How long will you endure?
If we’d be honest, we’ll admit we are slaves to our habits (more or less), especially to habits we love. Well, no matter how good some habits are if you try to stop doing them suddenly and momentarily, you will suffer certain consequences because some habits are chained to our emotional and mental state. Good news is that healthy and balanced compromises are good solution for such problem.
Rainy Monday morning followed by South warm wind from the sea. We had family morning coffee after which my Prince started to prepare to go to work. My Ivy also started to dress up. I watched her what she was doing but, I had no heart to tell her. My Prince asked her:
- Honey, are you going somewhere?
Ivy (confused): What do you mean?! To the work with you.
My Prince hugged her and kissed her saying she forgot she is on unpaid leave. She sighed sadly and started to undress. It is not surprising. She has been working with him every day for three years, she is addicted to him in some very special way and now she was in “shock” and “lost”. (I am also addicted to my luvs and my addiction to my Prince is different from my addiction to her). My poor precious Ivy. She loves Mikey and me and she tried hard to be involved in home activities, but her thoughts were with my Prince all the time. She called him often via Viber just to see him and hear his voice. I tried to interest her in making Skyrim story, but she had no will. She has no desire to do anything without him. My Prince? Lidija called me yesterday and she discreetly said to me:
- Eva, something is wrong with boss …. He is mind absent … he addressed B.G. as “Ivy” several times sighing sadly …….
I told her he misses my Ivy because she behaves the same and when my Prince comes home after the work, she runs out on our parking and as soon he exit the car she jumps on him wrapping her legs around his hips and they shower each other’s face with kisses and “love yous.” When they satisfied their “hunger” for each other, both were normal and we were happy family again.
When my Prince went to work today, she held Mikey in her arms. She talked to him and kissed him. Then she started to cry and she sobbingly said to me:
- I …. I’m sorry …. Princess ….. I love being with Mikey and you, but …. I can’t …… I can’t be without Prince so long every day ….. I miss him very much …..
I said I understand her and that I don’t resent her. I also told her to go to the Hotel and talk to him and see if they can find some solution. She kissed me and Mikey, refreshed and drove to the Hotel. When she returned after one hour and so, she smiled happily and she showered me with kisses. Then she placed me in her lap and she told me what happened.
Ivy: When I came to the Hotel, I knocked on his office door and when I heard: “Come in!” I entered in. Prince was talking to our substitutes who submitted their reports from the “field”. When he saw me he thought something bad happened to you or Mikey and he asked me very worried: “Is everything OK with Eva and Mikey?” I told him that you are fine and after apologizing for interrupting his meeting I told him we need to talk. While I waited for them to finish meeting, I was with Lidija in Hotel bar. She was surprised I didn’t tease her. When Prince called me on smart phone to come to our office, I went right away. We were alone and I sat in his lap. After we kissed we both started to cry. He told me how much he misses me and I told him how much I misses him. We didn’t know what to do until I got an idea. I said to him:
- Honey, we both aren’t ready for my unpaid leave … You know what …. Let me come to the work only for 1-2 hours a day so I can be near you and with you …. You don’t have to pay me …. When we are satisfied with the time we are together, I can work every second day for hour or two until we are both ready to be separated for longer time. What do you think?
(to me): Princess, he was thrilled with the idea but he said: “Wonderful idea my luv. However, I want you to go home immediately when Eva needs you. Deal?” I accept it. We had a quick one and he impregnated me.
I was very happy to hear they found healthy compromise. My luvs endured only two days’ work separation. I wonder, how many of you will endure longer having in mind that you are relationship addict and crazily in love with your husband/wife? I asked her to prepare nice warm bath for Mikey for we gonna bath him after I post this. She went happily humming. A new lesson is learned:
- You’d never know how weak or strong you are until you try to stop.
P.S. Trilog ( @Tirloque )
- Don’t you dare to mention our sex addiction. ?
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