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Oppression (always) cause resistance

Evaloves4

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When my luvs told me how their unannounced inspection in the Hotel passed, we all laughed hard. After checking every department, they went to their office and they “caught” Lidija talking to her boyfriend over the phone. As always, my Ivy couldn’t resist not to tease her. She winked him as the sign to let her do her thing. Lidija prattled with her boyfriend and didn’t notice them entering in the office. When she saw them she was very surprised and almost dropped the phone: “Bosss??? Ivyyyy???”. My Ivy made very serious face and she pretended she is angry.

Ivy: I can’t believe what I see Lidija. I’m very disappointed in you! Instead of doing your job, you are flirting with your boyfriend.

Lidija (stuttering and blushing): I’m sorry, but he called me. I accepted his call because I didn’t have anything else to do.

Ivy: Don’t tell me you didn’t know that flirting is forbidden during the working hours.

Lidija: I know it is, but, I wasn’t flirting!!!

Ivy: Are you calling me a liar?! You flirted. We heard you!

Lidija wouldn’t break Hotel rules and exchanging few “love you” and “kisses” wasn’t flirting. But, poor soul was so shocked that she was lost. She apologized and expected help from my Prince. He was uncertain what to do. He loves Lidija, but he also wanted to give the satisfaction to my Ivy in teasing her for it’s her way of expressing her affection to Lidija. So he didn’t do anything.

Ivy (to Lidija): I can’t let you go unpunished. Here is what we gonna do. You and I will go and sit on that sofa over there. You will sit in my lap and we gonna smooch. You will play with my tits while I cuddle your ass.

Hearing it and seeing Lidija’s stunned blushing face with wide open eyes and mouth my Prince blasted in laughter and he couldn’t stop laughing. My Ivy told me that whole office echoed from his “Ha-Ha” and “Ho-Ho”. His laughter was contagious and she also started to laugh hard. They both whipped tears from eyes.

Realizing that Ivy was only joking she said:

- I hate you, Ivy!!! I really hate you!!! (No she doesn’t. She likes Ivy but she didn’t know what else to say).

She sat on her chair and mumbled something. When they stopped, my Prince hugged her and kissed the top of her head apologizing for the laughter. My Ivy kissed her on the cheek and she apologized too. Lidija told them that all is fine and that she isn’t angry at them. They took her to the Hotel bar and treated with juice. Then they went to see boss. He was very glad to see them and he treated them with beverages complimenting their eagerness for work although they are on vacation.

 

 

I didn’t need my body guard because I work for villa from home and didn’t go outside the house even when my luvs did two bodyguard jobs for the boss. We also visited B.W. and had a great time with her. We didn’t skip our morning and evening routine and we had sex 4-5 times a day. My Prince impregnated me every second time for my Ivy and I were cum hungry. They can’t wait to hear me saying: “I’m pregnant”. We studied parenthood together and we love it. Although my luvs are on vacation, they had no rest. They planned events for autumn and winter and regularly checked situation in the Hotel with Tina, Guy 3 and Lidija. They also planned my birthday party which is in two weeks. We were in our café this morning and had a good time with Fran and Lidija’s boyfriend. We didn’t have sex, but Ivy and I enjoyed in sweet Prince’s cum. My Ivy had to tease Lidija’s bf.

Ivy: Say, did you guys had sex by now, I mean, you’re dating a long time now.

Prince: Ivy?!  … Behave, please.

Lidija’s bf: Ivy, no offense, but it doesn’t concern you.

Ivy: Of course it does. Lidija is under our protection and we must know if you forced her on sex. You must answer or I’ll tell Antonio you didn’t cooperate.

Lidija’s bf: I would never force her on sex …. And …. Ahem … we did it ….. On her initiative.

Ivy (smilingly): How many times?

Lidija’s bf: Well, I don’t have to answer on this one. Ask her. If she wants to tell you, fine.

Ivy: Did she wear anything sexy?

Lidija’s bf: I’ll say no more words.

Ivy had that look in the eyes and we knew she forged something devilish. My Prince told her laughingly:

- Ivy …. Honey …. Don’t you dare ……. Leave her alone!!! I mean it.

My Ivy grabbed him for the jaw and deep kissed him saying:

- Of course, my love ….. don’t you trust me?!

We all unanimously said: NOOOOOOOO!!! (and we blasted in loud laughing).

 

 

Before I close this dairy I must say something about my Prince again. I know that some of you disapprove his aggressiveness and approach toward bullies and vandals. Some of you think he should use more diplomatic approach or walk away especially now when he will become a father. Me too. But ….. on the other hand, protecting and defending bullied is part of his character that he can’t control. He simply must react. Unlike many people who are pacifists and diplomats in every situation and circumstance, my Prince react differently on bulling. One is: very diplomatic approach when he is bullied or insulted. He will use the words as weapons trying to avoid conflict. If that doesn’t help, he kicks asses. Second is: He is completely other person when we are insulted or attacked or when he sees innocent people being bullied. He has no mercy, tolerance or understanding for bullies and vandals. He reacts instantly.

 

 

I talked recently with my dear LL friend and she told me about her concern for my Prince when reading my diaries. She is very intelligent and I appreciate her care. She appealed on me to try to influence on my Prince to be more careful about his reactions on bullies. Although I talked to my Prince about it several times earlier and I tried to change him, the result was always the same: arguing and nervous leaving the house to steam off. But I promised her I will try again. He was very nervous and he put a “veto” on this subject saying that if I try it again, he will ignore me and he will leave the house. He doesn’t like to be forced (who does) on anything. History showed that oppression always caused resistance. My Prince belongs to those who will always resist to any kind of terror and oppression. He believes and follow: Live and let live. I remembered when he told me once after very long and loud quarrel about similar thing (quote): “If I fucking have to hit the wall and break my head, then let me break my fucking head, but stop raping my brain!” I realized that I couldn’t and I shouldn’t change him. He will be what he is and only certain circumstances, some “outer power” or miracle can change him. Maybe fatherhood will, although having in mind that I will be pregnant soon and that he’s gonna be father made him to increase intensity of his martial arts training, body strength and speed because he wants to be in top condition in order to protect me and our baby. You should see him; he is not only very muscular now (thanks to two years of disciplined training), he is also very strong and fast. His fists, elbows, knees and feet are hardened because of punching and kicking the kick bag.  Anyway, we accept him and love him for who he is, not for what he has done.

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Tirloque

Changing is something difficult, so I don't think it's possible unless the person who has to change deeply wants it. In other words, we can't change people, but we can change ourselves. Meaning you shouldn't try to change him, but you could let him understand what you'd wish, so that later, he can make a decision of his own. :classic_smile:

 

Malicia : « You can't change her either, no. She'll always be teasing people very much and , 'cause that's how she is, you see ? :classic_angel: »

 

 

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Evaloves4
2 hours ago, Tirloque said:

Changing is something difficult, so I don't think it's possible unless the person who has to change deeply wants it. In other words, we can't change people, but we can change ourselves. Meaning you shouldn't try to change him, but you could let him understand what you'd wish, so that later, he can make a decision of his own. :classic_smile:

 

Malicia : « You can't change her either, no. She'll always be teasing people very much and , 'cause that's how she is, you see ? :classic_angel: »

 

 

> Very wise words. :)  I gave up from changing him long time ago. :) There was no result and we only argued. And, he tried to be different person. Trust me. I witnessed how hard he tried but he couldn't. If he doesn't help bulled person, his conscience burdens him and he is miserable. He can't be what he is not. None of us can. You can't be sex addict because you aren't such a person. You don't love sex as we do. You know what I mean ;):P

 

As for my Ivy, I don't want her to change. We love "Marko's gene " in her. :)

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dharvinia

we accept him and love him for who he is,

 

The most magnificent creature in the entire world, the tiger is. If you rile a tiger, he's going to show his claws.

Such is Prince.
 

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Evaloves4
3 hours ago, dharvinia said:

we accept him and love him for who he is,

 

The most magnificent creature in the entire world, the tiger is. If you rile a tiger, he's going to show his claws.

Such is Prince.
 

> Yes, he is Ivy's and mine wonderful tiger. Unlike the ex companies and boyfriends we had, he is REAL refreshment and he is the one who charmed us although he calls us the witches ;):)

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Tirloque
5 hours ago, EvalovesEP said:

> Very wise words. :)  I gave up from changing him long time ago. :) There was no result and we only argued. And, he tried to be different person. Trust me. I witnessed how hard he tried but he couldn't. If he doesn't help bulled person, his conscience burdens him and he is miserable. He can't be what he is not. None of us can. You can't be sex addict because you aren't such a person. You don't love sex as we do. You know what I mean ;):P

With respect, I would like to insist on a subtlety here : I said, you can't change people. Meaning, a person can't ask another to change. It's just too hard for that to succeed if the desire of change doesn't come from within,

 

BUT one person can decide by herself/himself to change herself/himself. And then, if he/she wants it hard enough, some can succeed. 

 

 

Proof is you're thinking I've never been a sex addict. :classic_wink:

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Evaloves4
6 hours ago, Tirloque said:

With respect, I would like to insist on a subtlety here : I said, you can't change people. Meaning, a person can't ask another to change. It's just too hard for that to succeed if the desire of change doesn't come from within,

 

BUT one person can decide by herself/himself to change herself/himself. And then, if he/she wants it hard enough, some can succeed. 

 

 

Proof is you're thinking I've never been a sex addict. :classic_wink:

> In my Prince case, in order to change he has to have some external "stimulate", some kind of "push." I know him that much. Have in mind, my friend, that he is very different than most of the people. He succeeded to manage and put his "Hulk syndrome" under control. So far I didn't figure out what was his "push". I have theories but we never discuss about it. It simply happened. Maybe when he realized that he can kill someone if he doesn't control it?

 

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Proof is you're thinking I've never been a sex addict.

> Well, have you been? ;)

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Tirloque
5 hours ago, EvalovesEP said:

> In my Prince case, in order to change he has to have some external "stimulate", some kind of "push." I know him that much. Have in mind, my friend, that he is very different than most of the people. He succeeded to manage and put his "Hulk syndrome" under control. So far I didn't figure out what was his "push". I have theories but we never discuss about it. It simply happened. Maybe when he realized that he can kill someone if he doesn't control it?

So that's a change, somehow. :classic_wink:

5 hours ago, EvalovesEP said:

> Well, have you been? ;)

Yep. But in a very different way that the one of your trio, I give you that. And I wouldn't say I am no addicted anymore, just that it's under control while it wasn't previously.

 

 

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Evaloves4
50 minutes ago, Tirloque said:

 

Yep. But in a very different way that the one of your trio, I give you that. And I wouldn't say I am no addicted anymore, just that it's under control while it wasn't previously.

 

 

> Tsc, tsc .... you gave up from most beautiful thing that exist in the world. I do not admire you in that ;):P

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Tirloque
4 hours ago, EvalovesEP said:

> Tsc, tsc .... you gave up from most beautiful thing that exist in the world. I do not admire you in that ;):P

On the contrary. Being unable to refrain from doing something for a shorter and shorter period of time was causing suffering to me, as I started to hate myself and the addiction, as much as I loved the addiction.  I found a way in which it did not cause suffering/affect my daily life, while I could still enjoy it. So I do enjoy it more than before in fact. :classic_wink:

 

To give you an example, let's take addiction to alcohol. Well, if you let the addiction go to the point where you've got a cirrhosis and got no choice but to stop completely or die ; then you messed up and won't enjoy the end regardless of what it is. Now, If you keep it under control, and never drink more than 2 glasses a day, you'll be able to enjoy that taste till the end of your days.

More effort at start, more pleasure in the end... So control is in fact a solid way to enjoy pleasures more, and longer. That's even the very base of epicurism. Smiley_henri_gaud-belin_HFR.gif

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Evaloves4
1 hour ago, Tirloque said:

On the contrary. Being unable to refrain from doing something for a shorter and shorter period of time was causing suffering to me, as I started to hate myself and the addiction, as much as I loved the addiction.  I found a way in which it did not cause suffering/affect my daily life, while I could still enjoy it. So I do enjoy it more than before in fact. :classic_wink:

 

To give you an example, let's take addiction to alcohol. Well, if you let the addiction go to the point where you've got a cirrhosis and got no choice but to stop completely or die ; then you messed up and won't enjoy the end regardless of what it is. Now, If you keep it under control, and never drink more than 2 glasses a day, you'll be able to enjoy that taste till the end of your days.

More effort at start, more pleasure in the end... So control is in fact a solid way to enjoy pleasures more, and longer. That's even the very base of epicurism. Smiley_henri_gaud-belin_HFR.gif

> Glad for you, although I agree with you to certain point.

People have different "hunger" intensity for various things. My luvs and me have extremely strong hunger for sex, probably more than others and whenever we are in the need for "dose" we enjoy in sex equally as we aren't. Therefore, we can't talk about "one fits all" formula. :)

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Tirloque

Well I was not telling you how to do things, only explaining what I did cause you asked.

 

Despite of this, I am intimately convinced that control/epicurism is better than uncontrolled addictions, and that it's better to address those issues before to be forced to do it by life's events. And of 'course I'd like to see you three acquire that control before that happens. But I won't force anything onto anyone, as the freedom everyone should have to makes his/her own choices is something I do respect. Smiley_jap_HFR.gif

 

Only thing I'm telling you, is that you reject the idea because it's hard. But that hard isn't impossible, and that it's better to learn to drive in a parking, than to be forced to first hold the steering wheel on a highway. :classic_wink:

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Evaloves4
9 hours ago, Tirloque said:

Well I was not telling you how to do things, only explaining what I did cause you asked.

 

Despite of this, I am intimately convinced that control/epicurism is better than uncontrolled addictions, and that it's better to address those issues before to be forced to do it by life's events. And of 'course I'd like to see you three acquire that control before that happens. But I won't force anything onto anyone, as the freedom everyone should have to makes his/her own choices is something I do respect. Smiley_jap_HFR.gif

 

Only thing I'm telling you, is that you reject the idea because it's hard. But that hard isn't impossible, and that it's better to learn to drive in a parking, than to be forced to first hold the steering wheel on a highway. :classic_wink:

Agree with said, but let me correct you about this part:

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Only thing I'm telling you, is that you reject the idea because it's hard.

> we aren't rejecting to put our sex addiction under control because it's hard. We are rejection it because we love to be sex addicts for we love sex. ;):P

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Tirloque

Yeah, but do you like the way you feel when being deprived of it for longer than usual ? The way it affects you when you're traveling, or when Prince is afar ?

 

Anyway, that question does not need to be answered right now. You're enjoying life to it's fullest right now, and that's not something everyone can boast about. :classic_wink:

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Evaloves4
4 hours ago, Tirloque said:

Yeah, but do you like the way you feel when being deprived of it for longer than usual ? The way it affects you when you're traveling, or when Prince is afar ?

 

 

> Have you heard for improvisation? ;) There is always masturbation as the last/only option. :)

 

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You're enjoying life to it's fullest right now, and that's not something everyone can boast about.

> Thank you. We do, indeed. :)

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