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Sometimes I really wish I didn't have a gf so I could just play my game with these mods all day and night. I know that if she saw some of this stuff she'd be like ew wtf. She's so in love with me I doubt she'd dump me but still. I mean she already saw a nude loli on an anime I watch and was like wtf. (Btw I don't really like the whole loli thing but this show just so happened to have one) but still, ugh, I just wanna play my games.

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That is the price for having someone. Consider yourself lucky- I havnt had a girl fawn over me in years! :P

 

I love her to death and honestly I wanna marry her one day she's perfect. There are just things about me that she doesn't know yet.

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Try playing a game with her and have a little​ nudity in there and see how she takes it. Eventually you will have to reveal that you are a pervert. Just try to soften the blow. :D

Lmao I guess you're right. I'll have to reveal it one day and give it a try.

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It's just fantasy.

 

Playing sex mods and watching hentai is surely better than actually sleeping with some other girl and cheating on your girlfriend. As long as you don't end up with unrealistic expectation for real sex: i.e. expect your gf to dirty talk like those pornstars/ or expect her to have CBBE boobs.

 

Most (but not all) girls hate porn (or pretend to hate porn)  while most (if not all) guys watch porn on a regular basis. Girlfriends like to complain about it, but it's really not a big deal compared to so many other disagreements you could possibly have in a relationship. If a boyfriend indulging in sexual fantasy privately with porn/ sexy game is that much of a deal-breaker, no relationships would last more than 3 months. A very horny boyfriend is way better than an asexual boyfriend.

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It's just fantasy.

 

Playing sex mods and watching hentai is surely better than actually sleeping with some other girl and cheating on your girlfriend. As long as you don't end up with unrealistic expectation for real sex: i.e. expect your gf to dirty talk like those pornstars/ or expect her to have CBBE boobs.

 

Most (but not all) girls hate porn (or pretend to hate porn) while most (if not all) guys watch porn on a regular basis. Girlfriends like to complain about it, but it's really not a big deal compared to so many other disagreements you could possibly have in a relationship. If a boyfriend indulging in sexual fantasy privately with porn/ sexy game is that much of a deal-breaker, no relationships would last more than 3 months. A very horny boyfriend is way better than an asexual boyfriend.

Lmao CBBE boobs. And yeah that all that's true. I don't ever get mad at her or show it but It does bug me that she won't touch it after it's been inside her, and I guess I'm bi-curious as well. I've never been with another guy and at this point i probably will never be cause I don't wanna lose her. I just don't want her to know.

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Sometimes I really wish I didn't have a gf so I could just play my game with these mods all day and night. I know that if she saw some of this stuff she'd be like ew wtf. She's so in love with me I doubt she'd dump me but still. I mean she already saw a nude loli on an anime I watch and was like wtf. (Btw I don't really like the whole loli thing but this show just so happened to have one) but still, ugh, I just wanna play my games.

 

Better to have someone than to have no one i say.

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Try playing a game with her and have a little​ nudity in there and see how she takes it. Eventually you will have to reveal that you are a pervert. Just try to soften the blow. :D

Lmao I guess you're right. I'll have to reveal it one day and give it a try.

 

 

It's nothing wrong to be a pervert, really. I mean, where you even saw non-perverted men, anyway? :)

It's just that your interest as a man pervert should be directed at your girl, not anime or games.

Try to understand her. She may simply looking for your attention. So... you should just give her some (and have your reward, kekeke). After all, that's the point of having a girlfriend.

Sorry man, but I think it's not very smart to show any girl that you more interested in 2D girls than 3D girls. Wish you best of luck and don't scare her off! :P

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This may lead to problems in the future, you have to be certain that she can accept all sides of you. Even if its sides that you might have to change eventually but she has to be ok with how you are in the present too. People that are madly in love at first are usually ones that project an image onto their partner, an image that is later shattered which is followed by disillusionment, disappointment and lots and lots of fights and bickering over nothing.

I'm not saying this is your relationship I'm describing here but I thought I'd warn you beforehand.

To paraphrase and elucidate a little better: basically, a relationship where you have to hide some part of yourself or feel ashamed about it before your partner because he or she wants you to be a certain way is not likely to work out in the future. My advice would be to find some way to talk to her about it and ease her into your hobbies overtime.

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Let her know about the things you're into slowly is my advice. Don't reveal it all at once like it's a big secret you've been hiding. The more you make it seem like it's not a big deal, the easier she'll be able to adapt to this new facet of you she didn't know about. If she says "wtf" about a naked loli in an anime, she's clearly not ready to know about how people make Lydia get raped by a giant and a wolf at the same time yet. Have plausible reasons prepared other than "I get off to this". "I like the realism" sounds better than "dude, I jack off to female characters getting raped by zombies." If letting her know you use nude mods in a game is big step #1, letting her know you use mods to have sex in said game should be big step #32 or so. Ease her into knowing this part of yourself so it's not an enormous shock. 

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Sometimes I really wish I didn't have a gf so I could just play my game with these mods all day and night.

 

I'm 31 and I never had one. Last month I was diagnosed with testicle cancer and they had to cut one of my balls. Two days ago after further analysis they told me that  I was infertile, so no girlfriend, no kids, no one, never.

 

I hope you feel better now ! Have a good day !

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Sometimes I really wish I didn't have a gf so I could just play my game with these mods all day and night.

 

I'm 31 and I never had one. Last month I was diagnosed with testicle cancer and they had to cut one of my balls. Two days ago after further analysis they told me that  I was infertile, so no girlfriend, no kids, no one, never.

 

I hope you feel better now ! Have a good day !

 

 

I just felt a surge of pain in my balls and now have the urge to go find myself a girlfriend.

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Why not become equal? Let her play a bit and show her around the game. Slowly of course. Maybe she's a pervert too and is just too shy to show it. Maybe Lydia pumping Belethor in his own store turns her on. Just loosen her mind and I think she will get comfy with it. She might have her own secrets. ;)

 

My last boyfriend wasn't into games at all but he said that some stuff I had installed was pretty hot. Back in my Obliviondays... :D His eyes would probably pop out of his head if he'd knew what I am playing now.

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Good boy, always glad to see loving couples. I don't think you should worry too much. It'd kinda be a weird and awkward thing to bring up and I can't really think of something that would prompt an explanation. In either way I don't think perving and corrupting her to reach the same power level as us is the best way to go about it. 

Never felt that my girlfriend stole precious gaming time though. Honestly, games are nothing but a timesink and provided no real lasting happiness, whereas every second with her felt like a blessing. :heart: 
Man I miss having a qt gf to orbit 
tfw no gf

 

 I think you just need to take care not to get addicted to this game and have it take over your life. Maybe sneak in some poor mods here and there so your game starts constantly crashing after level 15 and you uninstall it out of frustration.  :lol:

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My grill is aware about my mods in Skyrim, Fallout, etc. I showed them to her soon after we became serious about our relationship. And she clearly stated that she is ok with the sick shit because she is sick but the "perfect" girls in the games are making her jealous so she would like me to delete/not play those games with such mods enabled when she is around. Which is ok for me because I greatly respect her feelings.

 

What annoyed me is that because of this jealousy, wherever we were playing a coop game with pre-set gender<->class characters I was often stuck with the class I don't want to play simply because the said class was female. When we started Diablo 2 back then I wanted to roll a sorceress but she refused so I was like aahhh ok I guess I am gonna roll necro once again *sigh*. It took me a whole freakin year to cure her from this. Now I can play with the desired classes, after she realized and believed that I ACTUALLY pick the class not the look/gender, which is the truth - I play the game as a game, not as porn simulator. (the rules for the Bethesda games still apply tho' lol)

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When I have a girl, I don't usually play games very much for a couple of reasons. One is that I have never had a girl that liked video games and two is that I prefer to spend time with my girl going out and stuff. I really don't try to hide who I am. I figure it is best to show your true self from the beginning since acting is such a fake. I have had to many pretend friends and relationships to ever want any more. Better to know right away if something isn't going to work than much later on IMHO.  ;)

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Sometimes I really wish I didn't have a gf so I could just play my game with these mods all day and night.

I'm 31 and I never had one. Last month I was diagnosed with testicle cancer and they had to cut one of my balls. Two days ago after further analysis they told me that I was infertile, so no girlfriend, no kids, no one, never.

 

I hope you feel better now ! Have a good day !

Well, enjoy all the benefits of a bachelor's life. On a more serious note that does suck if you had planned to build a family one day.
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On 22-5-2017 at 11:07 PM, CodyR4 said:

Sometimes I really wish I didn't have a gf so I could just play my game with these mods all day and night. I know that if she saw some of this stuff she'd be like ew wtf. She's so in love with me I doubt she'd dump me but still. I mean she already saw a nude loli on an anime I watch and was like wtf. (Btw I don't really like the whole loli thing but this show just so happened to have one) but still, ugh, I just wanna play my games.

I have been married for 12 years and then divorced for almost this exact reason.

 

But then I learned that that was not the reason at all. The reason I divorced her was because there was no communication between us at all. In a proper marriage *everything* is shared. There are no exceptions. Any lie or omission will stand between you two, especially if it is something that is so important to you (gaming, modding, your hobbies). If you cannot share this with her then this is why you have this wish.

 

I don't want to sound hard, but you've got a problem that you might not want to realize or think about... This points to a serious issue in your relationship with your girlfriend.

 

After almost 15 years of heartbreak and 12 years of marriage (and we did have many good times as well).. I can tell you that you will eventually come to resent her for the things that you chose to keep from her. The more important these things are to you, the more you will resent her, no matter how much you might promise yourself right now that you won't.

 

Go to her, tell her, show her everything. If she is good for you, she will accept it, period.

If she is not good for you, then she will not accept it, and you need to know that for sure.

 

Any relationship is based on honesty. And the more important things are to you, the more important it is that you are honest about them and share them.

That's why small, little lies, are usually not a problem... these things aren't that important to you as individual as well.

But you'll need to come clean, or you're headed for a painful experience that might cause you to have serious regrets about this relationship.

And you will be to blame, not her.

 

Good luck!

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