ok, first off, thank you for the advice and input.
-For some reason the core of sexis (updated on april 1st) was not working. so i tested the old core and it allowed the animations to work (couldn't test buttons, since i forgot them lol) anyway the animation will play and end after a minute, however when loading a game a box will pop up and say "sexis is not supported on older versions of skyrim please update to 1.8". ignore as it will still work
- im sure this was addressed a few pages back but, after having sex you will notice that you cant use any of the crafting stations, this is due to the sexis script still running on you and considering you and another npc are still bumping uglies. to fix open the sexis config menu and pick "clean" it will ask if you want to stop all active pairs, click yes and allow 20 or until another pop up box shows up to say the cleaning is complete. volia, you can now craft once again.
not sure why sexis is doing these things but its still playable if you can jump thru a couple hoops.
and to sammy: go in your skyrim data file, click on the tools folder, click on FNISforusers folder, and then double click to run the generate tool. and then click update.