Mods to install:

• Unofficial Skyrim Legendary Edition Patch (USLEEP)
• Recommend Fix: CritterSpawn Congestion Fix
  • Excinerus: "A fix for the bug spawner, clogging your script engine, causing stacks to be dumped and bugs to be spawned. "
  • Just tested and works!
  • SE download is compatible with LE
• Optional: Unofficial Skyrim Modders Patch (USMP)
  • various fixes
  • overwrite USMP with newer mods or mods that modify certain scripts
  • includes among other fixes (v2.0):
    • Fix to Drain Health magic effects for Dwarven Constructs, Undead and Ghosts
    • better vanilla Freckles (also included in AIO-P)
    • Modern Brawl Bug Fix
• Optional: Unofficial Skyrim City Patch (USCP) Reawakened
  • various fixes, maybe stabilizes FPS in cities
  • check the compatibility section
  • still testing
• Optional: Skyrim Supplemental Patch
  • tries to fix what USLEEP missed
• Optional: Quest Conflict Fixes 1.2
  • prevents vanilla Quests to get stuck if certain quest NPC die
  • prevents vanilla Quests from negating each other
• Modern Brawl Bug Fix
  • only needed if USMP isn't installed
• Fuz Ro D-oh
  • requirement
  • Support for unvoiced ingame dialogue
• Optional: Immersive First Person View (IFPV)
  • works well with Sexlab Scenes for all players that dare to take a closer look
  • don't forget to toggle to helmet camera if the view clips too much or if everything is too far away (NUM4 by default)
• SkyUI
  • requirement
• UIExtensions
  • needed for AddItemMenu and various LL Mods
• AddItemMenu
  • very handy tool to see and grab items in esp & esm, without the use of console
  • great to quickly test installed mods and to get items from mods that can't be found or crafted
• RaceMenu
  • includes NIOverride (NetImmerse Override)
  • includes alternative to ShowRaceMenu Precache Killer
• FNIS Behavior XXL
  • Optional: Animation Limit Crash Fix (SrtCrashFix)
    • The patch fixes the crash on game loading when you install too many animations with FNIS
    • removes the limit at which FNIS would CTD
    • retesting now
  • Optional: Animation Loading Fix
    • useful to stabilize the process of loading a game with FNIS XXL installed
      • I use it to prevent endless loading screens with FINS XXL
      • works reliable
  • ⚠️ don't use SrtCrashFix and Animation Loading Fix together, use only one. CTD if both are used! ⚠️
• FNIS Creature Pack
  • Optional for SL creature animations
  • Requirement for MNC
  • ⚠️ FNIS Creature Pack v7.6 will show as "?" in SL, this can be ignored or use this fix: FNIS Creature Pack v7.6(FIX) data.7z
• An alternative start mod, ⚠️choose only one:
  • Realm of Lorkhan - Freeform Alternate Start
    • gives also enough time to load all mods before moving on to Skyrim
    • also useful to teleport around Skyrim via Crystals that are distributed all over Skyrim
    • it is always possible to return to the Realm
    • ⚠️ last version I tried changed one weather type or adds one
  • Alternate Start - Live Another Life 3.1.7
    • alternative download
    • lots of LL addons
    • works reliable
    • ⚠️ useful hint: choose LAL starter quests outside of modded cells, wildness cells works best
      • An example for the reason: starting in a tavern will not load any modifications, custom followers, custom quest NPC and the like until cell change
  • Skyrim Unbound Reborn
    • recommended by @HexBolt8
    • now with starter cell!
    • Option to start as a "not the Dragonborn"

  • Alternate Perspective - Prologue Retold - LE

    • recommended by @Seeker999

    • also offers a starter cell

    • LL Addon: Alternate Perspective - Sold Out V2.0

Mods to install:

• Activate Button Away
  • moves the activate text away from the center of the screen
  • no more annoying activate texts during the SL scenes while switching to free-camera
  • Highly Recommended
• Better Dialogue Controls
  • Highly recommended
  • helps with bloated dialog boxes after adding multiple NPC interaction mods
  • Highly recommended for SLdialogues
• Better Message Box Controls
  • makes life better if in fight with lots of pop up message boxes
  • control message boxes via keyboard
• Immersive HUD - iHUD
  • Highly recommended
  • deactivate all those HUD elements if not needed
  • or just make them very opaque
  • get rid of the sneaking cross-hair in the middle of the screen
  • can also toggle all additionally installed widgets
• Remove Recurring Messages
  • removes the annoying reminder messages
  • Highly Recommended
• Rock Trap De-Lameifier
  • Highly Recommended
  • safer travels for your followers and slaves thru triggered rock traps
  • check out the other MonoMan1 tweaks!
• Auto Unequip Ammo
  • Works on PC and Followers
  • no more constant Ammo container on your back
  • Alternative: Ammo Unequip on Sexlab Animations 1.02
    • ⚠️ don't use Bazinga's Version and the Nexus Version at the same time
    • will also remove ammo from any Actor that removes ranged weapons
    • Drawback: no MCM to add custom weapons and ammo
    • Option to add custom ammo via TES5edit: Also sprach Bazinga

Mods to install:

• Schlongs of Skyrim (SOS)
  • ⚠️SOS comes with it's own skeleton: don't choose it in the installer or overwrite with XPMSE
  • SOS optional Plugin during installation: SOS - VectorPlexus Regular Addon
    • mainly for the Werewolf schlong
      • deactivate schlong ingame in SOS MCM if transformation cause CTD
  • External optional Plugin: SOS - Leito Addon
    • SOS Variation for Argonians and Khajiit
    • Recommended for more realistic schlong variations
  • External optional Plugin: SOS Equipable Horse Cocks
    • SOS Variation for Futa
    • Horse Cocks as Strapon Replacer Patch: SOS_Ho_StraponPatch.zip
• SexLab Framework (SL)
  • Optional: SexLab Utility Plus
    • Unofficial Sexlab update
    • adds many new Sexlab features
    • rises limit of registerable animations in Sexlab
    • allows to choose furniture for scenes
• Patch/Optional: SexLab Compatible Noble Bed Double 02 1.1
  • Removes collision of the upper beam on noble beds
  • only install one version of the mod (has 2 choices)

• Patch/Optional: Common and Upper Class beds meshes replacer LE

  • Fixes positions of SL animations on Common and Upper Class beds

• Optional: SexLab Extra Voices Expanded + Voice Packs 2.2
  • Adds new Voices to Sexlab
  • Extra lewd Voices (not for the faint at heart): Sexlab extra Voices for Slot 10
• Sexlab Aroused Redux 28b (SLAR)
  • requirement
• Sexlab Animation Loader v1.5 (SLAL)
  • Adds custom SL animation Packs to SL
  • ? Newest SLAL version  : SLAL 1.7.7
• Sexlab Tools v3.0
  • SL animations can be chosen from a list during a SL scene, change active SL animation anytime
  • animations will still be limited by the mod that triggered it, DD5.2 filter and SL animation toggle choices (aggro/consensual)

Mods to install:

• Body Slide and Outfit Studio
  • An easy to use tool for customizing bodies and outfits, creating new bodies and outfits, and converting outfits between body types.
  • Add presets and meshes for bodies like UUNP (Special)
  • doesn't add skin texture, but need one for previews

• All-in-One HDT Animated Pussy 4.0
  •  ⚠️DO NOT INSTALL ANY CREATURE RELATED OPTIONS OF AIO-P IF YOU PLAN TO USE More Nasty Critters ⚠️
  • All mods installed mods so far can be overwritten by AIO-P
  • Main reason for using AIO-P is to create a Sexlab compatible body without knowing all the necessary details or to search for needed mods.
  • includes:
    • 10 pre-build Unified UNP Special bodies with HDT Vagina with XML attached to meshes in order to have collisions with hands, belly, schlongs
    • 10 pre-build CBBE bodies with HDT Vagina with XML attached to meshes in order to have collisions with hands, belly, schlongs
    • ? includes HDT Physics Extension
    • Skin textures for Humans, Khajiit, Argonians
    • Followers
    • various additional tools, meshes, textures
    • ...
  • Sneak Preview pictures of the AIO-P FOMOD for more details: AIO-P FOMOD

• XP32 Maximum Skeleton Extended - XPMSE
  • overwrite ALL other mods installed so far
  • ⚠️ only overwrite XPMSE if a mod author asks for it in his mod description.
  • ? includes Realistic Ragdoll and Force
  • FNIS will show for XPMSE v4.60+: Skeleton(hkx) female: Unknown (126 bones)   male: Unknown (126 bones)
    • unless newer versions are installed of course
    • v4.60 was the last one that worked reliable, but by now there might be fixes out there for the newer XPMSE versions
• Optional:
  • AIO-P files can be overwritten with:
    • Naturalistic HDT and Beast HDT 3.68 for better jiggle, recommend
    • skin textures of your choice, but compatible to the chosen body-type (UNP/CBBE)
      • use only one body texture

Mods to install:

• Body Slide and Outfit Studio
  • An easy to use tool for customizing bodies and outfits, creating new bodies and outfits, and converting outfits between body types.
  • Add presets and meshes for bodies like UUNP (Special), CBBE
  • doesn't add skin texture, but need one for previews
  • For CBBE install also Caliente's Beautiful Bodies Edition -CBBE-

• HDT Physics Extension
  • HDT for the jiggle!
• Naturalistic HDT and Beast HDT 3.68
  • for the best HDT jiggle settings around, recommended
  • ⚠️overwrite everything
• A skin texture compatible with the Bodyslide installed body, like UNP/CBBE
  • Examples:
    • Demoniac- High Quality Glossy Female Body Texture 8K 4K 2K
    • Fair Skin Complexion
    • Bijin Skin
    • and more ...
  • use only one body texture
• Khajiit replacer

  • Feminine Khajiit Textures (Grey Cat and Leopard)

  • Masculine Khajiit Textures (Grey Cat and Leopard)

    • download and install the SOS version

• Argonian replacer
  • Feminine Argonian Textures (Chameleon and Lizard)

  • Masculine Argonian Textures (Chameleon and Lizard)

    • download and install the SOS version

•  XP32 Maximum Skeleton Extended - XPMSE
  • overwrite ALL other mods installed so far
  • ⚠️ only overwrite XPMSE if a mod author asks for it in his mod description.
  • includes already Realistic Ragdoll and Force
  • FNIS will show for XPMSE v4.60+: Skeleton(hkx) female: Unknown (126 bones)   male: Unknown (126 bones) 
    • unless newer versions are installed of course
    • v4.60 was the last one that worked reliable, but by now there might be fixes out there for the newer XPMSE versions

Mods to install:

• SexLab Inflation Framework 1.2.2 beta
  • Framework for body-morphs
  • requirement for some mods
  • file needed: SexLab Inflation Framework 1.2.2 beta Installer.7z
  • works as a node to prevent conflicting body morphing if multiple mods try to change body scales
  • SILF patcher:
    • ⚠️ many if not all patches from SexLab Inflation Framework Patch Installer 2018.12.01.7z are outdated by now! ⚠️
    • ⚠️ some of the included patches overwrite mod MCM, which is bad if the patched mod got updated and has a new MCM! ⚠️
    • ? it seems I don't use any patches included in SILF Patch installer anymore and so far that seems okay.

 Mods to install:

• Creature Framework modified by MadMansGun
• More Nasty Critters SLAL Version
  • Allow to overwrite:
    • XPMSE
    • AIO HDT Pussy
  • Patches for various mods: More Nasty Critter SLAL Patches
    • ⚠️The patches are loose files, don't install all of them, use only the ones needed to patch Mods in your LO

• Optional for ABC HDT: End All Be All - Rieklings MNC Edition Version
  • Allow to overwrite MNC SLAL
    • makes those Rieklings just look a lot more detailed (also makes them look glossy and gives them a cute sphincter).
• Optional for ABC HDT: True Wolves Of Skyrim
• Optional for ABC HDT: SC_Horse Replacer

• Animated Beast's Cocks (ABC) For users LE

  • Allow to overwrite:

    • ⚠️ EVERYTHING!

    • MNC SLAL

    • AIO-HDT-AP

    • End All Be All - Rieklings

    • True Wolves of Skyrim

    • SC Horse Replacer

    • XPMSE

Mods to install:

• Zaz Animation Pack V8.0 plus
  • ⚠️LL download is only a txt file. In the txt file you find the link to the real mod.
  • some devices need to be build in bodyslide (more sliders in the Bodyslide "unassigned" group)
  • ⚠️If NPC don't use whips activate the "GENDER Specific Animations" Patch in FNIS
  • ⚠️ Combat mods that overwrite 1h attacks can also break ZAP whipping (the combat mods should still work, just don't overwrite animation files)
  • ⚠️ Combat mods that add PC stagger can break ZAP furniture temporary idles (ingame)
  • ⚠️Don't combine various ZAP versions, only use one

• Patch: ZaZ Rabbit and Chicken Death Fix (ESP & ESL) 1.0.0
  • grab the esp version for LE
  • if you ever wondered about stuck in animation fox and rabbits in Skyrim: The ragdoll event is missing from ZaZAnimationPack.esm copy of the ChickenDeath [IDLE:000FF135] and HareDeath [IDLE:000FF136] aminations.
• Optional: Immersive Torture Sounds 0.1
  • ZAP whip sound replacer
  • Whenever a whip hit noise plays, it should be accompanied by a female grunt/scream.
  • Male characters should rethink installing this
• Optional: ZAP- Whipping Sound Expanded
  • ZAP whip sound replacer
  • more sound alternative can be found in it's support topic
• Optional: ZAP - No Collision Furniture (improves camera and whipping) 1.1
  • zap furniture collision can block whipping and we can have that right?
  • makes path-finding easier for NPC in a zap crowded cell
• Optional: Alternate Pillories (for SLAL & ZAP) 1.2
  • Pillories don't block the view as much
  • also color variation
• Optional: ZAP 8.0+ Faster in and out of Furniture Fix 1.0
  • to prevent the free camera get stuck if it was activated too early during entering/leaving zap furniture
• UUNP Fix: ZAP 8+ breastropefix ZAP 8+ breastropefix.7z
  • if the zap breast ropes don't look right with UUNP you might need this
  • not sure anymore where I got it from
• An underrated Framework for a Framework: I'll Take The Display Model
  • more furniture
  • NPC control
  • self-bondage
  • place-able furniture
  • great to store followers for a while

Mods to install:

• Toys&Love Framework   
  • By now not only a BSDM Framework, but something like a LL all in one Framework
  • everything is well documented and also has extensive troubleshooting solutions
  • In a Virgin's words: Toys&Love is three Frameworks in one... Bondage, Love Scenes, and Rousing.
  • Toys Family of Mods
    • all Toys connected Mods are listed here with links
  • Toys&Love Homepage
    • The whole Hompage is an interesting read

Mods to install:

• Devious Devices 5.2
• ⚠️ Don't combine DD Framework versions
• ⚠️ DD 5.2 is AIO, means DDa, DDi, DDx are already included and all patches for BRRF and DD for him
• ⚠️ Don't use the single downloads to install DD4 with the DD5 AIO installation

• To keep an eye on the DD news: Devious Devices Framework Development/Beta
  • Optional: Devious Sounds
    • Adds sounds to gags and gas masks
  • Optional: DD Vibrator motion replacer by BakaFactory LE
    • replaces 5 animations in DD integration
  • Optional: Racemenu adjustable ball gags 041
    • allows to modify size of ball gags and mouth configuration

Mods I can't count as directly DD Framework effecting/patching/fixing, but that add directly to the Frameworks immersion/functionality without adding any quests/stories or similar:

• NPC Support:
  • Better NPC Support for Devious Devices
  • fixes issues with DDs on NPC and gives them a chance to escape
    • Kharos:
      • Restore missing effects after NPC is reloaded by the game engine (for example after loading screen).
      • Restore missing effects after NPC's inventory has changed (for example after player giving new equipment to follower).
      • Prevent bound NPCs from using weapons and spells in combat; they will use bound combat if enabled in Devious Devices settings.
      • Allow manipulation of some NPC devices (insert/remove panel gag plug, link/unlink DCUR rubber gloves with D-links).
      • Escape system: If enabled in MCM this allows NPCs to struggle and maybe escape their devices.

• Device effects:
  • Devious Training 2 v3.6 (DT2)
    • makes DDs more punishing by adding effects
    • adds DD training
    • helps to control walking speed and inventory weight
    • body morphs from wearing DDs
    • ? highest training effect is applied if wearing devices in combat
    • Consists of following components:

      • Devious Training Core - Devious Training Core 3.5.zip - Main Mod

        Devious Training Textures - Devious Training Textures 3.0 Beta.zip - additional textures, also can be used with Slavetats directly
        Devious Training Martyr - Deviouis Training Martyr 3.6.zip - Extra skills after some painful DD training
        Devious Training Mayhem - Deviouis Training Mayhem 3.6.zip - the body morphing part

  • Devious Body Alteration (DBA)
    • changes your body depending on worn DDs
    • changes body-weight depending on worn DDs
    • changes walking speed depending on worn DDs
    • ? registers any heeled boot for walking speed modification, just in case you wondering why those small heels on your armor cause you to slow down
    • it's scripts routines are faster than the ones of DT2, but it also misses some interesting effects from DT2. It is possible to combine DT2 and DBA, more about that here:
  • DT 2 & DBA Combo
    • To get the body-morph effects from DBA and the punishing/training effects from DT2 both mods can be combined. To do that install the following parts of those mods:
      • Devious Training Core - Devious Training Core 3.5.zip
      • Devious Training Textures - Devious Training Textures 3.0 Beta.zip
      • Devious Training Martyr - Deviouis Training Martyr 3.6.zip
      • Devious Body Alteration - Devious Body Alteration v1.5.zip

  • SexLab Disparity 14.4

    • One mod to add/modify all/any DD effect and body morph

    • Pro: absolute freedom to modify your DD experience

    • Contra: you might get lost in MCM settings for hours or days

• More Devices:
  • LRG_Gasmask_1.0
    • keep an eye on AndrewLRG's Blog
  • PetCollar
    • unique collar with special effects
    • PetCollar effect can also be added without it's collar
  • Kziitd's XXX Toolset
    • aka: how to make installing devices complicated
    • ⚠️ might conflict with face expression from other mods
    • mod consists of
      • 1679344988_1.KziitdXXXToolset_DD5Main.7z
      • KziitdXXXToolset DD5 script Update.7z
      • 434524576_2.KziitdXXXToolsetDD5BS1.7z
      • 1309138999_3.KziitdXXXToolsetDD5BS2.7z
      • 4. KziitdXXXToolset DD5 Eng esp.7z
        • ⚠️ In case the gagged face expression isn't working install:
          • 5. KziitdXXXToolset Facial Animation.7z
  • Kziitd Feitsh Set - Bdsm Maid
    • Requires Kziitd's XXX Toolset to be installed
    • mod consists of:
      • 2080303704_1.KziitdFeitshSet-BdsmMaidDD5Main.7z
      • 2. KziitdFeitshSet-BdsmMaid DD5 En Esp.7z
      • KziitdFeitshSet-BdsmMaid DD5 Update Script.7z
        • Optional: Sync Wig Hair Color
           

Mods to install:

• PapyrusUtil - Modders Scripting Utility Functions
  • overwrite all
  • ⚠️never let any mod overwrite it
    • some mods come with older versions, don't let them overwrite the newer version!
      • Sexlab Framework
      • Simply Knock
      • Campfire
• JContainers
  • overwrite all
  • ⚠️never let any mod overwrite it
  • Requirement for MNC SLAL and Creature Framework
  • ? in case JContainers gets removed from Nexus again, here the alternative: SilverIce's JContainers at GitHub ?? 
    • GitHub: press on Code > Download zip
• ConsoleUtil
  • overwrite all
  • ⚠️never let any mod overwrite it
  • Needed for:
    • Inte's SUM (Skyrim Utility Mod)
    • DDi black fog blindfold effect (option in DDi MCM)
    • NFF (Nether's Follower Framework)