Hmm, just a suggestion. It would be nice to have an area you can sit in if you're happy to have private messages sent, just for getting to know/meeting people. You could have one for people who are okay with flirting, one for people who just want to game, etc. I know this is kind of what we already have but some of us (or maybe just me) like meeting people one-on-one rather than in a big chat room, and it would help to connect people with similar interests, and to be honest, I don't want to send people messages out of the blue and annoy them or come across as creepy. I'm sure I won't be the only person, given this is LoversLab, who is sometimes just gaming and goes "you know, I'd like to meet someone cool and new and get a bit flirty." And I think this would help make things more comfortable for everybody involved, particularly since around here we're really big on comfort and acceptance, and I'm sure there are people who aren't good around lots of people but would be interested in connecting with someone who would appreciate this. And my last point is that it means that it can be done in an acceptable way rather than having people feel like they're going to get kicked from the server just because they fancy someone and want to send a message.