Toxic Masculinity and Men's Shame

[steelpanther24]

15 hours ago, redeyesandlonghair said:

This right here is a good example of toxic masculinity.  It hurt itself in its confusion.

 

All the guys in this thread who get scared the moment someone mentions toxic masculinity and immediately assume they're what's being talked about is hilarious.  These types are always diving into crosshairs, then crying when they get shot.

 

 

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Too bad schools focus on reading rather than comprehension, as none of the posts could be seen as showing signs of fear or the authors were "scared".    However, I am sure that you will reply with a concise and compelling counterpoint as to why assertive men are a threat to you.  

[redeyesandlonghair]

33 minutes ago, steelpanther24 said:

 

 

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Too bad schools focus on reading rather than comprehension, as none of the posts could be seen as showing signs of fear or the authors were "scared".    However, I am sure that you will reply with a concise and compelling counterpoint as to why assertive men are a threat to you.  

And yet you knew exactly which posts I was talking about.  Funny that, aint it?

[redeyesandlonghair]

10 hours ago, neontube100 said:

you fail to understand my point but whatever.

I understand the point you think you're making just fine.  Maybe some day you will too.

[Elizinator]

for your answer OP you need look no further than this thread. This shit right here. this is it.

[neontube100]

9 hours ago, redeyesandlonghair said:

I understand the point you think you're making just fine.  Maybe some day you will too.

 

"good example of toxic masculinity, hurt its self in its confusion?" you're confused?

 

what i said is true, don't let incels/femcels and feminists change your mind

[phillout]

On 8/26/2021 at 8:41 PM, Lyman the Lunatic said:

Instead of just coming to the conclusion that assholes exists regardless of race & sex & how we should ignore them.

 

My understanding of the current Western mentality tells me that would be "racism" or "sexism" accordingly.

[Lyman the Lunatic]

On 9/7/2021 at 5:07 AM, phillout said:

 

My understanding of the current Western mentality tells me that would be "racism" or "sexism" accordingly.

Obviously I can't speak for the western world in general, but from what I can tell about the Americans. Don't let these crazy dregs on the internet tell you otherwise. IRL Americans & internet Americans are so different it's ridiculous. If anything, I get the impression that most Americans don't know much outside their own states & were being tricked or lied to by the media. Oh I'm not being a tinfoil hat here, I am just baffled with how American news report their news. It's just a lot of mud slinging, telling you what to think & or just reporting about most mundane & trivial of things happening in their own state. Things IRL are so different sometimes. I'm not sure if it's the problem, but there are 2 types of "I disagree". The "I won't say anything" & the "I'll speak up" people. The latter tends to get swept into the extremist bunch even if they aren't.

I also don't want Americans in general to think they are rude or impolite, they are actually the nicest folks around. For some reason, they just feel the need to whip themselves, half the time I wonder if they are all actually masochists & all of these racism & sexism allegations turn them on. I just see it all as a first world problem of "the need to create a problem that actually doesn't exist so they'd feel good about their lives".

Americans are just silly like that.
 

[Lyman the Lunatic]

On 8/29/2021 at 4:20 AM, catchyorbit said:

 

 

Because these particular groups of people don't protest, boycott, write complaints and reports or do anything in retaliation. I've already said that men should drown the police stations in a deluge of complaints and reports on even the slightest wrongdoings by women. She didn't pay for herself at the restaurant? Call the police. She touched you inappropriately? Call the police. You felt harassed? Call the police.

 

That'll be a good idea. If that's the world these silly radicals want, you have to make them walk the talk. The fact that people just give them a free reign is ridiculous. So much so I begin to wonder if common sense is something beyond comprehension in the western world.

[stingray1995]

What's toxic and not limited to sex are the sad and plausible pretexts for human beings that frequent the off-topics found on this site, without even the proprietary "virtue," if not capability and self-awareness, to admit it to themselves or others.

[0wnyx]

1 hour ago, stingray1995 said:

What's toxic and not limited to sex are the sad and plausible pretexts for human beings that frequent the off-topics found on this site, without even the proprietary "virtue," if not capability and self-awareness, to admit it to themselves or others.

 

this is basically a porn website, obviously it will be used by a lot of young men, wisdom, self-awareness comes with age, so where is the problem ? the 1995 in ur nickname ages u in the mid 20s, ur statement sounds like u copied it from somewhere.

 

back to topic

if i had to guess, i would say about 90% of content on this site is about sexualizing women, obviously we all know its only a fantasy, who knows tho how much it affects ur subconscious mind if u consume porn all the time, its a possibility that some gender roles get prioritized/idolized and so on, therefore it makes sense maybe more than for any other site that in contrast topics like this pop up and discuss feminism/masculinity and such.

[stingray1995]

1 hour ago, 0wnyx said:

wisdom, self-awareness comes with age

 

Age can also come with Alzheimer's and dementia, not to mention what's obligatory at the end of one.  

 

I want to clear something up about this very common, shallow, and exasperating misconception about wisdom: Personal experience is where your 'wisdom' comes from; bearing witness.  What has a person experienced?  Where did they experience it?  A person in their early thirties could have seen and felt more as opposed to a person in their early sixties who never was there, never saw or heard it, or even had a chance of being present for it.  And it may be a done deal by their sixties — no chance of experiencing it because it's too late.

 

It's a well-known fact that "age brings wisdom" is a delusional cliche, valid only to a certain extent: an old person has existed longer than a young person, nothing more.

 

1 hour ago, 0wnyx said:

ur statement sounds like u copied it from somewhere.

 

* Thanks.

Edited September 9, 2021 by stingray1995

[Someone92]

Toxic behavior uses to describe men who put the need of others, usually their family, above their own well-being.

A classic example is the father who continues to go to work everyday even though he is physically or mental ill.

 

 

[Stormer]

This is a bullshit terminology used by those too afraid to stand up for themselves. I dont care if its your supperior, your spouse or your friend. Dont take any shit from anybody. Standup for yourself.

[stingray1995]

21 minutes ago, Stormer said:

This is a bullshit terminology used by those too afraid to stand up for themselves. I dont care if its your supperior, your spouse or your friend. Dont take any shit from anybody. Standup for yourself.

 

I can think of 177 million bodies in this country who took shit from a body that can barely stand up.

[phillout]

On 9/9/2021 at 7:11 AM, 0wnyx said:

back to topic

if i had to guess, i would say about 90% of content on this site is about sexualizing women

 

...and men, futas, animals, robots, skeletons. Well, everything.

 

And it almost looks as if you're saying it's a bad thing.

[legendarytoyou]

12 minutes ago, phillout said:

 

...and men, futas, animals, robots, skeletons. Well, everything.

 

And it almost looks as if you're saying it's a bad thing.

Considering that's what this website was designed for yeah.  Call me old fashioned but I tend to like good ol' lewds, sex and rock n' roll so a lot of the creature/futa/robot fetish kind of throws me a curve ball but its acceptable.  I can appreciate the hustle at least, some folks like that kind of stuff, but I'm a simple kind of man that lives by Rodney Carrington's words of wisdom of, "Titties and Beer."?

 

As I've stated in a previous comment, being labeled a, "toxic male," is mainly a blanket statement for saying, "as a male, you should enjoy being treated like your expendable and you should NEVER stick up for yourself!  Women are gods so get on your knees peasant!"  Nope, not going to happen.  I have my pride, dignity and self respect to think about.  Don't like it?  TO FUCKING BAD.  Now excuse me while I load up PornHub, crack open a Guiness and stuff my face with a bag of pork skins.?

[Darkpig]

I'm thinking there should be a better title like: how to fix name calling between sexes or something

 

I'll start:

Hurting women for no good reason is bad and hurting men for no good reason is also bad. Here is an idea stop bloody hurting each other I mean unless that is your kink in which case anything goes.

 

Truth is society is still getting used to females having the same rights as men. In the same vein society is still getting used to females having the same consequences when females infringe on the rights of others. The result: idiots on both sides claiming what they think is right but totally wrong.

 

I think I might start a new thread since this one feels sloppy. What do you guys think?

[legendarytoyou]

6 minutes ago, Darkpig said:

Hurting women for no good reason is bad and hurting men for no good reason is also bad. Here is an idea stop bloody hurting each other I mean unless that is your kink in which case anything goes.

AGREED!  If you're abusive to your partner YOU ARE A WASTE OF LIFE!!  That goes for both sides of the aisle.  Reason why I was pretty indifferent to what happened to Amber Heard.

 

Male or Female, EVERYBODY has the potential to be the slime of humanity.?

[KoolHndLuke]

30 minutes ago, Darkpig said:

I think I might start a new thread since this one feels sloppy. What do you guys think?

By all means, please do. I was ready to retire this thread months ago. I mean I do appreciate everyone's opinion, but I think everything that could be said about this already has been... multiple times. 

[Evaloves4]

39 minutes ago, Darkpig said:

I think I might start a new thread since this one feels sloppy. What do you guys think?

 

[KoolHndLuke]

Yeah, this has gone on long enough. Please lock the thread.

[Psalam]

17 minutes ago, KoolHndLuke said:

Yeah, this has gone on long enough. Please lock the thread.

Your wish is my command.