bodyslider meshes crashing game please help

[573v1n]

Ok guys, this is my first post ever. I've always lurked in the shadows admiring your modding community, and Sunday before last I finally decided to give it  a go. Ive assembled mods from the various communities done the troubleshooting  and research. Have enb enabled all that jaz. At first I had many errors and I literally had a stretch of days where i refused to sleep just to get it stable. I've gotten to what seems like a stable build however, whenever i go near white run mainly or  maybe couple of other areas it CTD. Ive tried everything at first disabling different mods and realized its a mesh problem. I've been trying to use Bounce and jiggles on all the different vanilla armors and some custom made ones and have the hdt cbbe body silder for all of them. I used the batch build and the cos demonica preset its stable until i get to whiterun.... OK my next move was to try to isolate  it and see was it a particular mesh.. it was whenever I walked near the giant cinematic near whiterun it would crash loading one of the NPCs. SO after all of this im thinking its stable but it does it again. The whiterun guards had a glitch where the females ones skin would literally strech to the edge of the screen then would slowly get sucked back in and crash, or sometime the save files would just not load at all.  So i switch to the cbbe tbbp body with hdt run fnis, bodyslide batch build, and dual sheath redux go in god mode crashes near white run. My last test before posting was a disabling the meshes and enabling god mode again no crash of course. I have a 16gb ram, xfx R9 270 2gb graphics card, with a 8 core processor so im doubtful my PC can't handle it. Any advice im at the end of my rope of what to do. If you need any particular pictures or info let my know I will gladly post them, posted my load order though. Im still a pleb at this be gentle

[eremit]

Hi, do you tried with uncheck paradise halls? Also Relightning Skyrim is with ELFX Enchancer not compatible. The strecht skin is a HDT problem . You have to check the HDT Physics Extension on the leftsite of MO for it work!