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Bigger heart than brain


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Getting new smart phone from mom and dad Boss put my Prince in trouble. Namely, my Ivy and I came to the Hotel after visiting her gynecologist who said that all is fine with her and her baby. She wanted and needed to see my Prince, to tell him good news and how much she loves him. Silvano took her home afterwards and I stayed. Lidija "fell in love" with Prince's new smart phone. Seeing it she said that she always wanted to buy that model and that she and Ivan saving money for it. She asked him if she can see the functions and possibilities. She was very thrilled and when returning the phone to my Prince she deeply sighed saying how much she envy him. My Prince wouldn't be my Prince if he wouldn't say:

- If you want it so badly, I will give it to you.

Lidija refused at first but since my Prince was persistent, she took it. She gave him her smart phone, that wasn't bad but way below the quality of my Prince's phone. He was happy that she was happy. During our break, she, Vinko and my Fran had a coffee with us in my office. Lidija couldn't wipe the smile from her face. She was constantly playing with it while we talked. I thought my Prince let her use it temporary, just to see how it works, but when she told me how much I am happy for having wonderful husband who gave her his smart phone that she always wanted to buy, I almost explode. I looked at him very angrily and he didn't know why am I pissed at him. But instead of attacking him, I asked Lidija to come with me to Prince's office. I explained to her that the smart phone my Prince gave to her was mom's and Dad's Boss gift to him since his got broken. Lidija got red in the face and she apologized to me saying she didn't know for if she did, she will never accept it. So we made a plan how she will return smart phone back to my Prince without making him rejecting it. When we returned she said to him she has to talk to him in private. Our plan worked and my Prince got his phone back. Lidija told me later that she told him how much she is emotionally and nostalgically attached to her smart phone and that she rushed with her decision for phone exchanging. Everything ended well, but I was little bit angry at myself for being furious at my Prince who has less brain than heart sometimes. I had to repeat to myself: "It's him. He doesn't know better. He values people more than things and their happiness is his happiness." If mom and dad Boss found out that he gave away their gift to anyone, they will be sad. But my Prince didn't think about that possibility. Not because he doesn't care about their feelings, but because he just doesn't see "wider picture". He did exactly what his father was doing when was alive. They didn't have enough food for themselves, but when a beggar came to their house asking for the food, he let him in and shared their food with him. They didn't have any food afterwards, but he fed the beggar. I'm not saying that his father did the right thing, leaving his family without food in order to feed the stranger, but that was one side of his moral compass. He was poor, grew up in orphanage so he knows the feeling of being hungry. I weighted pluses and minuses of my Prince's act. At the end I concluded: I liked him more as generous, than selfish although he has to learn to balance his generosity. So, when we were alone I showered him with love and kisses. I didn't tell him anything about my conversation with Lidija and he has no clue what happened. Anyway, my Prince use only 3 functions of the phone among hundreds: calls, messages and Viber. Not because he doesn't know how to use other functions, but because they do not interests him.

 

Saturday was busy, funny and crowded day. Everyone in the family was occupied with some duty. My prince made a menu, our dads bought everything for the meals they will prepare, moms helped them in the kitchen and my Ivy and I were with Mikey and helping dads and Fran to clean the house. Since moms didn't let us be in the kitchen because it was overcrowded, my Prince asked us to bring Mikey to him occasionally so he can kiss him and tell him how much he loves him. So we did it. He didn't only do it to Mikey, but to us too. We heard a lot of laughter from the kitchen. My Prince and moms had a great time and they prepared various dishes: favorite one for each of us. We all enjoyed in perfect meal they prepared. Moms was very proud at my Prince saying he learned to make new stuff from first attempt and it looked and tasted wonderfully. When we were done with the lunch, everyone helped in cleaning. When they left, we enjoyed in each other. I'm not talking about sex only, but in nice romantic moments filled with love and gentleness. My Prince was in need for his time with Mikey, Ivy was in need for my Prince and I was kind of left alone. But I wasn't sad or angry. I understand them. I spent my time with Fran and we had great time talking about various things and his relationship with Dante.

 

 

Nothing special happened yesterday. We wanted to be alone after morning family coffee. This time my Prince and Ivy spent more time with me. We didn't exclude Mikey, but we also didn't give him so much attention as he used to get. When he protested, we came to his room and we kissed each other telling him that mommies and daddy needs some time for themselves. Then I got some mailes and immediate things to do for the Hotel. My luvs were constantly together and with Mikey. I heard a lot of laughter, loud kisses and their moans when they made love. But, the night was dedicated to me. They loved me the way I can't express for I have no words to explain the pleasure and happiness they provided to me. At the end: my Prince is not the brightest person in the world in some matters although he is intelligent and brilliant in many areas. No, I do not judge him or criticize him. All I'm saying that my Prince will always be my Prince: man with bigger heart than brain which is not his fault for he simply doesn't know better. He inherited it from his father, he was raised that way which tells me one thing: as long he is like that, his heart is on right place and my Ivy and me will help him to put in balance his heart and mind.

 

 

 

 

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Better too generous than not enough. At least , while still rather impulsive in his ways, you know he has a good heart. It'd be harder to ascertain if it were the contrary. :classic_wink:

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At the end: my Prince is not the brightest person in the world in some matters although he is intelligent and brilliant in many areas. No, I do not judge him or criticize him.

Malicia : « That's why guys need to have girls with them : so we can prevent them from being too luckasti, yes. :classic_sleepy: »

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1 hour ago, Tirloque said:

Better too generous than not enough. At least , while still rather impulsive in his ways, you know he has a good heart. It'd be harder to ascertain if it were the contrary. :classic_wink:

Malicia : « That's why guys need to have girls with them : so we can prevent them from being too luckasti, yes. :classic_sleepy: »

> I completely agree with both statements. :) 

> You see, if he only came to me first and told me that Lidija likes his smart phone and if he asked me what do I think about it; is it a good idea or not, I would tell him that I'm against it because it was a gift, but he should talk to mom and dad Boss about it. If they agree to give her smart phone, fine with me. I had to question Lidija like a policewoman how it started. The real problem lays in the fact that he rarely received gifts in his life and since the day he decided he won't take gifts (the story is too long and too complicated to tell it now) he doesn't know the "value" and meaning of the gift. Material things are just material things to him that has no value regardless the price. But the things that belonged to his father and Uncle are priceless to him and he won't give it to anyone or to sell it. It took me a long time to figure it out. That's why I was angry at myself for being mad at him. I didn't realize that he doesn't know the whole concept about "gift". Can you believe it? The man who is ultimate hotel manager, brilliant in music, communication, people, organization and so on, has no simple idea what is the meaning of the gift. I talked to my Ivy about it and we both cried. We want to give him so much, buy things for him that he likes, but he doesn't want us. He is not pretending. We know he doesn't. We'll try to change his understanding of gifting, but wisely and slowly with lot of patience.

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12 hours ago, Jayomms said:

:sweat_smile:....:heart:;):thumbsup:

> I bet you and my Prince are alike in this domain. :) You are too generous to, but I believe you are much smarter when and whom. ;)

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