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It can happen to anybody


Evaloves4

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We had wonderful time in Sunday with our parents, Antonio and the Guys in the restaurant my Prince reserved for us. He rose the glass, made the toast and thanked them for help in catching "our kid's" robbers. He also said he never had more loyal and better friends as brethren whom he trust with his life and would lay his life for them. He is highly honored to be their bro. Everyone applauded loudly and he walked from one to another hugging them and taping their shoulders. We enjoyed in wonderful domestic meals, had a lot of fun and laughter. I was happy I had a chance to sit in Prince's lap because Ivy was sitting in Antonio's lap who constantly kissed her tummy, his godchild. I could see he is still in love with her and he'll do anything for her. But his love for her is not erotic or sexual. It is more like worshiping and adoring her as his goddess. He knows she is crazily in love with my Prince who loves her the same, and he honors and respect that. My Fran stayed with Mikey at home babysitting him. My Prince, often checked them over web cams. When he saw that Mikey became very nervous, crying and kicking, he apologized to all present and said he has to go home for Mikey is missing us. He said to my Ivy and me that we can stay and enjoy in the lunch and company, but we didn't want to. We went with him because we can't and we don't know how to enjoy in anything without him. He gave the money he reserved for the lunch to dad Boss and we went home. When we arrived home Mikey screamed in joy seeing us shaking his all body. The three of us stretched our hands toward him to see whom he want to go to. Of course, his daddy was his first choice. My Prince was melted and he showered his face and hands with kisses. I kissed my Fran and thanked him for babysitting Mikey. My Ivy and I went under the shower and we made love while my Prince was sleeping in Mikey. When Mikey slept, he took a shower and joined us in the bed. We cuddled and smooched until we slept.

 

 

My Ivy hardly could let my Prince out of her embrace in Monday morning when we were leaving home to the work. He promised to her he'll cal her whenever he'll have free time. We had short e.b. meeting, my Prince talked to his sister and than he had meeting with Guy3 and Lidija about problematic workers. He talked to each of them individually and together with their rivals. All of them were released with verbal warning that next time they will be punished heavier. Two of them made serious breach but not serious enough to be fired. So he asked them if they want to be suspended for a month without salary or to work their shifts with 50% less salary. They choose the second option. Than he had short meeting with all workers and chiefs of departments. He held very sharp speech saying that drastically drop of discipline and order in his absence saddens him. He won't let it happen again. Next ones who will be sent to him, will be suspended for two months without wage or they will have to look for new job on other places. He reminded them that they don't have to be friends and socialize in private life, but they have to work as one respecting each other on the work. Everyone knows that my Prince is a man of his word and that he'll not let anyone to jeopardize Hotel's reputation. Then he assigned Silvano as Ivy's body guard. She wouldn't need it if she wouldn't be pregnant and my Prince wants to be sure that she and the baby are safe. He asked her if she wants to visit him when I return home. She was veeeery happy and she said she would. So when I came home, she kissed me and Mikey and Silvano drove her to Hotel. When they returned she was extremely happy and she told me that she fucked him good in the office, enjoyed in having a juice in the Hotel bar sitting in his lap and had a good laugh when Lidija "insulted" her for teasing.

 

 

The days and sea are still warm and we enjoyed in swimming on our beach. Mikey was with us but one of our parents was always with him in the case of seagulls' attack. Everything else was normal. Nobody talked about Prince's younger uncle like it never happened. I will close this diary with en event that happened yesterday afternoon. My Ivy and I bathed Mikey and than, after she exercised with him, I changed his diaper and anointed his body with baby oil. Mikey is very restless baby, always in the move and since he learned to roll over, he likes to do it whenever he have chance. In one moment he slipped out of my hands and fell from the baby desk. Thanks to my Ivy's fast reflexes, she grabbed him for the leg before he hit the floor. Well, Mikey got scared and he cried very loudly. My Prince appeared in the room fast as lightning. Taking his son into his arms he asked us what happened. I was so scared that he will yell at us, especially me when he hears it. I know how much he is overprotective for any of us and especially Mikey and I was afraid he will call me irresponsible and make a big drama about it, but he didn't do it when I told him. He didn't say a word. He took Mikey out of the room and went to the balcony. I came after them and I said I'm sorry. He only said: "Later, Princess." When Mikey slept in his arms, he put him into his bed and joined my Ivy and me in the living room. He lifted me into his arms, kissed me and said that all is fine and that is not my fault Mikey fell from the baby table for he knows I'm careful. He also hugged my Ivy and kissing her, he thanked her for saving their son from the fall. Then he returned to Mikey's room and carried out the baby table. Since the top of the table is separable, he removed it from the rest of the table and put it on the floor. The height of the top of the table was only 20-25 cm from the floor instead of 1.5 meters when it is attached to the table. He placed it on its place and said: "This is much better now. Even if Mikey fell of the table, he won't be hurt. If anyone have a problem to change his diaper or his clothes on this height, can use the bed in his room." His reaction melted me very much and I showered him with kisses and "love yous." He knows I'm not careless mother and he understands that this could happen to anyone, even himself because Mikey is very lively boy. He rather showed love and understanding. Yeap, It is very important how do we react in certain situations and problems. I'm quite sure that if he wouldn't trust me, he wouldn't let me bath Mikey, dress him and change diapers. My Prince knows how to react in situations like "it can happen to anybody". That's also the reason why we love him so much and highly respect him.

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Glad Ivy has such quick reflexes!  Babies are always wiggly, especially in baby oil!  But they're resilient and  parenting pros just learn to go with it.  Like this!  

 

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Well, it's the first time you have a child, so unexpected things are doomed to happen. What I mostly see is that when babies are at some height, most parents do keep one hand on the baby's torso, but I'm not sure that would've sufficed if both your hands were oily. So accidents do happen, and it's not always possible to prevent them.

 

Props for Ivy for her reflexes, and Prince for his pragmatism and self control. Smiley_jap_HFR.gif

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9 hours ago, djregs said:

Glad Ivy has such quick reflexes!  Babies are always wiggly, especially in baby oil!  But they're resilient and  parenting pros just learn to go with it.  Like this!  

 

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> Thanks. :)  Mikey is like my Prince and Ivy. he can't be still more than 5 seconds. As older he gets, it is harder to change his diaper. I wonder how we would do it once he start to crawl. :D

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4 hours ago, Tirloque said:

Well, it's the first time you have a child, so unexpected things are doomed to happen. What I mostly see is that when babies are at some height, most parents do keep one hand on the baby's torso, but I'm not sure that would've sufficed if both your hands were oily. So accidents do happen, and it's not always possible to prevent them.

 

Props for Ivy for her reflexes, and Prince for his pragmatism and self control. Smiley_jap_HFR.gif

> Baby table we used to change his diaper on, has some kind of barrier that should prevent baby from falling. But that barrier is more decorative than functional. I know this might sound stupid and as lame argument, but I'm comforted that Mikey didn't fell from my hands while I was holding him in my arms as it happened to many mothers and fathers. His body was slippery and he was rolling left and right kicking legs and arms while my Ivy sorted baby cosmetics. Thank goodness she kept one eye on Mikey. 

 

> One more thing, my friend. You commended my Prince's self-control.  That's nice of you, but he wasn't angry at me when he heard what happened. I was the one who thought he would be. He was just silent because he was all into calming Mikey who heavily cried.  As I said, if anyone understands "it can happen to anybody" it is him. :) 

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For the past two weeks I had a head cold and couldn't go near Lena. It was torcher, she would see me and cry when I avoided her. :(

Her older brother Julian was a very lively baby as well, I called him my fish out of water and would flop around instead of crawl eventually he would start to crawl. My mother video recorded him flopping about and we showed it to him 8 years later and he did his adorable laugh which made me just wanna squeeze him of how cute he can be. His mother got him a dear costume PJ and whenever he wears it I call him my Dear JuJu. :classic_laugh: Lena likes to sway side to side so she is approaching max wiggliness. :wink: 

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On 10/23/2019 at 4:12 PM, EvalovesEP said:

> Baby table we used to change his diaper on, has some kind of barrier that should prevent baby from falling. But that barrier is more decorative than functional. I know this might sound stupid and as lame argument, but I'm comforted that Mikey didn't fell from my hands while I was holding him in my arms as it happened to many mothers and fathers. His body was slippery and he was rolling left and right kicking legs and arms while my Ivy sorted baby cosmetics. Thank goodness she kept one eye on Mikey.

Most "baby tables" are in fact mere cushions, so they don't have any barrier in fact. So to hold the baby the effectively (maybe by oiling only the necessary parts with a cotton pad ?), or reducing the height are the two only things I see to prevent this (despite being extra vigilant of course).

On 10/23/2019 at 4:12 PM, EvalovesEP said:

> One more thing, my friend. You commended my Prince's self-control.  That's nice of you, but he wasn't angry at me when he heard what happened. I was the one who thought he would be. He was just silent because he was all into calming Mikey who heavily cried.  As I said, if anyone understands "it can happen to anybody" it is him. :) 

He wasn't angry, but I think he was affected. Anyway, it can indeed happen to anybody (I've even heard of mothers slipping while carrying their baby) ; but he still took one measure to limit the risk. So that was rational and pragmatic thinking, that's what I was commending. Smiley_jap_HFR.gif

On 10/23/2019 at 6:33 PM, Jayomms said:

For the past two weeks I had a head cold and couldn't go near Lena. It was torcher, she would see me and cry when I avoided her. :(

Her older brother Julian was a very lively baby as well, I called him my fish out of water and would flop around instead of crawl eventually he would start to crawl. My mother video recorded him flopping about and we showed it to him 8 years later and he did his adorable laugh which made me just wanna squeeze him of how cute he can be. His mother got him a dear costume PJ and whenever he wears it I call him my Dear JuJu. :classic_laugh: Lena likes to sway side to side so she is approaching max wiggliness. :wink: 

You seem to love your children, Jayomms. If I were you I would be careful not to let my true name on some sites (specially imagehosts, if you see what I mean) ; cause with their names (if their not pseudos, like Eva does) and yours, someone with bad intentions could turn that knowledge against you (you'll remember about Eva's issues with hackers). :classic_smile:

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45 minutes ago, Tirloque said:

Most "baby tables" are in fact mere cushions, so they don't have any barrier in fact. So to hold the baby the effectively (maybe by oiling only the necessary parts with a cotton pad ?), or reducing the height are the two only things I see to prevent this (despite being extra vigilant of course).

 

> Indeed. We wanted our son to be very comfortable when we do thigs with him. We have something similar like this two models:

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After the accident, I think we should buy something like this:

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> We use our hands when oiling or powdering Mikey. Doing it that way, we massage his body and makes it to absorb the oil and powder much quicker and better. He also loves it very much. Anyway, my Prince lowered the upper part and put it on the floor. So there is no danger anymore. :) 

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He wasn't angry, but I think he was affected. Anyway, it can indeed happen to anybody (I've even heard of mothers slipping while carrying their baby) ; but he still took one measure to limit the risk. So that was rational and pragmatic thinking, that's what I was commending.

> I agree about him being affected after hearing what happened, but he wasn't angry. That's for sure. I was in shock although I didn't mention it in my diary. My Ivy was cold as ice. It doesn't mean she didn't care or wasn't concerned, but she is less emotional than me and my prince. So, let's just clarify something: if you say to someone in our culture to be in self-control, you actually saying he has mental and emotional issues.  Anyway, thank you for clarifying your statement. :)

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1 hour ago, Jayomms said:

For the past two weeks I had a head cold and couldn't go near Lena. It was torcher, she would see me and cry when I avoided her. :(

Her older brother Julian was a very lively baby as well, I called him my fish out of water and would flop around instead of crawl eventually he would start to crawl. My mother video recorded him flopping about and we showed it to him 8 years later and he did his adorable laugh which made me just wanna squeeze him of how cute he can be. His mother got him a dear costume PJ and whenever he wears it I call him my Dear JuJu. :classic_laugh: Lena likes to sway side to side so she is approaching max wiggliness. :wink: 

> I can only imagine how hard it was for both of you.  And I love the way you call your nephew: Juju. There is a song a rock group, Bijelo dugme wrote for children in '70's in which they sing about JuJu.

 

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14 hours ago, EvalovesEP said:

> Indeed. We wanted our son to be very comfortable when we do thigs with him. We have something similar like this two models:

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After the accident, I think we should buy something like this:

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That may be a bit better, but i wonder about the stability of that last table. If it was me, I think I would still use a movable cushion ; but just put it in a larger table, and place it so the table is at some corner (so the walls do prevent the fall from at least two sides). But I'm no expert at this. ?

 

 

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8 hours ago, Tirloque said:

That may be a bit better, but i wonder about the stability of that last table. If it was me, I think I would still use a movable cushion ; but just put it in a larger table, and make the table is at some corner so the walls prevent the fall from at least two sides. But I'm no expert at this. ?

 

 

> Believe me, having two grandmothers who have children, and one that doesn't plus my Prince, you can't make mistake in picking the right thing unless you are stubborn and want to buy what you like. Our parents and my Prince let my Ivy and me chose baby changing diaper table. They had different suggestions, but you know us, young first time mothers. We "know" the best. :D  I'm not praising my prince now, but he didn't like our choices from the start because he was looking for stable and safe baby table. But, as angel he is he just let us do what we wanted. At the end, it proved he was right and he fixed our "mistake". In female mind most of the time a thought is strongly present: "What the man knows about parenthood?!" We were wrong in Prince's case. It turned out he knows more than Ivy and me together. :)

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