him you honoring him (psalam69) in banning thread, banning him at least 70x7 times ;) :P

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1 hour ago, Ashal said:

Totally understandable, I get where you're coming from. I know there are certain problem "spots" on the site that we haven't been great at addressing. I'm truly sorry if it ever feels like site staff or myself "doesn't care" about a problem, I assure you we do notice more than we let on. It's just a real difficult thing to find the delicate balance between being a free-wheeling/welcoming community, while also having to enforce a specific set of rules among millions of registered users while being consistent. And we're by no means perfect at that yet.

 

> Thank you. I admit, I was often angry at you and your team. But I also know you guys tries hard to make the site smooth and easy which isn't one hour project. Sorry, I am very temperamental woman and if the things aren't as and when i expect them to be, I react. My husband and wife knows what does it mean. But they still love me just as moderators were patient with me and similar LL members. I really want to follow the rules and motto: "Live and let live" which some members shitting on it. You know why am I quiet lately? Because I don't want to be provoked and to react in order that my threads wouldn't be locked. Some male members here doesn't like when woman oppose them. They turn into predators then which it isn't easy to get rid off. Concluding the litany: LL is the best site I ever seen and I want to be here. I am not playing any game but I like to participate in various discussions. This is my virtual home/community where I mostly feels like my own home. :) 

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3 hours ago, Ashal said:

I don't think it's wise of me to share this, as it's honestly none of your damn business and I'd rather keep it private... But fuck it. I don't care.

 

Since the subject of women on the site is currently being talked about. I will confess that I am, in fact, a trans woman. It's something I've known about myself since I was a teenager, but have only recently started being open about. I've been in the process of transitioning for 8 months or so now. 

THAT makes everything even better 😃

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On 10/15/2021 at 1:10 PM, LongDukDong said:

Is it me, or has the default font 'shrunk' in size, and is the text in currently existing posts shrinking?

 

I have to directly set the FONT size to my text otherwise, it becomes fairly ... small in stature.  Almost like every font size went down a teir.

 

Just asking.  Has anyone else noticed that the font size has shrunk?  I mean, when I wish to copy a section from a quote, even the text within the square Quote Widget is barely legible.  And this is at font 16?

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