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Things that needed to be deal with


Evaloves4

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We had very interesting week. No incidents, but we had few “confrontations” in the family. Nothing to worry about, but some things needed to be deal with in order to prevent eventual catastrophes and/or broken relationships. But, before I tell you about them, let me say few words about other things.

 

 

I’m 29 weeks pregnant now. I gained few kg but I’m still skinny in comparison with many pregnant women in my stage. My boobs, ass and the belly is bigger. I don’t know if you watched the “Astronaut’s wife” movie with Charlize Theron (1999). Well, if you did, then you know how I look like. My doctor visited me every morning and did complete check of my health and baby’s condition. So far, so good. I have to commend my two midwifes. They are true professionals and they do their job very well. They always checked on me when sleeping or resting showing me the position that suites my baby and me the best. We are all very satisfied with them. We didn’t became friends yet because they are keeping certain distance from us which is fine. They are polite, nice and always willing to help. They didn’t comment or react on hearing my luvs having wild sex under the shower after martial arts training and they always let us alone when we were together in the living room smooching and cuddling. When working, my luvs called me few times a day every day just to tell me they love me and the baby. They always knew when to call me since they saw me on web cameras.

 

 

Whole week was dedicated to organization of farewell party for Boss tomorrow. My Fran regularly informed me about everything that is happening in the Hotel. He likes to work with Vinko who is very dedicated and responsible. I planned to come to the party but my doctor said I need to rest. They bought him large crystal artifact specially made for him with the number of the years he worked in the Hotel and big “Thank you” plus 2 big A2 posters with pictures of all Hotel workers that worked in the Hotel during his management. My new social worker visited me in Tuesday and she was very satisfied with the conditions for maintaining my pregnancy. She will come once a week just to see me although she receives daily reports from my doctor.

 

 

Now, about “confrontations”.

The first one was in Sunday after the lunch that my Prince and B.W. made. Lunch was very delicious and we all commended it. Well, my mom behaved “strange” during the morning coffee with us. She was kind of sad, quiet and withdrawn. Everyone noticed her strange behaving during the morning and she replied to us that she just isn’t in the mood. Nobody asked her any more questions, except my Prince. During the time for cookies and coffee, he invited her to talk in the kitchen. She didn’t want to, but my Prince convinced her to talk to him. They talked some half an hour and when they returned my mom smiled. Later on, when we were alone, my Prince told us what happened. Seeing how much B.W. loves my Prince and how much time she spend with him and when he asked her to cook with her made my mom felt neglected by him. She told him that she was hurt by our reaction when we told her to stop kissing him and cuddling his cheeks for she exaggerated. She complained that B.W. is doing the same and nobody reacts at all. Beside many things that my Prince told her he comforted her saying:

- … Mom, unlike you who has daughter and whom you loved all your life and later on you got Ivy and me, B.W. didn’t have children at all. She didn’t have a child whom she could love and take care of. When she started to see me and treat me as her son, she simply pouring out her love that was “quiet” inside her for decades. Her mother’s nature came to the surface and all she knows is she has to let it flow from her. I still love you as my mother and that will never change. My feelings for B.W. and you are same. I don’t love her more than you. I love you equally just as I equally love Eva and Ivy.

She showered Prince’s face with kisses thanking him for telling her that. My Ivy and I were very proud at him.

 

 

Second confrontation was between my Ivy and me. It amused her to see my Prince being very aroused in Synetica’s presence and his running away from her. He felt very uncomfortable in her presence for he lusted for her but he didn’t want to break his promise: “No sex outside the marriage”. My Ivy also wanted her, but unlike my Prince she could control her urges. She forged very devilish plan to seduce Synetica and after having sex with her she planned to “convince” her to have sex with my Prince. I had serious talk with her and I explained to her why that is not good idea. She didn’t give up easily until I told her that she also pledged to have no sex outside our marriage and how my Prince can feel betrayed if she break her promise and help him to break his. The third “confrontation” happened last night when Synetica came to work. My Prince decided to talk to her and they sat in the living room. This is what he said to us after the conversation with her:

- I couldn’t watch her in the face. She is so beautiful and I didn’t know how to start the conversation being afraid that she might get offended. When she asked me why I behave so strange in her presence, the words simply flew from my mouth. I openly told her that she is too beautiful and too hot and that I always have erection in her presence and although I don’t want to have sex with her because I promised to you that I will not have sex outside the marriage, I can’t help it: I want her badly. She was looking at me silently few moments and then she said: “Mister, Prince, I’m flattered you see me beautiful and attractive although I don’t understand why you want me since you have two beautiful wives and by hearing the sounds from the bathroom, you and Miss Ivy have very passionate sex. I must tell you openly and directly: it is not going to happen. You and I will never have anything else but employer-employee relationship. I’m here ONLY to help your wife to go through the pregnancy without complications. I strongly suggest you to start to work on your problem right now and I hope we will not have this conversation again … Good night, mister Prince”.

You won’t believe but that was exactly what my Prince needed to hear. Her words wiped off all his sexual tension toward her. He wasn’t disappointed that she rejected him. On contrary, he was glad because it helped him to stop lusting for her because if she didn’t, he will fail and it will crush him.

 

 

As you can see, open talk, “confrontations” and dealing with problems that needs to be deal with have positive results in most cases. But both sides needs to be open for listening and self confrontation. Delaying what is necessary to be done, can only make things worse. I’m very happy that in all these cases, “wrong doers” were mature enough to realize, accept and change their behaving. Have a nice weekend LL.

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Excellent reactions from both participants in both confrontations ! Ivy still play a bit too much as "the devil's advocate", but I guess she has some kind of sexual humor that she doesn't knows yet when to limit. Congratulations to Prince for his speech to your mum, to you for the one to Ivy, and to Synetica (it reassures me to see there are some people are on the quiet/reasonnable side about sex in Croatia ^^).  And I think that as she took Prince aside to talk to him, this hasn't any humiliating feel to it, so this was well handled.

 

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2 hours ago, Tirloque said:

 

 

Excellent reactions from both participants in both confrontations ! Ivy still play a bit too much as "the devil's advocate", but I guess she has some kind of sexual humor that she doesn't knows yet when to limit. Congratulations to Prince for his speech to your mum, to you for the one to Ivy, and to Synetica (it reassures me to see there are some people are on the quiet/reasonnable side about sex in Croatia ^^).  And I think that as she took Prince aside to talk to him, this hasn't any humiliating feel to it, so this was well handled.

 

Malicia : « Prince is way more intelligent than Stranger, uh. If it was Stranger, it would have gone like  :

   

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Thanks, Trilog. My Prince was always the man of his word and although he desperately wanted to have sex with Synetica, he doubled his effort to fight that urge. I respect him and admire him for that. :) As for my Ivy, she is my precious luv. I know she is hard to reason with sometimes due to her wild nature and spirit, but she listens. She just "forgets" her priorities sometimes. I think that she'll change when she will become a mother, but that change wouldn't be that radical. She'll always be as she is. My Prince and I love her regardless of her shortcomings and often failures. You know, if you'd have a chance to sit and talk to her you'll find out that she is very intelligent regardless of her goofing and making jokes all the time.  And once you learn that she will always be IVY, (just like her father was as he was), you can even fall in love with her character. Thanks to my Prince, she is waaaay less wild and rebellious. Some things will always be as they are, because that is what makes us all unique and special. :)

 

And  ?? for Stranger pictures. Yes, indeed, my Prince is quite different form Stranger.

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2 hours ago, dharvinia said:

It is hard to find a good man, but a hard man is a good find. ???

Thank you. Very true. I couldn't even dream that my Prince will be the man I always wanted by my side. I felt he is different than all others when I met him and I'm glad we didn't have one night sex. Today, I'm happiest girl in the whole world. :)

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Good thing the nurse said no because the real problem was that the last few girls said "yes yes I'll have what she's having".;):thumbsup: It helps so much when they are willing to help put a stop to the problem.:)

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21 hours ago, Jayomms said:

Good thing the nurse said no because the real problem was that the last few girls said "yes yes I'll have what she's having".;):thumbsup: It helps so much when they are willing to help put a stop to the problem.:)

- I know that you will agree with me when I say that getting "no" is not always bad thing. As the matter of fact it is very good thing.  :) 

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20 minutes ago, EvalovesEP said:

- I know that you will agree with me when I say that getting "no" is not always bad thing. As the matter of fact it is very good thing.  :) 

:)

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