I will spare you from the details from Thursday afternoon and Friday and just say that I worked till 14:00 in Friday and after the job I rushed home to help my Prince and Ivy in cooking and baking because we have a lot of work. We planned to have traditional Easter breakfast in Sunday at my parents’ house at 7:00 and our friends in Monday. Prince’s mom called him and told him that they will arrive during the Saturday morning by car. Her *boyfriend (*Kurt – fake name) will drive them in his car. My luvs and I spend the whole afternoon in cooking and baking and we had a great time as usual. We enjoyed doing things together. Of course, we had a food sex afterwards on our kitchen table. He informed our business partners that he is not available in Sunday and Monday, only in emergencies.
After our yesterday’s morning routine, our parents came for morning coffee. They said they mostly finished with all cooking for tomorrow and they wanted to stay to welcome Prince’s mom, Kurt and Prince’s sister. They helped us in cleaning the house, doing laundry and ironing. Since Prince’s family didn’t come and it was 11:30, they went to their homes to finish cooking and baking. We took a quick shower and had quick sex under the shower for we were in the need for dose. Few minutes later my Prince got a phone call from one of our business partner. He was asked to come to his hotel and do 1-hour security job on the unplanned emergency meeting he has with his stuff. So my Prince and Ivy dressed up and he put his empty pistol under his short coat. Just before they were about to go, Prince’s mom, Kurt and his sister arrived. We welcome them and she introduced Kurt to us. We exchanged kisses and hugs. His mom felt hard object pressure on her chest while hugging him and she opened his coat and saw the gun. She was in shock and she demanded explanation. My Prince told her that I will explain to her because they have to go after their duty. Anyway, I offered them beverages and while I was preparing some snack they refreshed in our bathroom. Then we sat in the living room and while his sister kissed my cheeks and played with my hair I TRIED to explain to Prince’s mom about his job and empty gun. None argument helped. She was very upset and strongly against the gun. When her boyfriend tried to comfort her saying: “What did you expect from a sinner, my dear?!” I’ve got a feeling we are going to have a hard time with them.
Before he started to quote a Bible to me, he stood up, spread his hands, spun slowly and started to “clean” the house from evil spirits, the devil and the sin yelling like a madman. I was shocked. When he finished with “cleaning” our house, he told me that I’m living in mortal sin but it’s not too late for me, my Ivy and my Prince to repent. He quoted me several biblical verses and when I couldn’t listen them anymore, I said to Prince’s mother:
- Mom, I thought we were done with this subject… With all respect, I kindly ask you to stop for I’m sure your son will be very upset if he hear that you harassed me …. You know what he told you he will do.
She told him to stop. Thank heavens my luvs returned very soon afterwards, but although I didn’t tell anything to my Prince about what has happened, he has guessed it from the look of my face. Then the “storm” showed its teeth. When he dressed into normal outfit his mother asked him to talk to him in private. They went to the kitchen and we stayed with her boyfriend and Prince’s sister in the living room. His sister showed us pictures she took on her tablet and we really loved to “listen” (watch) her explanation about the pictures although we didn’t understand the most of it because we don’t speak sign language well as my Prince. She was even more overweighed than the last time we saw her and she barely walked, breathed heavily and got exhausted very often because of diabetes. Ivy and I had a bad feeling about it. Very soon we heard my Prince and his mom arguing loudly. They quarreled about his gun, about Seka’s weight, and his suspicion about harassing me in his absence. Kurt stood up and headed toward the kitchen, but I told him (in German) to let them talk because it’s a mother-son quarrel and that my Prince doesn’t like anyone to interfere without being asked. Kurt didn’t listen to me and he went to the kitchen. Then he said to my Prince in English:
- Son, I forbid you to talk to your mother like that. You will stop now!
(Me thinking in myself: Kurt, Kurt, you should have listened to me)
Prince: First of all, Mister …… I’m not your son. Second, my conversation with my mom is not your business and third, this is my house. You are my guest and behave like one. I kindly ask you to leave now and to close the door behind you. Kurt shouted at him: Shut your dirty mouth, Satan!!! I commend you in the name of Christ!
My Ivy and I were stunned. The man is total religious freak. Since he didn’t want to leave, my Prince pushed him out of the kitchen, locked the door behind him and he continued to “talk” to his mother. The situation was very tensed and we heard her crying and very soon we didn’t hear the sound. Kurt was on our balcony in the meantime and he prayed with his hands risen up to the sky. My Prince exit the kitchen being very upset. He called my dad and asked him if his mom and Kurt might come to their place now. My dad said he’ll come and pick them up. Seka stayed with us.
When they were gone, my Prince hugged his sister, kissed her and said he loves her. Then he told us about the conversation with his mom. She still doesn’t want to accept the fact that his is bodyguard with (empty) pistol. She also tried to excuse herself for lousy care for Seka when it comes to the food and her health and he threatened to her that he will report her to the social worker if she doesn’t change. He asked me if she harassed me and since we don’t lie to each other I said Kurt did, but he stopped when I asked him. He was tensed but he controlled his temper. He kissed me and Ivy and he spent some time talking to his sister in sign language. When the time came for our evening routine, I didn’t went jogging with him and Ivy, but stayed at home with his sister. She enjoyed again dressing me in various outfit telling me that I’m too beautiful princess and that she loves me very much. When they returned we exercised together and when they started to practice martial arts, I took Seka to children’s room and we watched Disney’s Mulan on line and I brought he the supper and sweets for diabetics so she wouldn’t see their wild sex. When they finished Seka took the shower and she asked us if she can sleep with us. We didn’t mind, but since she is “extra-large” now, the place on the bed was too narrow for 4 of us and my Prince went to sleep in the guest room. She played with Ivy’s and my hair kissing us on the cheek all the time while we talked. We felt very sorry for my Prince. When Seka slept, my Ivy sneaked out of the bed and we showered our Prince with gentle kisses and “Love you’s”: He slept deeply and he sighed while sleeping. I looked at the scars on his shoulders that instantly “showed” me the picture of his soul; too often wounded and covered with many scars. I felt deep sadness, compassion and love for him. He deserves better. He must. My Ivy and I will make sure that he does.
The real drama started this morning. After our morning routine we took the food we prepared for family Easter breakfast and we went to our parents’ home. My Prince was worried about his mom’s and Kurt’s behaving and he discretely asked my mom if they caused any trouble. My mom wouldn’t tell him even if they did and she just cuddled his face smilingly saying that all is fine. My Prince knew they forced their religion and he was nervous. When my boss and his wife arrived they brought the meals they prepared. We served the meals on the table. Just as we sat at the table, Kurt said to Prince’s mom to open her Bible and to read from it before the prayer. My Prince said to his mom:
- What are you doing???!!! Mooooom, this is not your house! You have no right to do this without asking your hosts for permission! Show some respect for god’s sake!
His mom ignored him and our parents, wanting to be good hosts, said it’s OK. The problem continued when Kurt started to preach about sin and repentance asking her to translate to us. My Prince was angry. He stood up, took the fork and the glass and hitting the glass with the fork several times he interrupted his preaching. When Kurt stopped, my Prince said:
- Moms, dads, thank you for inviting us over. Let’s enjoy in the meal.
His mom and Kurt looked at him very angrily. I was sitting in my Prince’s lap, but we behaved. We didn’t eat as we used to so we wouldn’t provoke his mom and Kurt.
You could feel the tension in the air. When our dads wanted to make a toast, his mother and Kurt refused to toast. She explained that drinking alcohol is poisoning our body which is the temple of the holy spirit. Anyway, the breakfast was more quiet and uncomfortable for all but nobody said the word to them in respect to my Prince.
After the breakfast we, females cleaned the table and my mom and Zdenka washed the dishes. Kurt was very persistent to go with him and Prince’s mom to local Pentecostal church for church service at 9:00. Again, wanting to be good hosts, our moms and dads accepted the invitation, but boss and his wife excused themselves saying that they have to go home for they have some obligations. They thanked for hospitality and hugged us all before they left. My Prince said that we aren’t going, but I discreetly asked him to fulfill their wish for they will leave tomorrow and that we should show them good will. He accepted my suggestion, although he thought it was a bad idea. (If I ever knew what will happen, I will not agree to go to the church with them). So, we followed them in our cars to the local Pentecostal church. It was interesting experience for us for we never went to any church, but for my Prince it was equal to torturing. He was going to the church (by force) when he was a kid with his mother and he didn’t like it. We arrived few minutes after the church service started and we sat in the last row. Just as we thought nothing worse can happen, pastor noticed new people and he welcomed us and invited us to come to the front and introduce ourselves. Prince’s mom and Kurt went at the pulpit and a “shock of all shocks” followed.
Prince’s mom: Praise the Lord. My friend Kurt and I arrived from Germany with my daughter for Easter holidays and we are the first time in your church. But, we didn’t come alone. My son and his two, I don’t know how to call them, came with their parents with us. I ask this congregation to pray for my son. He lives in sin with two girls whom he calls his wives …. They are sitting over there (pointing at us with her head). The saddest thing is that their parents approving their life style that leads them all to hell. Please, pray for them too that the almighty Lord will open their eyes and lead them to repentance.
Everyone in the church (some hundred and +) people turned toward us stretched their hands toward us and spoke in some undefined articular voices. My Prince was extremely mad. He took us for us hands and said: “Let’s get out of here”.
Our parents followed us. We were publicly humiliated and we just wanted to get out of that place. His mom changed on worse when starting to date Kurt. He spoiled her mind and she became religious fanatic. Being near our cars, Prince’s mother caught us and she said to him:
- Son, I know you don’t like what I did, but I did it because I care for your soul. I don’t want you to end up …..
My Prince looked at her with incredible anger and he sharply said to her:
- I forgive you humiliating me publically. It wouldn’t be first time, but offending, humiliating and disrespecting my wives and their parents is unforgivable! …. You and I are finished! …. I don’t want to see you ever again! I don’t want to talk to you! Don’t ever come to our home for you are not welcome!
Prince’s mom (heavily crying): But, I’m your mother, son!
Prince: My real moms are right here (pointing with his head at my mom and Zdenka). Unlike you, they accepted us in despite of our primitive society and they did for me in two years more then you in my whole life. You showed who and what is important to you more than me! Take your Kurt and get out of my life.
Prince’s mom: I love you, son! And god loves you too.
That sentence “overflew the glass”. He yelled at her:
- Well, fuck your damn god, mom! Go and leave us alone!
This was the first time I heard my Prince swear in the front of his mother. That means only one thing: he is furious as hell. Seka watched their quarrel and although she didn’t understand what they were talking about because she is deaf, she knew it was something very serious because her mother cried and her brother was very angry. She also started to cry. Kurt started to pray in German and Marko told him to stop. My dad said that he is sorry for what happened, that they don’t resent them for humiliating them, but they should leave now and return to Germany.
My Ivy and I cried too. We felt sorry for Seka because she might not see her brother again. Prince hugged her tightly and said he loves her. We did the same. Then we split and returned to our homes. When Prince’s mom, Seka and Kurt left, my mom and dad, Marko and Zdenka came to our house. My Prince apologized to all of us for his behaving and asked us to forgive him, his mom and Kurt. We said that we have no hard feelings toward them and that we love him. My parents said that he always will be their son regardless of his mother’s behaving. He hugged all of us, thanked for support and said he is very tired, sad and can’t talk anymore. He went to the bedroom. Ivy went after him. She showered him with kisses, “love yous” and they made love. She wanted to help him to relax and not to think about drama we just had.
Our parents left when they retreated into the bedroom. I was sitting in the living room thinking about recent events. My god …. it’s simply unbelievable what he went through in two days. Ivy and I felt his pain. Having mother like his surely isn’t easy. She and Kurt ruined our family union and the fun, fellowship and joy we would have. The worst thing they did is they ruined their relationship with us. Yes, my dear readers, my Prince loves us so much that he quit his relationship with his mom for she publicly humiliated us and our parents. If this is not true love, then I have no fucking idea what love is. I’m so sad that I decided to write this diary to let it off my chest. I assure you that Ivy and I will do the same thing for him if we were in his place.