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that I will behave on LL.

I'd say it is less about your behaviour, but more about allowing too much acid in your stomach ?

Use the LL ignore fairies ??‍♀️, they ain't that bad and they glow in the dark ?

Might need to zoom in a bit to find them tho ?

There is no need to completely destroy trolls, if you ignore them they look for another topic to hide in

I'd say that virtual life can have real consequences, sometimes good, sometimes bad. But it's not the same that IRL and shouldn't be taken the same way. It's not because people do call you a friend that they won't unplug and thus terminate the relationship altogether with their online activities one of a sudden. Friendship is virtual here, just like oppositions are. Hence you shouldn't expect from people to behave the way they do IRL, and doing so (or not doing so) won't have the same consequences. That's why I've often advised you not to expose yourself needlessly here.

Anyway, glad you had more occasions of discussing this with your friends, in the end they know you better and should provide you good advice.

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You let unreality to become your reality expecting too much from undefined and unknown bunch of people who are living their imaginary lives through their avatars.

« I'm very not undefined, and I'm not unknown at all either.

                Though he's true about people being jealous, uh.

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17 hours ago, worik said:

I'd say it is less about your behaviour, but more about allowing too much acid in your stomach ?

> That and my reactions on certain provocations.

13 hours ago, Tirloque said:

I'd say that virtual life can have real consequences, sometimes good, sometimes bad. But it's not the same that IRL and shouldn't be taken the same way. It's not because people do call you a friend that they won't unplug and thus terminate the relationship altogether with their online activities one of a sudden. Friendship is virtual here, just like oppositions are. Hence you shouldn't expect from people to behave the way they do IRL, and doing so (or not doing so) won't have the same consequences. That's why I've often advised you not to expose yourself needlessly here.

 

Anyway, glad you had more occasions of discussing this with your friends, in the end they know you better and should provide you good advice.

« I'm very not undefined, and I'm not unknown at all either.

                Though he's true about people being jealous, uh.

 

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> It was exactly what my Fran told me. I mixed reality with unreality. This time, the problem wasn't about my diaries, but my gender, being a female and using brain. Some people here think I shouldn't and that LL is a male club, forbidden for intelligent women.

16 hours ago, donttouchmethere said:

Use the LL ignore fairies ??‍♀️, they ain't that bad and they glow in the dark ?

Might need to zoom in a bit to find them tho ?

 

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There is no need to completely destroy trolls, if you ignore them they look for another topic to hide in

> Sometimes they do, most times they don't. It all depends about the forum community too.

You and I have a bit in common. But I will say that once I was able to get passed the school girl curiosity of, "I wonder what that bitch said about me", using the LL ignore fairy does become easier! I have 12, and do not care who, what, where or why they say anything any longer. )))

7 hours ago, EvalovesEP said:

 

> It was exactly what my Fran told me. I mixed reality with unreality. This time, the problem wasn't about my diaries, but my gender, being a female and using brain. Some people here think I shouldn't and that LL is a male club, forbidden for intelligent women.

I'd rather be a female using her brain, than a male using solely his dick. ^^

Anyway, it's easy top get triggered by debate members on the forums section, the blogs' one is more peaceful from that point of view.  Yet sooner or later, learning not to get emotionally involved in a debate, and to keep a cold and reasoning stance will be useful if that discipline interests you.

1 minute ago, Tirloque said:

  Yet sooner or later, learning not to get emotionally involved in a debate, and to keep a cold and reasoning stance will be useful if that discipline interests you.

30 minutes ago, Tirloque said:

I'd rather be a female using her brain, than a male using solely his dick. ^^

 

> I know what you tried to say, but maybe you could find better comparison for women avoiding to compare us with dicks like we are intellectually on same level ?

11 hours ago, EvalovesEP said:

but my gender, being a female

? I think that's nailing it. Nothing else. Just that. No further tiptoeing around the cake is needed.

As annoying as it is (especially here on LL ! ), 

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*not posted a wall of text which is very likely to be very impolite and very likely to be breaking the rules*

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My best advice is to NOT let it eat you up. You already have the real world out there to cope with, which isn't any better.(*)

4 hours ago, EvalovesEP said:

 

> I know what you tried to say, but maybe you could find better comparison for women avoiding to compare us with dicks like we are intellectually on same level ?

To be honest I didn't consider one could see things that way.

The point is most of the males here are first drawn to LL by their sexual drive (their "dick" so to speak). And so I was finding ridiculous that someone led here mostly by his sexual drive would criticize another individual who attempts more cerebral exercises. 

5 minutes ago, Tirloque said:

To be honest I didn't consider one could see things that way.

The point is most of the males here are first drawn to LL by their sexual drive (their "dick" so to speak). And so I was finding ridiculous that someone led here mostly by his sexual drive would criticize another individual who attempts more cerebral exercises. 

> I already learned that you are very careful and skilled with words and I know you don't want to hurt anybody, especially me for I easily gets angry. I was just pointing out how you message can be interpret wrongly as well.

12 minutes ago, EvalovesEP said:

> I already learned that you are very careful and skilled with words and I know you don't want to hurt anybody, especially me for I easily gets angry. 

 

10 minutes ago, Tirloque said:

 

 

> Nooooo ..... I am not into knives and guns like my Ivy. She is like that. I am only sharp on my tongue like this

and very soon I am like this

your family sounds supportive and loving -- glad they understand what makes you happy