This is just a quick and dirty alteration of lovers bed I made to allow the player to have sex with an NPC when they get into bed with them.   You still need the .ini file from the original mod here http://www.loverslab.com/topic/15113-lovers-bed/   Due to the way I've gotten this to work, you will also need to install see you sleep http://www.nexusmods.com/oblivion/mods/42649/?   Have fun