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This came up in the "dumbest thing you believed as a kid thread" so I figured it might warrant its own little thread for discussion.

Basically as the title says, what was your first exposure to porn, or sexuality in general? The first time you saw someone attractive naked maybe.

I guess some people refer to it as a "sexual awakening"?

 

My first exposure to porn was either watching SpikeTV late at night when they still had Girls Gone Wild commercials and softcore porn, or receiving my first computer as a hand-me-down and all the porn my cousin had left in there, which my older sister promptly beat his ass for leaving in there without cleanup. Dunno which came first but that sparked my curiosity and that curiosity lead to me going on the internet for the very first time to find "big boobies" and the search results lead to me discovering hentai as well. The internet was a lot more wild back then, a lot less regulated search results meant I got an unfiltered view of so much porn I didn't even know what to make of it, I think whichever one came first was also my sexual awakening.

 

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first? sometime like around 1998ish probably, going through a pile of 3 1/4in diskettes i found in the basement. found a nudie calendar from some years prior. probably circulated from some dude at my fathers work at some point as i remember it wasn't his handwriting on it.

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Depends what you mean by porn. If nudie magazines with no actual/simulated sex count then sometime in the early 90s. One of my friends living in the country had a stockpile of Playboy and Penthouse mags he decided to give me a preview of. If you mean sexual acts it would be sometime in the late 90s from poor quality bootleg porn VHS tapes my friend down the street had. Oddly enough it was his girlfriend's idea to put the videos on. Also amusing that it was a porno from the 70s. You took want you could get back then.

 

So fairly generic "Gen X male's first exposure to porn" story. Internet wasn't a thing most people had access to back then. So magazines and video cassettes ruled the porno landscape.

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12 minutes ago, MrEsturk said:

Depends what you mean by porn. If nudie magazines with no actual/simulated sex count then sometime in the early 90s. One of my friends living in the country had a stockpile of Playboy and Penthouse mags he decided to give me a preview of. If you mean sexual acts it would be sometime in the late 90s from poor quality bootleg porn VHS tapes my friend down the street had. Oddly enough it was his girlfriend's idea to put the videos on. Also amusing that it was a porno from the 70s. You took want you could get back then.

 

So fairly generic "Gen X male's first exposure to porn" story. Internet wasn't a thing most people had access to back then. So magazines and video cassettes ruled the porno landscape.

Yeah I meant porn in a general sense to like sexual stuff but also nudity. I'll edit it to be more clear!

That's a pretty casual way to just put porn on haha.

Just now, Captain Cobra said:

Someone spamming some big tiddy Renamon pics in some chatroom I was in.

A man of culture, leading the uninitiated to enlightenment.

I learned about Krystal from looking around porn sites for hentai way back when I first learned of it.

Got Star Fox Adventures specifically because of her, game was trash but she's been one of my furry waifus since.

Renamon too, easily the only reason you need to argue Digimon is better than Pokemon :P

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Back in my early days in high school (mid 90's), I remember seeing one student loading a porn site by typing in the words, "dirty slut".  He quickly closed it before the teacher came back, a couple minutes later.  We just looked at each other and laughed it off while going about our day.

 

As you can see, web security was very lax back then.

 

 

Around the same time, an old friend of mine stopped by with a black porn video (when no one else was home, of course) and played it in the living room VCR.  That made for an interesting night.

 

 

Oh, and I watched "Skinemax", or Cinemax After Dark in my elementary school days.  Fun times.

 

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12 hours ago, megamantaray said:

This came up in the "dumbest thing you believed as a kid thread" so I figured it might warrant its own little thread for discussion.

Basically as the title says, what was your first exposure to porn, or sexuality in general? The first time you saw someone attractive naked maybe.

I guess some people refer to it as a "sexual awakening"?

 

My first exposure to porn was either watching SpikeTV late at night when they still had Girls Gone Wild commercials and softcore porn, or receiving my first computer as a hand-me-down and all the porn my cousin had left in there, which my older sister promptly beat his ass for leaving in there without cleanup. Dunno which came first but that sparked my curiosity and that curiosity lead to me going on the internet for the very first time to find "big boobies" and the search results lead to me discovering hentai as well. The internet was a lot more wild back then, a lot less regulated search results meant I got an unfiltered view of so much porn I didn't even know what to make of it, I think whichever one came first was also my sexual awakening.

 

I love to google the references you type, I just wanted to put that out there, whether or not it's understood is another matter.

And in googling, I noticed that whatever word you  put next to "porn" becomes an instant fetish.

 

 


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I was looking for cave drawings but....only got as far back as Pompeii and Rome.

 

Then I thought of the times I inadvertently brought up porn as a kid.

Like how nice a water bottle smells hanging in a shower-bath,

or how nice and shiny a lady's legs were.

My thoughts run to the show "charlie brown" where the adults would switch to an unintelligible drone represented by musical instruments.

Most of the adults in my life did this, so if porn was discussed they talked about it in a special code, that I knew was meant to be ignored.

pompeii-porn, I think I still have some waitasec

 

 


 

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And my brothers would confiscate books from my mom's extensive library (the kind of books college-aged student-readers would have) or make fun if I stood funny, like on one foot, so sex was either not discussed or I was made fun of for bringing it up.

The expensive books, several hundred dollars worth if you bought them today at a used bookstore, were burned in a fire, eaten by mold and bugs, or disappeared and were never heard from again (all three but different time periods,)

so I guess I'm saying I was "sheltered" (Lol)

Then [nevermind]

 

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2 hours ago, 2dk2c.2 said:

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PFFF oh no that goat picture haha!

I was kinda the same with my family though, aside from my sister who had to explain sex to me because my parents wouldn't after I discovered all that porn no one else would even mention sex. It was a taboo subject, hell even in Health class in school the most we got was "Hey use condoms Cx" in High School despite there being a pregnant girl in the room.

It was easily the most awkward thing I'd experienced up to that point.

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I'm bisexual, and when I was around 8 I would have my barbies scissor sometimes. I remember thinking, "I don't know what this is, but I like it!" 🤣

 

Then in my freshman year, I was getting really into fanfiction/yaoi and my best friend was just really into watching porn out of curiosity/for the plot (she also had a lot of knowledge about sex toys). So whenever I came across a term in my reading I was unfamiliar with I'd be like, "Hey, what's this?" and she'd tell me. 😜

 

Ah, the good ol' days.

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18 hours ago, ILikeTheWeird said:

I was around 8 I would have my barbies scissor sometimes

Oh yes, I remember 'borrowing' a Barbie from a neighbors sister so my G.I.Joe had something more to 'do'. I even made a yarn g-string for it. Glad Mom never found it.

 

Concerning '1st porn' I guess it would've been a Playboy magazine all alone on a shelf at the local drugstore, owned by neighbors that lived across the street. In the words of the owner "I'm sorry, I can't sell this to you". I was a bit young....

 

As far as things that affected me - One halloween my parents took the family to see a 3D showing of 'House of Wax' starring Vincent Price. This 'scene' left a lasting impression on me which affects me to this day - Don't tell me kids aren't impressionable.

 

I couldn't find a short clip, so a few pictures show 'all' you would've seen anyways - it WAS the 60's when I saw this....

 

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She was supposedly nude so the evil Vincent Price could cover her with wax to add to his exhibits - this is what happens when people with no talent try to succeed in a field they have no business in...

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Ehh, why not?...

 

Had an odd fascination with being swallowed and female feet when I was about 5 or 6, I don't know where the fascination came from and I didn't understand exactly what was so fascinating about those things when taking a moment to dissect those thoughts back then (I mean, it's not like my pee pee got hard every time I had them at that age or anything), eventually as I got older I kind of moved away from that fascination (though I guess to some extent they've kind of "hung around in the back ground", the feet one for sure). I was never really exposed to anything sexual (that I'm aware of or can remember) until maybe the 3rd or 4th grade when I was seeing a shrink in school (I had... "behavioral problems", and my parents and teachers were trying to figure out how to deal with them) and we were doing some kind of thing where the shrink would show me a drawing and I had to tell him how the drawing made me feel or what came to mind and the drawing in question had some dolphins in a bottle (I will post the image below if I can find it) and he wanted me to tell him what I saw, and I told him something like "dolphins in a bottle.." then I stared for a minute and said I could also see two people, to which he asked me what they were doing, and I said something like "I don't know.. hugging or something". My first real exposure to sex was during sex ed class in middle school though they were very careful not to describe how sex was done (if that makes sense). Eventually around 8th grade I started feeling.. "weird", I noticed the thought of bare breasts increased my heart rate and just made me feel kind of.. light headed and... "funny", or even somewhat ravenous, though not for food (if that makes sense). Probably my first real exposure to porn was when "we" finally got the internet (because, you know that was kind of a new thing back then) and I just felt compelled to search for.. stuff or in other words I let captain Willie take the wheel for a minute. I was able to keep this up until I got caught oh.. 3 or 4 times over months and years and was banned from the internet unsupervised for a while, which is about the time I discovered late night scrambled porn which.. you might not be able to see things very clearly but the occasional yellowish green and red flashing boob, but when you could... I could tell that Spice TV and Playboy network had some pretty graphic shit on it, I would say even more... juicy (literally) than the stuff I was seeing on the web at the time, I mean the best I was getting was still images on the net, the TV had slippery pegs going in and out of wet holes...

 

What can I say? I was raised in a rather conservative christian household. Actually I blame that for not wanting to date in high school because I know my parents would've been completely in my business and would not have let me figure things out on my own.. then again, I probably would've been friend zoned for the most part, though thinking back I know of one girl that was ready to jump my bones she flashed me in the hallway when we were alone once and I didn't really like what I saw, though I kept that to myself as best as I could.. until she found out anyway, they were too flat and too saggy, like "VV"s type of thing, then there was some other chick who would show up in my drama class who was dating someone who was actually in the class at the time but seemed to be acting very friendly towards me (that one I'm still unsure of though), and there was another girl I know I could've dated at the very least, she was kind of cute, petite with kind of short black hair, but again with the privacy thing.. I kind of regretted not going for it with that one, but oh well... I digress.

 

This is stuff I've never shared with any of the shrinks I've talked to over the years by the way.. I don't know why though. But there I go digressing again...

 

Dolphins image

 

 


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22 minutes ago, Z0mBieP00Nani said:

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That was a very detailed account of your exposures to sex, it was an interesting read. Growing up in a really strict religious family sounds tough, there's so many things you need to learn but are kept from. I was gonna write a lot longer a post but I'm hitting writer's block. I had a story to tell you kinda similar to yours but it's drifted outta my head by now, I will say though that "ravenous" feeling is something I could definitely relate to. I couldn't understand when I first got horny, since sex is kind of a primal need I guess my brain was like "yeah you're hungry.. maybe?" like when you're about to orgasm if you don't know any better you'll think it's pee or you're sick... despite humping a pillow for a good half hour.

 

I can't for the life of me see dolphins in there though. Maybe my brain's too tainted by now.

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48 minutes ago, megamantaray said:

That was a very detailed account of your exposures to sex, it was an interesting read. Growing up in a really strict religious family sounds tough, there's so many things you need to learn but are kept from. I was gonna write a lot longer a post but I'm hitting writer's block. I had a story to tell you kinda similar to yours but it's drifted outta my head by now, I will say though that "ravenous" feeling is something I could definitely relate to. I couldn't understand when I first got horny, since sex is kind of a primal need I guess my brain was like "yeah you're hungry.. maybe?" like when you're about to orgasm if you don't know any better you'll think it's pee or you're sick... despite humping a pillow for a good half hour.

 

I can't for the life of me see dolphins in there though. Maybe my brain's too tainted by now.

separate the top and bottom half.

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1 hour ago, megamantaray said:

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The other thing about my experience is that as soon as my desires first took hold I instinctively knew how sex worked, having never been shown before. Shit, up to that point I didn't even know how to masturbate, true story. One minute I was just minding my own business and didn't know and then POOF! I felt funny, and suddenly I knew that by forming a ring with my right hand and rubbing my joystick up and down really fast would do the trick.. I dunno, that part always seemed kind of weird to me, like unlocking something..

 

Life: *level up sounds* "LEVEL UP! YOU DISCOVERED THE MASTURBATION SKILL, CONGRATULATIONS!"

Me: "WTF?... Hey.. This ain't half bad. I want MOAR!"

 

Or something like that..

 

Yeah.. growing up in a strictly religious household wasn't all fun. Kept me ignorant in a lot of ways..

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I was playing a board game- Clue I think- with my best friend and his little sister, who had a crush on me for the longest time. She had stripped naked while we weren't looking and proceeded to play with herself right in front of us. I think she was only about 7 or 8 yrs old- we were a little older at 10. Incidentally, she was also my first girlfriend and the first girl I ever kissed. She was a very good kisser, by the way, none of this lip-puckering nonsense that kids usually do. Sometimes I wonder what became of her.

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9 hours ago, 27X said:

Raped at 2 which continued to 3, molested/raped at 7.

 

Probably why my fetish is not giving the slightest shit about your fetish.

Yikes, sorry dude.

Been there, molested from ages 6-8.

 

Now I have the 'limp kink' (role-play as drugged, dead, ect.).

 

The things sexual abuse does to the psyche.

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"sexual awakening" and "exposure to porn" would be 2 different things. And years apart.

Where the second one happened far before the first one. Though I couldn't make anything out of it. There was nothing in it that was relevant to me as a child.

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16 hours ago, Z0mBieP00Nani said:

The other thing about my experience is that as soon as my desires first took hold I instinctively knew how sex worked, having never been shown before. Shit, up to that point I didn't even know how to masturbate, true story. One minute I was just minding my own business and didn't know and then POOF! I felt funny, and suddenly I knew that by forming a ring with my right hand and rubbing my joystick up and down really fast would do the trick.. I dunno, that part always seemed kind of weird to me, like unlocking something..

 

Life: *level up sounds* "LEVEL UP! YOU DISCOVERED THE MASTURBATION SKILL, CONGRATULATIONS!"

Me: "WTF?... Hey.. This ain't half bad. I want MOAR!"

 

Or something like that..

 

Yeah.. growing up in a strictly religious household wasn't all fun. Kept me ignorant in a lot of ways..

I mean we're all animals. Sex is kind of a thing we can almost imagine perfectly without having experienced it, masturbating on the other hand isn't really an evolutionary trait or written into our DNA really so that's something you do genuinely unlock and learn how to do, and most people do it differently because they learn differently. My first "orgasm" was humping a pillow and I didn't even consider putting something inside me till I saw actual porn, then my first sex toy was a sharpie and after that I tried my fingers.

15 hours ago, KoolHndLuke said:

I was playing a board game- Clue I think- with my best friend and his little sister, who had a crush on me for the longest time. She had stripped naked while we weren't looking and proceeded to play with herself right in front of us. I think she was only about 7 or 8 yrs old- we were a little older at 10. Incidentally, she was also my first girlfriend and the first girl I ever kissed. She was a very good kisser, by the way, none of this lip-puckering nonsense that kids usually do. Sometimes I wonder what became of her.

That's a very bold lady. Sounds cute though, I wish I could see the faces on you guys when suddenly BOOM naked lady several knuckles deep in her own pussy! xD

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4 hours ago, megamantaray said:

I mean we're all animals. Sex is kind of a thing we can almost imagine perfectly without having experienced it, masturbating on the other hand isn't really an evolutionary trait or written into our DNA really so that's something you do genuinely unlock and learn how to do, and most people do it differently because they learn differently. My first "orgasm" was humping a pillow and I didn't even consider putting something inside me till I saw actual porn, then my first sex toy was a sharpie and after that I tried my fingers.

That's a very bold lady. Sounds cute though, I wish I could see the faces on you guys when suddenly BOOM naked lady several knuckles deep in her own pussy! xD

The thing with masturbation is there are other animals that masturbate so that actually could be in our instinctual make up as well. Like I know monkeys will masturbate and also dolphins. It seems to be something only intelligent mammals know how to do though. On an interesting side note I've heard that for guys masturbating to girl on guy porn can actually strengthen your sperm count and also make them stronger in general, that it has something to do with tricking your brain and body into thinking that you failed to get the girl, I've also heard that masturbating to guy on girl porn can cause guys to be more ok with being cucked for similar reasons.. and because of some of the abuse that I allowed myself to be put through in the past, I would agree with that assessment as that happened to me once and for a brief second before my rage took hold over the scene playing out in front of me I found it kind of arousing.

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First time with sexuality at all was in kindergarten, '79. Girl who's name long left me wanted to play "show me yours, I'll show you mine". Kids will be kids, I played along. We discovered nothing was different between us. She was also my first kiss and the one that led me to the realization that I was gay.

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