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It is stronger than him


Evaloves4

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I don’t know is it a good thing or not, but my Prince became overprotective toward me. Not only in real life, but on LL too. I already said many times that I’m not ashamed of who I am and how I (we) live. I don’t have a problem if people disagree with my life style and they disapprove it, but it bothers me when they disagree and disapprove it with insults and humiliation (in my own threads). I am like my Prince; I do not post on the threads that I don’t like and I certainly do not insult people for the things they like and support. Calling names and giving bad epithets is not the way one should express disagreement. Excellent example of disapproving with someone’s (mine) life style is @Tirloque (alias "Trilog" as we love to call him out of affection). He never called me names, never insulted me or my luvs and yet, he stressed his disapproval on civilized and cultural way. That’s why we love him and respect him regardless of disagreements. But, there is one LL member who attacked me and my way of living in my two threads. I ignored her comments and when my Prince wanted to react, I asked him not to. (He doesn't read my diaries, but he reads my posts and threads). After her fourth insult he couldn’t stand it anymore and he roughly replied to that person. I asked him to rephrase his post, to make it more civilized and cultural or to delete it, but he didn’t want to. He said: “Disrespect deserves disrespect with interests!” My Ivy, of course, took his side and she said she would be even meaner and evil to that person especially because I didn’t do anything wrong to her. He was already pissed off at her behaving and Ivy’s support encouraged him to write even sharper post to her. Although I begged him to not to do it, he did it. Since common sense, giving him perfect example of wise, decent and civilized behaving in such situations of our LL friend, Trilog didn’t help too, I threatened to him that I will report him to the moderators. You know what he did? He smiled, kissed me and said:

- Do as you like, Princess ….. I love you and I will never let anyone to hurt you and humiliate you no matter what happens to me afterwards.”

I reported him and that girl to moderators. He surprised me with his aggressiveness and zero tolerance on insults addressed to me in his last post to her. He swore at her, called her names and addressed lot of insults choosing no words. He was willing to sacrifice his reputation and status on LL if it is needed just to defend me and protect me. It is stronger than him. Although I don’t like that side of him, I love my stubborn overprotective blond angel. No man ever loved me even half as he does. Anyway, I truly hope that offender will stop trolling me. Moderators deleted their posts.

 

 

Coming to the work in Monday my Fran and I were surprised how many people approached to us saying that they are sad we are leaving. Some of them even tried to make us change our mind and to stay. We were very touched. When Tina saw me, she smiled, hugged me very firmly and thanked me numerous times for recommending her for hotel manager position. She said that she didn’t expect it after our bad past. I told her again that she changed, that she deserves that position and that I’m very confident she will do a great job. She insisted to treat my Prince, Ivy and me with the lunch in the Hotel. She didn’t accept our rejection. Lidija hugged my Prince thanking him for staying saying that she wouldn’t enjoy come to the work if he left too. Seeing my Ivy approaching to her with open hands to receive her hug too, she quickly hid behind my Prince and holding him for his arms she peeked over his shoulder and said:

- Ammm …. I’m glad you stayed too, Ivy.

Ivy: What about the hug, then?

Lidija: Ahem … next time, Ivy. I promise.

We all blasted in laughter. Oh, my …. Lidija is so cute. We love her very much.

 

 

We had e.b. meeting and we decided to end this summer season with this month. Some guests started to leave because of bad weather forecast for this weekend. Although it will be sunny the whole week there was possibilities for occasional rain showers too. That means my Fran and I are stopping to work for the Hotel on August, 31th. I was surprised seeing my Prince and Ivy being in our office these two days most of the time; when they didn’t have other obligations. He talked a lot to the boss and they went to the Hotel bar few times. When I asked him later why is he doing it he told me that he feels sorry for the boss who wasn’t sad anymore about my resignation, but wasn’t happy either. My Prince told me that he has a feeling that boss felt lonely and he wanted to show him that he cares for him. Indeed, whenever they returned to the office from the hotel bar, they both laughed and boss’s mood was better.

 

 

Zdenka broke the contract with tourist agency. She had to pay the penalty of 300 Euros for cancelling. Her apartment and our ex apartment in villa will be free this weekend so she and Fran will move in this Saturday. We will help them in moving. My Prince and B.W. will cook for us in the villa. My Fran is very excited about it and he constantly hugged us and especially my Prince calling us his family. My Ivy teased them saying:

- Fran you two need to take the room and fuck good. It’s annoying to see how often you hugging my husband. Fuck him for goodness sake or leave him alone.

I laughed hard when my Prince started to chase her saying “I’ll kill you, dirty mouth, witch!” while she screamed running around and laughing too. When he caught her, he overpowered her and laid on the top of her. She quickly started to suck his lips and tongue and he became very aroused. They fucked crazily on the floor moaning loudly while my Fran sighed and commented: “Gross! Dirty perverts”. He and I went to the balcony and enjoyed in cold grapefruit juice. I missed to drink it from my luvs’ mouths.

 

 

Driving to the down town after the big break today by business, my Prince stopped at the pedestrian crossing to let the kid cross the street. One driver didn’t stop and he passed him speeding and almost hit the kid honking to the kid to move away from pedestrian crossing. My Prince went mad and he started to chase him. He caught the driver on one intersection when they had to stop because of the red light and big line of the cars. He tried to dragged him out of the car but the driver locked himself in the car. He wanted to crush the car window with the handle of his gun, but my Ivy stopped him for she didn’t want him to pay for the car damage. My Prince bumped on his car with fists and legs shouting that he’ll get him sooner or later. He was stopped by the policemen who was in patrol. He explained to him why he wanted to hurt the driver, but policemen wrote a report against him. When my Ivy told my Prince to not to worry because she will call Antonio, the policemen asked her: “Are you talking about Antonio from “XXX security?” Ivy confirmed saying that he is their house friend and future godfather to their child, he ripped off the report apologizing to my Prince. He obviously heard about Antonio or he knew him. He let them go and he took the driver’s papers when my Prince and Ivy went to their car. As I said earlier: my Prince is very careful driver and pedestrians always have advantage. He can’t stand when people behave on the road like they are living in the “Mad Max” world and I know why he wanted to beat him. THAT KID COULD BE OUR SON! I even don’t want to imagine what he will do to the driver who will run over our son. Those things bothered him, still does and I believe, it always will. It is stronger than him. I’m also sure that the driver will never forget my Prince’s angriness when he wants to take pedestrians’ advantage again jeopardizing their lives. Knowing my Prince, he won’t let it go. He’ll find him and he’ll make him regret being careless driver.

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I wanted to understand the essence of the conflict, but apparently some of the comments were deleted. =(
I hope I do not hurt anyone's feelings.^_^
Unfortunately, some people(trolz) do not know how to keep their mouths shut fingers from the keyboard, so what can we do about it? =\  Do not worry about this at least. But as a man, I understand why the Prince did this. I've been in similar situations.
In any case, this is life. There is no right and wrong choice, as it seems to me. There is one that we choose. And if someone else chooses another way,  I won't condemn them for it.
So with what I can only wish you peace and good luck ^_^

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18 minutes ago, Crw said:

I wanted to understand the essence of the conflict, but apparently some of the comments were deleted. =(
I hope I do not hurt anyone's feelings.^_^
Unfortunately, some people(trolz) do not know how to keep their mouths shut fingers from the keyboard, so what can we do about it? =\  Do not worry about this at least. But as a man, I understand why the Prince did this. I've been in similar situations.
In any case, this is life. There is no right and wrong choice, as it seems to me. There is one that we choose. And if someone else chooses another way,  I won't condemn them for it.
So with what I can only wish you peace and good luck ^_^

> Thank you. Yes, moderators deleted their posts. I reported my Prince as the measure of sanction, not to hurt him and because I didn't like the way he communicated his dissatisfaction with hers posts. It was full of swears, name callings and insults. On the other hand, I was grateful to him for he defended me. He is a true husband who cares for my Ivy and me with all his power, wisdom and being. I never met anyone like him. That's why my Ivy and i are crazy about him. He'll literary die for our safety. :)

 

All is fine and I'm not angry at that LL member. All I want her to stay away from my posts and threads. :)

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I 100% understand and agree with the first post I saw from Prince responding to TheWhite. She openly said you were crazy, his answer was clearly irritated yet still polite. I missed what came afterwards that being said.

 

That being that even though his ire is most of the time legitimate, the results of it growing often aren't worth it (the posts that followed, wanting to break-through the bad driver's car being two examples). I think, that though he improved his self-control, maybe he should keep on working on it. ?

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Are you talking about Antonio from “XXX security?” Ivy confirmed saying that he is their house friend and future godfather to their child, he ripped off the report apologizing to my Prince.

IMO, that cop does not behaves like a rightful one would. What if the bad driver knew Grabar-Kitarović, would he then jail Prince ?  -_-

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1 hour ago, Deso561PL said:

Guess i should move on too...

> Sorry, I didn't get this. Do you want to leave LL or you want to forget being trolled and move on in positive direction?

I don't want you to leave LL if you mean it.

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36 minutes ago, Tirloque said:

I 100% understand and agree with the first post I saw from Prince responding to TheWhite. She openly said you were crazy, his answer was clearly irritated yet still polite. I missed what came afterwards that being said.

 

That being that even though his ire is most of the time legitimate, the results of it growing often aren't worth it (the posts that followed, wanting to break-through the bad driver's car being two examples). I think, that though he improved his self-control, maybe he should keep on working on it. ?

IMO, that cop does not behaves like a rightful one would. What if the bad driver knew Grabar-Kitarović, would he then jail Prince ?  -_-

> Well, mister Disagreement ... ;)  My Prince will always be what he is: justice defender and advocate. I might not like some "parts" of it, but that's who he is. Who am I to change it. It will be race in closed circle for he can't change in this area. Just like you, me, Ivy and everyone else can't change in areas we are deeply rooted since the day we were conceived. ;)  And, I proudly say: I don't agree with you; my Prince doesn't have to work on named "problem" ;):P

 

> As for Grabar-Kitarović .... I agree that policemen wasn't fair. Our all country; moral, political, social, heath any every other segment of society is spoiled and rotten. But, if he would new our president, he will be powerless because Antonio knows a major and many influential local politicians that stands behind him and G.K. won't be able to do anything. Sometimes local authorities have greater power then governmental.

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:O What the Schnitzel Cake is going on here!? ;) Guess I missed what just went on around here and in what post did it happen in...? 

 

I do worry that maybe someday you guys might face some body that Antonio can't handle. :( I just hope that day never comes like that topic you guys discussed a while back of one of you guys ever getting hurt to the point where you would want the cord cut to stop the suffering....?:(

 

I can't tell Prince what would Jesus do because he would certainly not case down someone the way he did Jesus would forgive no matter what. Which is why I said many many people would not do the things Jesus does. I'm not religious I'm just using example of Jesus here because he's good example of what Love truly is going beyond reason to forgive that's way it still feels wrong to mistreat others even if they mistreat you. I know it's difficult to agree with such love because society knows no other way or answer to resolve conflict. They have been so poisoned by the negative field left behind by millions of years of negative outcomes of conflict and suffering due to the loss of connection from their oneness of the universe, nature, and all that goodness and such. Unfortunately we would have to dig deep down inside to undo all the effects brought upon us by the negativity of this world.:( Forgive me I'm rambling on here.;)  

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Eva, we are all ready to be savage in some cause. The difference between a good person and a bad one is the choice of the cause.

The strength and power of a country depends absolutely on the quantity of good men and women in it.  Prince just happens to be one of those good men....and if he becomes too well know also a target.

My mother always said that I should never argue with a fool because they will drag me down to their level and beat me with experience.

 

As for that driver learning a lesson....you cannot fix stupid.  He might be cautious for awhile, but eventually like a drug addict he will return to his old ways.
 

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3 hours ago, Jayomms said:

:O What the Schnitzel Cake is going on here!? ;) Guess I missed what just went on around here and in what post did it happen in...? 

 

I do worry that maybe someday you guys might face some body that Antonio can't handle. :( I just hope that day never comes like that topic you guys discussed a while back of one of you guys ever getting hurt to the point where you would want the cord cut to stop the suffering....?:(

 

I can't tell Prince what would Jesus do because he would certainly not case down someone the way he did Jesus would forgive no matter what. Which is why I said many many people would not do the things Jesus does. I'm not religious I'm just using example of Jesus here because he's good example of what Love truly is going beyond reason to forgive that's way it still feels wrong to mistreat others even if they mistreat you. I know it's difficult to agree with such love because society knows no other way or answer to resolve conflict. They have been so poisoned by the negative field left behind by millions of years of negative outcomes of conflict and suffering due to the loss of connection from their oneness of the universe, nature, and all that goodness and such. Unfortunately we would have to dig deep down inside to undo all the effects brought upon us by the negativity of this world.:( Forgive me I'm rambling on here.;)  

> Here is one interesting thing: My Prince was mistreated most of his life and he can handle insults and mischief addressed to him very well. The problem is when his loved ones are insulted and mistreated. He simply can't let it go. And here is another phenomena: my Ivy and I didn't care how others threat other but ourselves. She will always react. Now, we became like him; we don't mind how people treat us, but we care how they treat our loved ones. I didn't want to sound as a saint in this diary because I'm not and because I would do exactly the same if he was insulted as I was; I would let it go at first, but if person continue to be mean to him, I would also say a lot of bad things to the aggressor. You see, I started to think a lot about his words: "Letting bullies goes away without punishment is like approving their act that gives them even more motivation to continue bullying others."

I agree with what you say and we talked a lot about this subject. I assure you, my Prince knows the Bible since he grew in Christian home (his mother is a believer) and he has no problem to forgive. He showed it numerous times. The best example of forgiveness is Tina who raped him and humiliated him with her lover. He gave her another chance and hired her in the Hotel. Thanks to his example, my Ivy and I forgave her too and she'll be my inheritor in the Hotel. But, he is raised to protect others. He simply can't let injustice go without correction. I will reveal a secret to you: we talked about his and Ivy's baby and he always glowed and melted thinking holding little Ivyo or little Ivy in his arms and taking care for it. But, he was always sad and angry thinking that they might be bullied. He said he won't let it happen. He is willing to go to jail or to die protecting our children. You see, Trilog, you and my Prince are three different personalities although you and Trilog share much more similarities than with my Prince. Especially when it comes to pacifism. He changed a lot. He managed to control Hulk syndrome and he handles conflicts very well. If he wouldn't, my boss will never entrust him the position of chief of human resources. My Ivy became less aggressive and wild thanks to him. (You see my point?) But, my Prince will always be what he is and live according: "Live and let live, but don't fuck with my loved ones."  :)

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15 minutes ago, dharvinia said:

Eva, we are all ready to be savage in some cause. The difference between a good person and a bad one is the choice of the cause.

The strength and power of a country depends absolutely on the quantity of good men and women in it.  Prince just happens to be one of those good men....and if he becomes too well know also a target.

My mother always said that I should never argue with a fool because they will drag me down to their level and beat me with experience.

 

As for that driver learning a lesson....you cannot fix stupid.  He might be cautious for awhile, but eventually like a drug addict he will return to his old ways.
 

> Thanks for your words. Please read my answer to jayomms for it partially explains why is he doing what he's doing. :) 

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1 hour ago, EvalovesEP said:

> Here is one interesting thing: My Prince was mistreated most of his life and he can handle insults and mischief addressed to him very well. The problem is when his loved ones are insulted and mistreated. He simply can't let it go. And here is another phenomena: my Ivy and I didn't care how others threat other but ourselves. She will always react. Now, we became like him; we don't mind how people treat us, but we care how they treat our loved ones. I didn't want to sound as a saint in this diary because I'm not and because I would do exactly the same if he was insulted as I was; I would let it go at first, but if person continue to be mean to him, I would also say a lot of bad things to the aggressor. You see, I started to think a lot about his words: "Letting bullies goes away without punishment is like approving their act that gives them even more motivation to continue bullying others."

I agree with what you say and we talked a lot about this subject. I assure you, my Prince knows the Bible since he grew in Christian home (his mother is a believer) and he has no problem to forgive. He showed it numerous times. The best example of forgiveness is Tina who raped him and humiliated him with her lover. He gave her another chance and hired her in the Hotel. Thanks to his example, my Ivy and I forgave her too and she'll be my inheritor in the Hotel. But, he is raised to protect others. He simply can't let injustice go without correction. I will reveal a secret to you: we talked about his and Ivy's baby and he always glowed and melted thinking holding little Ivyo or little Ivy in his arms and taking care for it. But, he was always sad and angry thinking that they will be bullied. He said he won't let it happen. He is willing to go to jail or to die protecting our children. You see, Trilog, you and my Prince are three different personalities although you and Trilog share much more similarities than with my Prince. He changed a lot. He managed to control Hulk syndrome and he handles conflicts very well. If he wouldn't, my boss will never entrust him the position of chief of human resources. My Ivy became less aggressive and wild thanks to him. (You see my point?) But, my Prince will always be what he is and live according: "Live and let live, but don't fuck with my loved ones."  :)

I know...You don't have explain to me how he is. I just worry is all. ;) I'm sure I would lose it if my nephew gets threatened. It's always been me and my good friend Mike that always been in threatening situations before no one else and hopefully it will stay that way.:mrgreen:

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11 hours ago, Jayomms said:

I know...You don't have explain to me how he is. I just worry is all. ;) I'm sure I would lose it if my nephew gets threatened. It's always been me and my good friend Mike that always been in threatening situations before no one else and hopefully it will stay that way.:mrgreen:

Thank you for being considerable. :) That's what true friends do and who they are :)

To answer on your question: "what will happen to my Prince one day when Antonio won't be available or near?" As far as I know, Antonio's agency built very good reputation. Although he is its founder and chairman, all brethren are respected and known. As I said earlier: Antonio has a web page that contains all brethren info and pictures and only important people knows about it and have access to it. My Prince is in it too, so he is kind of "protected". If Antonio pass away, the brethren continue to exist and to help each other. The "XXX" security grows and have more and more influence, but only several have benefits of being a "brother" like my Prince. :)   

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2 hours ago, EvalovesEP said:

Thank you for being considerable. :) That's what true friends do and who they are :)

To answer on your question: "what will happen to my Prince one day when Antonio won't be available or near?" As far as I know, Antonio's agency built very good reputation. Although he is its founder and chairman, all brethren are respected and known. As I said earlier: Antonio has a web page that contains all brethren info and pictures and only important people knows about it and have access to it. My Prince is in it too, so he is kind of "protected". If Antonio pass away, the brethren continue to exist and to help each other. The "XXX" security grows and have more and more influence, but only several have benefits of being a "brother" like my Prince. :)   

:relieved::classic_biggrin::mrgreen::thumbsup:

 

It was so hot at work today that they sent us home early at noon :sweat_smile: The heat is hitting us hard over here too but it was still nothing compared to Puerto Rico's heat. :classic_laugh:

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7 hours ago, Jayomms said:

:relieved::classic_biggrin::mrgreen::thumbsup:

 

It was so hot at work today that they sent us home early at noon :sweat_smile: The heat is hitting us hard over here too but it was still nothing compared to Puerto Rico's heat. :classic_laugh:

> Feel bad for you. :) We are lucky. After the heavy storm few days ago, the temperatures in our country fell some 8-10 degrees. I'm glad for my Prince because he doesn't feel exhausted any more. :)

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